Why does PARAS hate ASIM? Consistent throughout season.

It began with him calling Asim “Miss Delhi”, “Miss Beautiful”

Feel like there is missing footage we are not seeing. Who started it and is the hostility happening outside of the aired footage.

Originally posted by: Atomicbomb

It began with him calling Asim “Miss Delhi”, “Miss Beautiful”

Feel like there is missing footage we are not seeing. Who started it and is the hostility happening outside of the aired footage.

It started from the premiere night itself when Paras was telling Asim to not be okay with Mahira making him a brother, to which Asim said it doesn’t matter and then paras got pissed and he was like Maar khayega mujhse or something along those lines.

Paras for some reason thinks Asim is beneath him and doesn’t deserve to be on the show in front of him.

Originally posted by: Atomicbomb

It began with him calling Asim “Miss Delhi”, “Miss Beautiful”

Feel like there is missing footage we are not seeing. Who started it and is the hostility happening outside of the aired footage.

I think it's mutual dislike & the natural setup in the house makes them fight. Don't think they hate each other, just competitors IMO 😊

Paras's provisional gf called Asim 'bhai' and Asim's confused gf called Paras 'bhai'. bhai-bhai ka jhagda hai ye😆

I think its an inferiority-born-superiority complex. Showbiz is really cutthroat as an industry, and 'clout' is everything. In the Indian/sub-continental case, this is even way more important than anywhere else. Its impossibly hard to get work purely based on talent (acting, singing, modeling, whatever it is) and it really matters who/how many people know you. Unfortunately, over time, in this toxic environment, this idea of clout and fame becomes a weird currency of self-worth to these guys. There is a reason why everyone in Bigg Boss (almost all seasons) immediately jump to 'aukat' (worth) in fights. Its because they live/work in such a mindf**k space where self-worth is almost useless and your livelihood is governed by other people's perception of your worth. This is easier to say, but almost impossible for people outside this TV/modeling/movies bubble to understand.

So, Paras's behavior reflects a deeply insecure mindset, which is actually pretty understandable. (let me be clear - I am NOT saying its forgivable at all: battameezi is battameezi) So, this show is a huge opportunity for him (since he is mostly known for Splitsvilla, which is a step down from BB in terms of audience engagement and money). When he came on the show, he must have been enamored by everything he was seeing - Salman Khan, fellow contestants Sid Shukla, Rashmi, Aarti, who are all well-known in TV circles. Then, he saw Asim - a younger guy who has alot of confidence who isn't even at Paras's level before he started the show. So, given his insecurity and misplaced ego about 'earning' his place in the show, Paras feels like how did this kid end up here? Its a really sad and pathetic way to view the world, because you will always be fighting with your own value of self-worth and you will never stop comparing yourself with other people. Also, worth noting - whenever he is nominated he kicks up the battameezi by a few notches. Case in point - his behavior since Monday 😆

Overall, Asim has to unfortunately deal with him because he's locked up in this madhouse with him. But in the real world, people like Asim (at least based on what I have seen so far) are so strong willed that they sort of do their own thing and find their own versions of success in it. Meanwhile, people more like Paras are constantly valuing themselves in comparison to others and its much harder for them to find inner peace.

One more very notable example of this thinking:

- When Paras had a tiff with Abu, he immediately told him "You who knew you before the show?" as a taunt. Abu is a very successful (probably the most successful single-person non-corporate) event organizer in the hindi speaking world. If you have ever attended concerts or bollywood tour shows (especially in north america or india), you probably have been to a show run by Abu. But for Paras, its all about clout. What you built, how much you made, how valued your projects are etc don't mean much - its all about how famous you are. So, its pretty f**ked up and eventually, it really only hurts your own self-worth in life. This is one of the main reasons I never even considered working in a field where my name is a brand before my work - it just messes up your mind after a certain while. Also, this is why social media (and things like insta followers/likes) is so dangerous for young kids, it totally messes up your self-worth as a human being.

[If anyone here hasn't seen it - check our Zoya Akhtar's Luck By Chance. Its an absolutely beautiful and masterful work of art, and it deals with exactly this problem of self-worth and working on other's definition of success in Bollywood. Amazing movie, can't recommend enough!]

Originally posted by: Atomicbomb

It began with him calling Asim “Miss Delhi”, “Miss Beautiful”

Feel like there is missing footage we are not seeing. Who started it and is the hostility happening outside of the aired footage.

I feel like it's jealousy and insecurity. Paras feels like Asim is beneath him and so the fact Salman praises Asim and mocks Paras makes Paras really pissed.

Just like the fact that a girl like Himanshi makes him her bhai while flirts with Asim drives him crazy. Hence, the taunts to Himanshi 😂😂.

Simply put Paras reeks of jealousy.

Paras is secretly attracted to Asim and he covers it up by being hostile to him.

Wow! This is such an insight in Paras's pysche. You should do an analysis on all the contestants.

Originally posted by: NepaliArtist

I think its an inferiority-born-superiority complex. Showbiz is really cutthroat as an industry, and 'clout' is everything. In the Indian/sub-continental case, this is even way more important than anywhere else. Its impossibly hard to get work purely based on talent (acting, singing, modeling, whatever it is) and it really matters who/how many people know you. Unfortunately, over time, in this toxic environment, this idea of clout and fame becomes a weird currency of self-worth to these guys. There is a reason why everyone in Bigg Boss (almost all seasons) immediately jump to 'aukat' (worth) in fights. Its because they live/work in such a mindf**k space where self-worth is almost useless and your livelihood is governed by other people's perception of your worth. This is easier to say, but almost impossible for people outside this TV/modeling/movies bubble to understand.

So, Paras's behavior reflects a deeply insecure mindset, which is actually pretty understandable. (let me be clear - I am NOT saying its forgivable at all: battameezi is battameezi) So, this show is a huge opportunity for him (since he is mostly known for Splitsvilla, which is a step down from BB in terms of audience engagement and money). When he came on the show, he must have been enamored by everything he was seeing - Salman Khan, fellow contestants Sid Shukla, Rashmi, Aarti, who are all well-known in TV circles. Then, he saw Asim - a younger guy who has alot of confidence who isn't even at Paras's level before he started the show. So, given his insecurity and misplaced ego about 'earning' his place in the show, Paras feels like how did this kid end up here? Its a really sad and pathetic way to view the world, because you will always be fighting with your own value of self-worth and you will never stop comparing yourself with other people. Also, worth noting - whenever he is nominated he kicks up the battameezi by a few notches. Case in point - his behavior since Monday 😆

Overall, Asim has to unfortunately deal with him because he's locked up in this madhouse with him. But in the real world, people like Asim (at least based on what I have seen so far) are so strong willed that they sort of do their own thing and find their own versions of success in it. Meanwhile, people more like Paras are constantly valuing themselves in comparison to others and its much harder for them to find inner peace.

One more very notable example of this thinking:

- When Paras had a tiff with Abu, he immediately told him "You who knew you before the show?" as a taunt. Abu is a very successful (probably the most successful single-person non-corporate) event organizer in the hindi speaking world. If you have ever attended concerts or bollywood tour shows (especially in north america or india), you probably have been to a show run by Abu. But for Paras, its all about clout. What you built, how much you made, how valued your projects are etc don't mean much - its all about how famous you are. So, its pretty f**ked up and eventually, it really only hurts your own self-worth in life. This is one of the main reasons I never even considered working in a field where my name is a brand before my work - it just messes up your mind after a certain while. Also, this is why social media (and things like insta followers/likes) is so dangerous for young kids, it totally messes up your self-worth as a human being.

[If anyone here hasn't seen it - check our Zoya Akhtar's Luck By Chance. Its an absolutely beautiful and masterful work of art, and it deals with exactly this problem of self-worth and working on other's definition of success in Bollywood. Amazing movie, can't recommend enough!]

Kyoki takle ko takla bola. Asim ko roj Paras pe ganjju patel wala gaana sunana chahiye. The way he was teasing Himanshi and attacking Arti and Shefali.

I would have started singing ganju patel song all day long.

Ganju patel teri khopdi pe tel, maara patakha choot gayi rel 🤣

Jaise ko taisa.

Originally posted by: Kinginthenorth9

I feel like it's jealousy and insecurity. Paras feels like Asim is beneath him and so the fact Salman praises Asim and mocks Paras makes Paras really pissed.

Just like the fact that a girl like Himanshi makes him her bhai while flirts with Asim drives him crazy. Hence, the taunts to Himanshi 😂😂.

Simply put Paras reeks of jealousy.

Paras made Himanshi his bhen, not the other way around.

OT: He considered him competition in the beginning as the other young guy, but that myth was quickly dispelled as no girl took any particular interest in him. I remember Asim was hitting on Bagga when she was working out and she had the most disgusted look on her face. At this point, its just footage as Paras is friends with everyone else in the house. He only has Asim/Himanshi/Shefali to pick from, really.