Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight
@bold - Anu its actually something abir wanted not only for mish but for himself too he has always wanted meenu to understand him, bond with him.. even if they live in rjv meenu n kunal are his only family like real family so he wants everyone to be normal.. meenu n normal are like poles apart... he knows that too but still he keeps trying to make her understand, he even tries to understand her at times too but she next second she does something n he is back to his withdrawn self... he also said the same about kunal mish too he wanted them to bond n finally thats happening n he is happy to see it... but still there were time when he was fed up of kunals attitude towards mish he waited for this to happen...
likewise he is waiting for meenu to understand mish.. its like a far fetched wish he knew that too but still he just expressed his wish... about mish understanding meenu he wants her not to hate meenu but at same time he does want her to be careful of big ben... he wants mish to understand both her good n bad side...
and the balcony scene is something related to him n meenu.. like i said he wants meenu to understand him n he too tries to bridge the gap but then when mish talked about it he didnt want discuss about it... its like taking a dig at meenu n abir relationship... the taunt actually is his way of making meenu understand his point, his way of trying to change meenu... he is still not ready to talk about their relationship meenu n him but he does want mish n meenu to bond.. very contrived wish... 😆 he has this fear of facing reality be it searching his father, facing mah after break up, now also his n meenu relationship is something he is feared to take a dig at.. it took him time to open up about baba to mish, once even during kuku after shaadi mish said him to talk to meenu but he said its not a new thing its something purana, he is still not ready for this... this is just my opinion... i for a while liked meenu n abir bond in starting they have this love hate kind of relationship n i love their taunts n convo... both are the only one who can face each other heads on... i so wanted makers to explore it more but not now... meenu has gone beyond limit still lets see when they both will get forefront n their equation change...
Hey Diya, you’ve made some interesting points here 😊....I do agree with a lot of what you are saying but there are some crucial differences between Abir’s hope for Kunal and his hope for Meenu.
Kunal’s love for Abir may also have been possessive but ultimately it was child-like....so even if he was jealous of Mishti and MU-ed her, ultimately Abir’s pain for Mishti brought Kunal back from the brink too. He is not as much of a control freak as Meenu....infact he happily submits to Abir on many things.
Meenu is a different level of control freak and psychotic personality.....there is nothing believable about her feelings for Abir or Kunal...she treats all people in her life like instruments for control.....so that is a very obvious difference from Kunal that Abir is aware of....and still he has this hope of some dreamworld where Meenu will be a simple happy mom to all? 😕😆....isko toh extreme naive idealism hi keh sakte hain....on this point, Abir will always remain bhola I guess so that the show can keep doing drama while he keeps hoping against hope that his mom will stop scheming 😕😆
I also feel he isn’t realizing that he’s unwittingly putting pressure on the one who actually genuinely loves him - Mishti. He may want this ideal universe with Meenu but Mishti is the one who will take on the pressure of trying to make it happen for him by pushing herself to bond with his mom, pushing herself to believe in his idealistic dream even if he covers it with cynicism about Meenu. Mishti samajh gayi hai that no matter what he says, he actually wants HSSH with Meenu, so she will try to make it happen for him. Sadly, they will both keep on suffering endlessly in chasing this mirage of reformed Meenu 😕🤷♀️
Writers ke whitewashing and contrived writing se toh Meenu’s so called “reformation” will never be believable anyways. So it’s like a stalemate on both sides....Abir can’t give up his idealism and hope for Meenu and Meenu can never give up her planning and plotting....beech mein pisegi Mishti and other pawns in the families 🤷♀️😆
she wall still very bold in her own way... 
lol today I also did a lot of binocular analysis 
this elevated the scene for me to another level ...of course we don't expect anything less from such scenes and mishbir symbolism there ....hain na 
This I wrote in fun ...I had no idea that what i wrote in fun will actually be benba's bitter reality one day 
so if the pills fiasco is just an accident then also kuhu did absolutely nothing to rectify it even after she realised what blunder had happened...she was the only one who knew the after effects of the pill ..🤔
She shouldn't hide either because clearly abir is a victim here 
n obviously everyone will notice abir's state so who how what when why toh puchenge ge hi ....expecting Mrs Angry Chorni in her full mode 
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