Wise Words From Varun Dhawan

https://twitter.com/Varun_dvn/status/1268558582766657537

This strategy won't work if you are surrounded by toxic and judgemental people.

Scenario 1: You belong to a family who try to dictate every decision you make in your life. Overbearing parents who are hard to please and are unsupportive of your dreams and ambitions.

Scenario 2: You hangout with a shallow group of friends. Everything is a matter of appearance to them. How you look, what you wear, what car you use.

Scenario 3: You have grown up in a close minded society. Anything out of the norm is frowned upon. And everyone's biggest concern is "log Kya kahenge"....

In any of these cases, making people around you happy will be a tall order, and in most cases will suck the life out of you.

I get what Varun tried to convey: we should all be humanitarian and try to bring a smile on other people's faces. But sadly most of the time, we are surrounded by bigots who deserve none of our thoughts.

Originally posted by: FilmiDhun

This strategy won't work if you are surrounded by toxic and judgemental people.

Scenario 1: You belong to a family who try to dictate every decision you make in your life. Overbearing parents who are hard to please and are unsupportive of your dreams and ambitions.

Scenario 2: You hangout with a shallow group of friends. Everything is a matter of appearance to them. How you look, what you wear, what car you use.

Scenario 3: You have grown up in a close minded society. Anything out of the norm is frowned upon. And everyone's biggest concern is "log Kya kahenge"....

In any of these cases, making people around you happy will be a tall order, and in most cases will suck the life out of you.

I get what Varun tried to convey: we should all be humanitarian and try to bring a smile on other people's faces. But sadly most of the time, we are surrounded by bigots who deserve none of our thoughts.

identify these ass, and leave them unhappy

Originally posted by: FilmiDhun

This strategy won't work if you are surrounded by toxic and judgemental people.

Scenario 1: You belong to a family who try to dictate every decision you make in your life. Overbearing parents who are hard to please and are unsupportive of your dreams and ambitions.

Scenario 2: You hangout with a shallow group of friends. Everything is a matter of appearance to them. How you look, what you wear, what car you use.

Scenario 3: You have grown up in a close minded society. Anything out of the norm is frowned upon. And everyone's biggest concern is "log Kya kahenge"....

In any of these cases, making people around you happy will be a tall order, and in most cases will suck the life out of you.

I get what Varun tried to convey: we should all be humanitarian and try to bring a smile on other people's faces. But sadly most of the time, we are surrounded by bigots who deserve none of our thoughts.

WORD. 

Imo, scenarios 2 and 3 are easy to avoid if u have a healthy happy supportive functional family but scenario 1 is the worst since you cannot avoid the people who are making you feel like crap. 

Dodging every other person is very easy but dodging one's own parents who are being negative and taana-maraoing all the time can really mess up your focus. You're living with the bigots.

Completely disagree with him. You can't please everyone. Not everyone around you wishes good for you. Snakes can be  there around you in form of humans. This wrong notion of making people happy around you have led to many people becoming the victim of domestic abuse. He might have meant not the  same but it's easy to say when you don't go through that or when you try to ignore the reality while reading in newspaper and watching the news of such brutal incidents happening in families or extended families . Domestic violence cases are there. Child molestation cases are there. Even suicide and depression cases are on rise because of one's own family.  Lots of people sacrifice their lives for others to please people and get nothing in return. Harsh ,bitter truth. One needs to know their priorities and choose to who to ignore and who to take care of. I agree with @FilmiDhun completely. It doesn't work in such scenarios. People around us can be wrong too and we should know the difference between who is right and who is wrong so that we support the right ones. 

Can he stick to being a tapori? Not interested in the Ved Talks