Originally posted by: made-in-charms
And what exactly makes her insecure of mishti ? I would have totally understood if she would have been treated differently by the family but that's not the case. She has no knowledge even about her illegitimacy which could have served one of the reasons for her insecurity.
That's the point she's young and delusional and definitely has no clue what maturity is , this is what makes me think she is definitely not ready for marriage. And I do not know about Kuhu but i feel Kunal deserves better.
I have had a cousin who was very similar to Kuhu in my life. She had a very insecure because of me even though I never did anything in real to give her that impression. She was my aunt's daughter and at times I used to stay there. Her father was very friendly with children and I liked him for that. He would take us to zoo and parks and tell stories while my dad did not. It did not mean that I wanted him as my dad or that I would take her place in any way. Yet she feared that her parents may love me more than her because of my traits and nature. This fear increased especially after my dad died when I was still a little girl. She did not want me to be too friendly with her sister too. Because she feared that her sister might like me more than her too.
Mind is an abyss at times. Why a person feels the way he does is known only to them. It may make sense only to them. I was reading about this serial killer who ate the heart of one of his boy victims. He said he did that because he thought by doing so, he could also become strong and courageous like that boy.
Although the family loves both the girls, given that Mishti wins in sports at school as well as does better in school has created a barrier between the two girls. The family will be more happy about Mishti's accomplishments and celebrate it while Kuhu is not. Also since the family knows Mishti's backstory, they pity her and try to compensate what Mishti doesn't have by showing more love for her. They try to make sure that Mishti is not reminded of her father or that she is not part of the family. They put extra effort to make her feel like she belongs to the family. While the family does none of these things to Kuhu. It's like the first child being jealous of the attention the second child gets.
Only when Kuhu grows wiser and starts understanding life will she be able to come out of her insecurities and realize the love her family has for her. That is when she will be able to let go of her fears.
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