I don't think it's right blaming everyone in both fam for Kuhu's stupid insecurities & jealousy, she needs to think & act maturely! The way she's behaving and competing every damn thing with Mishti which seriously wrong and she should know abt it. You can't expect everyone around you or only focus on you! This is really childish behavior of her. Can't everyone is wrong and only she's right. She finally got Kunal's love but instead to feel this happiness she constantly upset with everything! Happiness is the Choice but unfortunately she ignore all her happiness and choosing only sadness. Mishti choose happiness over the sadness that she can't marry in mandap which was only her right but she choose Abir over everything! Kuhu's this thing hurt me a lot that she choose her hatred over Kunal's love. Now i'm worried she'll desrespect/insult Kunal's love due to jealous with Mishbir & which will be the last thing for me!đĄ
I do think everyone has a part to play including herself and I still sympathise with her. I was visualising the future scenes and story. Kuhuâs relationship with the family members has simply been summarised in dialogues till date and I donât see that changing. On the contrary, I trust the makers to undo everything and make it seem that all her relationships were actually superficial đ¤˘đ¤Ś.
Again, I donât agree that she isnât happy. I quite like the fact that sheâs shown to be extremely happy now that Kunalâs on board with this marriage but she also canât just supress her anxiousness and feelings of insecurity. I believe you canât switch one emotion on and the rest off. Or at least not everyone can âput it onâ.
And i can't understand one thing here why everyone wants Kunal first priorities should be Kuhu now instead his fam! It's clear from first episode that Kunal's first priorities is his family after that someone he will love (wife). Then why everyone wants Kunal should change his priorities because of Kuhu entered his life and she loved him. If someone love you and you love them doesn't mean you should be change and if someone wants you to change for them then That's Not Love. In five months Kuhu knew very well how much Kunal loves his family and if you can't love the person whom he/she is and expect to change them then your love is FAKE.. And giving first priorities to your fam is not any wrong thing but it is a RIGHT thing cause today who you are because of your family not the girl who entered your life after you become something. Just because he's in love with Kuhu doesn't mean now he changes his priorities and become joru-ka-gulam. And many ppl upset why Kunal leaves Kuhu in mandap to watch Mishbir shaadi. C'mon guys, his big brother doing his first marriage and off course he was excited equally along with his own marriage to see the shaadi.. so, i think over the excitement he forget to ask Kuhu to go with him, which is very simple thing but Kuhu made it biggest issue out of her jealousy!
Here fans don't want KuKu become cheesy couple but expect Kunal will hold Kuhu's hand everywhere, doing ankho ankho me romance
Arre! kisi ek chis ke liye bolo, Behno
My frustration towards Kunal may have seemed harsh because I havenât watched the episode. What I understood from everyoneâs posts was that the scene of Kunal leaving Kuhu was intentional. A foreshadowing of their relationship and that strikes a fear in me.
I donât think anyone here is asking Kunal to solely focus on Kuhu. And youâre right, there is a great possibility that Kuhu becomes disillusioned to the extent that she doesnât see the small efforts that Kunal may make towards her but thatâs something theyâll need to work on. This is actually where and why some of us are relying on Kunal to make Kuhu realise that she doesnât need to feel like sheâs constantly living in Mishtiâs shadow. Sheâs perfect as her own individual self; his beautiful rainbow. Right now her insecurity and jealously is somewhat self-destructive and it would be nice to see Kunal asking her to not âwaste her smileâ and help her out this horrible phase.
Kunal absolutely doesnât have to do all this (it would be nice if could return the favour â just being cheeky heređ). But I donât find it completely irrational to rely a little on the people I love to help me see where I need the support, where Iâm going wrong and guide me in the right direction.
I think, I've covered everything but abhi aur nahin likh sakti. Ek taraf kaam ka pressure aur dusre taraf in makers ka đ.
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