Godu Ka gussa, guilt aur gol gol gold ring - Page 5

Completely agree with not liking the way virat stormed into pp's room. Even if they are "friends" i think there need to be some boundaries. Virat git upset just hearing the name of aniket but he thinks that since Sai already knows of his "friendship" with pp she should just be cool with it. Even though both of them clearly have had more than friendly feelings for each other and continue to make these slip ups where it seems like they still feel for each other.

I also think Ashwini dhould remind Virat of having a clear boundary with pp. Even if he doesn't call her bhabhi or vahini, that is their relationship. I think shes always "blamed" only pp but i dont know if she knows about virat's promise. Yes so far out if virat and pp we see pp being the one who oversteps her place and alnost acts like she thinks she is virats wife whereas  virat has been "formal" but today his actions were unecessary. He could have stormed into the balcony/kitchen/his mom's room but he walked straight to pp! 😡

I dont want to see pp-virat be "friends" . Pp is a delusional, evil, manipulative and selfish person. And virat is a confused guy. He looks like he understands everything, must be smart coz IPS-  but everytime pp is taunting or saying negative things about Sai he invariably looks like hes listening and pondering over her comments very seriously :(  unless she goes truly overboard he never stops her from bad-mouthing Sai. Everytime he has stopped PP from taunting Sai its been extreme- chilli grinding, education, Sai going empty stomach to college. But all the small instances every single day including her walking into their bedroom to insult his wife was unnoticed. Aise friendship ki zarurat hi nahi hai. 

Originally posted by: bones123

All things aside, the one thing that annoyed me the most in today’s episode was why can a grown man not just get himself food? You can fall in love in 1.47 days, give bheeshma pratigya in next1. 47, get transferred to GC, marry someone, give aate jaate logon ko lessons on machooority but you cannot serve yourself food? Yeh kaunsi entitlement haibey? Please how did you function when studying or training? And no...i'm not saying that no one should bring someone food...it's fine...when it's done outof love, without it being seen as some random duty a wife has to fulfil!! But Yahaan the way the makers showed it, it was like baseline expectation was metired me earn money me deserve to be brought food….and no his gussa = Khet ki Mooli, not bhook.

Haiii!! The only person I can't fault in this fiasco is my didi. She Asked all the right questions, gave the right emotions, and launched on the chance provided as any person looking for a gap would do. Didi was on point today! You have now given her more freedom to cook her khayali pulao (sans silbatta masala) and added to her delusional state of mind (I could almost visualise her in Uday Chopra of Dhoom scenario dreaming of little baby and baba Virakhis.Apun ki tu…apan tera).

I think the writers write Ashwini very patchily! I love the actor and she portrays the emotions so well, but I think sometimes she’s let down by the writing. Why Ashwini would you give my didi looks, but not your own beta oris this the conditioning you’ve had with Bhavani, that you fail to see the partplayed by others? It also jarred alag se when VC started with Sai bilkul nahi samajhti hai…UNCLE….you are angry at her for being happy outside of the confines of this house and without nadi as the main reason (khush dekhna chahta hoon,toh how does it matter ki Khushi kahan se mili?). If you can’t understand your emotions, how would she? Also you are now spying on your wife’s friends? I’m Really struggling to understand this jealously track, the way he’s playing it really reeks of toxic male syndrome. Bhai why you giving Jagtap level vibes to a college student, who currently hasn't even interacted with Sai! 

In other important questions,

·     Yeh log waise kaunse Time Warp mein hai…. are they travelling aage or peeche? Am I watching GHKKPM or Doctor Who?

·     Where are my Omi and Ninad and their tracksuits…badi yaad aa rahi hai unki…this yellow yellow thoda pheeka lag raha hai!

Waiseee….more wonderful chance pe dance by my didi with Usha Mausi!Koi hai nahi to jump for defence, so lag jaao ussi par…

 

I’m loving this Alexa feature in these posts…was giggling uncontrollably as I read through! Koi parcel karke aapke saare questions ko bhejo to our in-house Godu! But main question will be kaunse saal, kaunse mahine, kaunse din…cos currently ghum hai calendar kisi ke writingmein.

 

Banda khud ke liye khana nehi la sakta per ajivan brahmachari rehne ka pratigya le lia wah 👏 

Originally posted by: msin

Hi I agree with you Janaki

This is patriarchal attitude which gets the son’s to behave like this ..

Today virat was very wrong to step into PP ka room ..that was his elder brother ka bedroom .. she is his wife .. there’s a photo hanging there .. even if she forgets .. don’t u have any loyalty to your elder brother 

the way he treated Pakhi .. .. would he ever like to enter his room abd find Sai chatting up with another man .

Today Ashwini was on the right track but she covered up virat ka mistake .. I agree PP has crossed the lines many times inspite of her warning ..

Ashwini has told PP not to do tak jhak in virat Sai matters repeatedly so her showing off Pp was womanly upmanship 

But why was virat spared .. Ashwini could have said what are u doing in vahini ka room ..

When relationships are said loudly it reinforces the family borderlines .. ninad and Kaku are bum chums but there is still a modicum of relationship boundaries which are never crossed ..

virat by being allowed to call PP ... pakhi has been allowed a lot of free way .. and also with samrat away .. Things are becoming muddied with both his aunts encouraging one nephew wife to go after another 

Since there is no blood relationship for them .. it is just an issue if ego ..the people who’s families will be destroyed are mansi abd Ashwini ..

Ashwini talk was needed .. but she told virat sayi will mature .. her exact words and learn everything.. what about his responsibilities towards his young wife ..  why couldn’t she tell how much expectations are there for a young girl who is also studying a difficult profession.. so her son should step up and help his young wife .. rather than expecting his young wife to learn everything..

these are typical Indian set ups .. which become more and more complicated.. when more and more things add up .. bacchi ki zimmedari .. sooner or later .. Kaku will begin her master stroke and start asking sayi to provide the much needed heir .. then what about her course 

(i think in the above point she thinks that she will help her DIL learn the ways of the house. )

will the whole family wait for 6 years .. 

Her talk with sayi was good nothing wrong in this she gave good suggestions to her ..which any mother should give to her girl and also mother in law to her DIL

Virat seriously is enchanted by his wife ka dancing and cannot forget thus .. and it’s a big jolt to him that she might be Thi king about Aniket when she’s doing the steps .. uff Aniket was much needed 

And medical college is in his jurisdiction.. Kya baat hai .. tab toh waha Jana banta hai . He as it is drops his wife to college so many times .. so ek baar canteen me shakal dikha de .. toh atleast chai pani will be faster for madam ACP .. 

I hope 

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Suprabhat Bhagininno! 🌞🌻

A new week of Chakram niwas hysterics has been unleashed upon us. It was a good episode. Ashwini was the hero but... left a lot to be desired.

So as expected, Chavan Saheb had no answer to the spashth question: Aap ko bura kis baat Ka lag Raha hai.. Maine Aniket ke gaane par dance Kiya isiliye ya main is competition me participate Kar rahi hoon isiliye? 

And yes, he was really hungry by now so he decided to skip the jalebis and huff out of the room... But where did his feet take him? Straight through door that is always open for him 😖 and today, it looked like he even knows that. Sorry to say, but the way he just entered Bade Bhai ki wife Ka room, without even reducing his pace and straight into the middle of it -- as if it were his own room, his body language until Ashwini came was putting off. I don't think he did not realise that he had entered his missing brother's bedroom to ask for dinner... "Koi fark nahi padta, sab jaante hain tum mere liye khaana laati ho" 👏👏👏 virat barged into that room without even knocking. Too bad virat.why do I get the feeling that virat wants to hurt sai.verat knows really well that sai didn't like him with paakhi so I think virat purposefully went there

Anyway ACP didnt spill the beans about aniket.If  both were best friends I think virat would have felt comfortable enough to share his frustration with paakhi.But here virat knows that paakhi is not to be trusted.

I really loved how sai immediately realised her mistake.atta girl our sai

Mubarak ho, kal se freestyle Kathak ke badle Naagin naach Hoga inke bedroom me. He was angry and hungry but he was so aware about what he was doing.

For once, even PP Didi asked the correct question when he said Sai is participating in a dance competition: Isme problem kya hai? 😅😂😂 I'll tell you Didi, problem is this that your imaginary husband just saw his real wife in a graceful dance and thought she'd say 'You are the reason of my happiness'. But it turns out that some other guy -- some khet-- made her so happy that she broke into a dance. Aapke imaginary husband ko hazm nahi ho raha hai. But he does remember the guy's name now because he almost told you "Wo Ani..." But Chavan saheb was so hungry that he ate up the khet. And he was so alert not to let the actual reason slip out in front of even his ex lover. If he has said it, she would have caught that immediately and even used it to her opportunity.. for all you know, ACP se pehle round up par Army wife pohach jaati medical college 😂

 

Coming back, I cannot condone this walking right into the bedroom of an ex-lover just because you're besides yourself with your spouse! How far is his mother's room? And more importantly, how far is the kitchen? Can't a trained IPS officer serve himself dinner? 😒😒 Why does he need someone to show him what's for dinner? And did he not know that his screaming out to PP Didi must have been heard by everyone who heard the wife dancing to the song? So because he was calling out to PP, Bhavani decided to stay in her room because she didn't want to interrupt her one chaheete bete ki Susheel bahu's opportunity to entice her other chaheeta beta? Warna toh even a vase breaking in the corner of the bedroom makes everyone rush out to check if an earthquake has struck the mansion.

But what was this barging into PP's room about? And no, for once I don't want to blame Patralekha. She did not step out of her room and I appreciate it. Yes, she wanted to grab the opportunity once he was there because it is the only thing she honestly wants -- this time with him that he was offering her today. There is nothing else she wants as sincerely as this. 😑

Virat's one visit to her bedroom in that state has opened up all doors of hope for her. And it has undone any little boundary that he has laid so far by telling her not to wait for him or maintaining that physical distance. It came completely undone. 😔 I liked it that for once Patralekha perhaps stayed back in her room knowing that Virat is on Sai's side, especially after the chilli grinding payback but now can you blame her for feeling that he's showing signs of seeking her too -- unaware that it is his growing desire for Sai that is making him lose control on his mind. She would rightfully think that he's regretting Sai's presence in his life. And when she asked him the question, he fuelled it with "Sai doesn't understand!"so true virat.agree with every word .ACP dug his own grave .😡

Chalo Chavan Saheb, at least your true love and your imaginary wife will understand that you're not over her as she was beginning to feel and that you are still seeking her, thinking about her and yearning to have dinners with her. All in all: she has her answer to "Will my ex return to me". Her bubble will burst soon but...

Why should Patralekha be blamed for Virat walking into her bedroom at that hour? And Ashwini, yes she intervened at the right time but left me very disappointed. She said the right things to him about his relationship with Sai but what about his act of visiting PP Didi. If she skipped it because "Mera beta bhookha tha", then I am sorry, he is also no kid that he cannot be admonished for this. Why does Ashwini have to give Patralekha the looks she did while taking away her 'Godu' after the cheek pulling? It seemed like, "See I saved my son from falling into your enticement". Why Ashwini? 

This is exactly how women feed the sense of entitlement that men feel over women. Why couldn't she chastise him more than just saying, 'Tumhe Patralekha ke room me dinner Karne ki zaroorat Nahi hai", which was actually a taunt to PP and not her son. Did Ashwini forget that it was he, who was there and not Patralekha who had crossed her line this time. I find this extremely unacceptable. And while I felt sorry for PP, I know that Virat's thoughtless act, which was deliberate, is only going to have PP find more space between Sai and him. All this for what? Jealousy? What do you call a man, who cannot communicate his frustration to his wife and decides to visit an ex lover for solace, without having addressed the issue that his wife's frustration for him comes from this very fact that there are three people in the marriage! 

Is it wrong to call him a product of patriarchy -- he is so enraged with the thought of his wife having danced for someone else that he feels entitled to visit his ex lover in the middle of the night because no one in that entire mansion can serve him dinner? 

 Come on, Chavan, you can do better than this. Please fill that requisition form for your personal domestic attendant.😑

The actual exchange between the mother and son at the dining table was heart warming but I couldn't help feel it was incomplete. Just because Ashwini did nothing to remind him of his 'hadh'. I think, from now on, if she only gives lectures to Patralekha, I wouldn't really like it. It was a scene I was waiting for and so beautifully executed! 

Thank God for small mercies. He apologised to Ashwini after being in denial that he had made a mistake. So, he knew he made a mistake but he didn't want to acknowledge it in front of Sai when she was reminding him? Ego? Because he was upset in real due to the Amey issue and not because of her badtameezi, which he used as a cloak to yell and rant at everyone coming in his way.

I really loved ashwani and sons interaction. If ashwani scold virat for entering his badi bhabhis room when the said women is in her sleepwear,I would have loved it more.But the way he told sorry was soo beautiful. And only a mother knows how to lift her sons mood..

I liked the rawness with which he apologised to his mother -- he was genuinely sorry and a mess even now. But because everyone is only able to see that he's upset because of the family Vs Sai match, the actual drilling sense into the head will not happen. "Tum fit ho gale ke neeche se... Upar laal gubbara" 😂😅 but Ashwini doesn't know the reason is not the "Jali Kati baatein" so her assurance that Sai will be the best Bahu is not what he needs -- although he liked hearing that but he already knows her potential on that front. Since he doesn't want to reveal the actual problem, it will be a while before someone can make him see the mirror. Of course, in the end, it was the mention of Sai that even made him smile but his act in the beginning had totally left a bad taste already. 

It is significant how he begins fidgeting with his wedding ring when he's upset with Sai and ranting incoherent things -- he did that during the nasty fight the earlier night and even today. I wish it serves him a reminder of the sanctum sanctorum that the space between a husband and wife is meant to be -- not just the physical space but also the mental and emotional. He cannot be inviting a third person in his moments of madness to occupy that space. 

And really, again, is this how he will be when he is jealous about other men being around Sai? By walking into bade Bhai ki wife's bedroom and space? Is it not taking advantage of the fact that his brother is not there? Would he have gone to that bedroom and even been open to the idea of eating dinner with Patralekha in there if Samrat was around? Today, he crossed his line.

Mirror, mirror on the wall: who is the more vulnerable of them all? There was something about the juxtaposition of Sai speaking into the mirror and acknowledging how Virat's behaviour affects her -- it happens, dewdrop, when the man is beside himself and you can't figure out why but you still want him back to end the argument. And the mirror in the room of Mallika-e-Maturity, showing a reflection of Ashwini pulling her Godu back into the line he had crossed tonight.

I loved how Sai immediately realised her mistake. Of the two of them, she's the one who acknowledges and speaks first. She knew she had taunted him about PP Didi deliberately and she was already regretting it. Obviously, she didn't know it would drive him so mad and until she gets at least a peek into his mind, she wouldn't know why it has become a trigger for him. 

I am glad Ashwini gave her a piece of her mind in the morning. Just like Virat, Sai will also need help in dealing with these new emotions. She's become a pro at covering it up with the bachchi act. But yes, Ashwini is right, "Badi ho Jaao".. at least Badi enough to see that he's seeking you and to not bring in the third person in between that space that you both need to cover -- who takes the first or more number of steps is secondary. 

What an irony, Virat completely lost his cool because Sai brought PP in between them by her words and he ended up bringing PP in between them in person!

What an irony that the man who's being the wind beneath her wings has also turned into a sudden gusty wind in the sky she's flying. She doesn't know which way to go but birds, when they encounter windy weather, tend to hunker down and find shelter in thick hedges or nearest trees. Sai will find many such trees around her now that she's in her flight but it is also true that birds need a push from  the high winds to fly and then there are some birds who also fly against the wind pressures -- the migratory ones that don't fear flying away from the comfort of their known homes. Of course, in the end, all birds return to their nest. 

I really loved this analogy. I think virat has got no pbm with sai dancing. If he was sure in sais love I think he wont be the possessive jealous husband we are seeing now.

*****

So ACP Chavan is indeed going on a round up 😂😂 chalo, in his moment of recalling the last night's incident, he gave a clear insight into how the whole mesmerising dance he witnessed turned sour for him the moment he learnt that the source of happiness for that dance was another man... So, Virat is officially yearning for the whole of his 'wife' -- tan, man aur antarman se... Dhan se kya yearn Karna... Woh to hai hi Kohinoor! But IPS peak cap, thoda sa off the mark tha, Chavan Saheb. Please straighten your cap and also the brain under it and let the thoughts transmit to your mouth and meet your voice so that your wife can hear what she's been waiting to hear too... Dinner ke saath dessert bhi Mila karega 😆😉 and no, not in the form of the jalebis you serve 😂

But usse pehle, please tell me, who will round up the mess you have created in the passage between your bedroom and your bade Bhai's? 😣

***

When Chavan Saheb returns home after his round up:

Sai: Alexa, let's share a "best friend" joke with Virat Sir

Alexa: Unfortanately I do not have enough space to store a "best friend" joke

Sai: Hawww! Alexa, why?

Alexa:Because your Virat Sir's best friend takes up all of it...

ACP: Alexa! Not funny. 

Alexa: I am programmed to not make mistakes. It wasn't meant to be funny.

ACP: Alexa, change. 

Alexa: In algebra, we look at 'x' and wonder 'y'. But if you visit a garage sale this weekend and think of buying back your own crap, you'll end up only with the 'x' and totally lose the a, b and c of what you actually set out to see. 

ACP: Alexa, I don't understand...

Sai: Alexa, forget it.snd play Muthukodi kawadi hadaa..

Alexa: Playing...

ACP: 😳

Sai: 👩‍💻👩‍🏫😐

*****

How high can we fly today? It's a bird's imagination that determines how high it will fly, not the wings... So, fly, fly, fly high against the sky, so high you almost touch the sky... And do listen to Wind Beneath My Wings by Bette Middler if you please..

Have a great take off to the week's flight today with coffee ☕☕☕ tea 🍵🍵🍵 and lots of hugs 🤗 🤗 free. 

Aaj chappals Ka bag thoda empty ho Gaya hai... So collection is on (*heels will be preferred, buyback policy temporarily suspended) 

Yahan tak aane ke liye manapurvak aabhar 🙏 Aapke vichar padhne ke liye man adhir rahega.

Love you all!

💓J

super analysis. Alexa sai interaction 🤣.will  alexa have a convo with badi bhabhi in the near future😆

Edited by Jiss555 - 3 years ago

Originally posted by: msin

Hi I agree with you Janaki

This is patriarchal attitude which gets the son’s to behave like this ..

Today virat was very wrong to step into PP ka room ..that was his elder brother ka bedroom .. she is his wife .. there’s a photo hanging there .. even if she forgets .. don’t u have any loyalty to your elder brother 

the way he treated Pakhi .. .. would he ever like to enter his room abd find Sai chatting up with another man .

Today Ashwini was on the right track but she covered up virat ka mistake .. I agree PP has crossed the lines many times inspite of her warning ..

Ashwini has told PP not to do tak jhak in virat Sai matters repeatedly so her showing off Pp was womanly upmanship 

But why was virat spared .. Ashwini could have said what are u doing in vahini ka room ..

When relationships are said loudly it reinforces the family borderlines .. ninad and Kaku are bum chums but there is still a modicum of relationship boundaries which are never crossed ..

virat by being allowed to call PP ... pakhi has been allowed a lot of free way .. and also with samrat away .. Things are becoming muddied with both his aunts encouraging one nephew wife to go after another 

Since there is no blood relationship for them .. it is just an issue if ego ..the people who’s families will be destroyed are mansi abd Ashwini ..

How true! That is such a sorry fact and in the name of "parivaar ko ek saath rakhna". At the end, these Kakus will be forgiven for their age but it will be PP who will end up in a dark hole if Samrat doesn't return in time and she doesn't take a step back. 

Ashwini talk was needed .. but she told virat sayi will mature .. her exact words and learn everything.. what about his responsibilities towards his young wife ..  why couldn’t she tell how much expectations are there for a young girl who is also studying a difficult profession.. so her son should step up and help his young wife .. rather than expecting his young wife to learn everything..

these are typical Indian set ups .. which become more and more complicated.. when more and more things add up .. bacchi ki zimmedari .. sooner or later .. Kaku will begin her master stroke and start asking sayi to provide the much needed heir .. then what about her course 

will the whole family wait for 6 years .. 

Her talk with sayi was good nothing wrong in this she gave good suggestions to her ..which any mother should give to her girl and also mother in law to her DIL

Virat seriously is enchanted by his wife ka dancing and cannot forget thus .. and it’s a big jolt to him that she might be Thi king about Aniket when she’s doing the steps .. uff Aniket was much needed 

And medical college is in his jurisdiction.. Kya baat hai .. tab toh waha Jana banta hai . He as it is drops his wife to college so many times .. so ek baar canteen me shakal dikha de .. toh atleast chai pani will be faster for madam ACP .. 

I hope 

Did virat really take bhishma pratigya .., if yes ..how do we get around that 😳.. but bhishma could not  be coerced into marriage.. marriage vows are bigger than any vows

Edited by msin - 3 years ago

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

He just turns it around in its place -- I found it interesting because, it's generally a sign that the person is hiding emotions. The anxiety and restlessness at not being able to express what is actually bothering. I don't want to discern it an act for loyalty or cheating but definitely feels like he's aware he is not able to express what he wants to say.

He was doing it when he turned his back on Sai after the "Haan maine bohat Kiya hai tumhare liye" and the Aaba comparison she made. 

Today he was doing it while talking about Sai not understanding how 'jali Kati baatein' affects him which is actually not true. He can handle all that when his emotions are under his control. He's restless because he's losing control on what he thought he'd be able to control -- Dil Ka machalna and Dil Ka jalna😅

Yes that is what I wanted to know, whether he was ghoomaoing it gol gol ya phir up and down. It indicates his total restlessness in relation to Sai. It's actually what Sai told Pakhi "Woh bechain ho jatey hain, khana peena chod dete hain, unki halat kharab ho jati hain" its so ironical, she told Pakhi all this on how he gets w Pakhi but that's actually how he gets w her not slithering naagin lol 

It was never about the food. He was not hangry but he is deprived of something else which Aai cannot help. Ashwini misled Sai. Sai will only think about food now and his other needs will be ignored making him angrier.😆

Originally posted by: msin

Did virat really take bhishma pratigya .., if yes ..how do we get around that 😳.. but bhishma could not  be coerced into marriage.. marriage vows are bigger than any vows

I wouldn't say Bhishma Pratigya (as he is a modern day Bhishma). He didn't say i would not get married, he said "Main kisi aur ladki ko apne dil aur zindagi mein jagah nahi dunga". 

Which technically he didn't but with Sai, she is making her way to his heart, apni jagah woh bana legi. 

@Janki your thoughts are welcome. My logical brain has to come up with a spashta description as to why did Chavan saheb go in that den today. I did not find it wrong, but vaihni insulting Sai and he not defending that is definitely wrong. 

Originally posted by: scarlett22

On a re-watch, I guess Ashwini did not mention PP because she wanted them to focus on each other. Then automatically, no third person can cause a problem. She listed out Sai's loveable traits to Virat and on the other hand,  told Sai very clearly. ..Spashth shabd mein... taking Pakhi's name was not needed, and two.. give him food when he comes back home. 

So I noticed she added 'ill feed you everyday', she meant it as a joke but it was sending a message to Virat that she will give him his dinner if required. He need not call PP, but it was a very subtle comment. 

I agree with that. Her "main roz khilaungi" was an assurance he needed. I am surprised he never goes to meet his mother on his own. In fact, it was so visible how with him going away with Aai from that den, it took away PP's opportunity to spew venom, which she would have done otherwise and he would have just silently heard because he's totally unable to get a grip on this jealousy.. but instead it turned into a sharing for Ashwini and reinforced his positive thoughts about Sai. 

My problem is not with her silence today, per se. It is her overall conduct in this matter. She gives Virat the long rope and those chastising looks to PP, even today. When she clearly knew he was the one screaming out for her and he was found in her room. So, it was not the time to tell him negative things, given. But why give PP those looks? She's being biased in her anger.