Decoding Responsibility What does he really mean?
According to Google the definition of RESPONSIBILTY is: the state or fact of having a duty to deal with something or having control over someone. Authority, control, Power
AJ's responsibility dialogue that he gave Dadi but the words spoken was more to assure himself that he doesn't feel or have any concern n affection for his 2nd and Living Biwi Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal n to hide his growing concern.
Both Akshan has to clear their misunderstanding inorder to progress n move order to atleast Friendship phase in their realtionship.
She is my responsibility because Jindal name is attached and she is member of the house.
Before Marriage- no Jindal name- phir bhi attachment n the pull of a unknown Dor!!
Responsibility as Babysitter, Social Worker, Humanity Baba
After rejection of 1st marriage proposal:
When AJ went to discuss his restaurant contract with the Hospital Staff, but he noticed Guddan crying regarding her sisters Suicide attempt he threatened the Doctor to get his license removed.
Scene after he broke the engagement with her: no Rishta, No Commitment Phir Bhi Responsibility
While Guddan was engrossed in her phone conservatation, he came n saved her from the pillar falling down, he took the pain n hurted his back n head.
^ He just didn't wanted to miss the 15th day wedding deadline n he didn't wanted her to go to the hospital
Noticing the white hanky wrapped on her right arm, holding her hand, and asking what happened? So does this mean AJ notices all of Dadi's guest hand .
Before Dulha AJ going to his mandap, his marriage with Shewta, AJ was the curious Lion, who wanted to know why the chatterbox Guddan was lost n didn't bump into him. He asked her are you okay any problem?
^Or we can say, AJ as the house owner, wanted to make sure that Guddan didn't sue him for any of her unnecessary self-injuries so his insurance agent doesn't deducts from his Homeowners insurance policy!!!! No matter how much Guddan falls n he catches her, he is still reliable towards her as the Homeowner & in name of Humanity.
After Marriage- His official Responsibility has Mr. Akshat Guddan Jindal- the Pati & Babysitter, Bodyguard
After marriage here are few scenes below that where Mr. Akshat Jindal shows his Responsbility towards his namesake wife because she is
- The member of his house
- Bears surname Jindal
KC
After Mujhe Koi Farak Nahi Padtha & Saand n Gayi Scene
In the morning he went to the meeting, then he came back, checked inside kitchen, where he almost got eaten be considered a Paratha by his wife, n almost kissed.
AJ gently removed the glue lipstick from Guddan's lip.
After being late, forgetting Dadis words to come early, was he roaming around the pool area or did his 3rd eye tell him that his wifey will be there? He came n held her arm from slipping in the pool and complete the KC in his own way.
Dhanteras
He went to the office, during the day he returned back, was curious to know what his wife was during in the Storeroom and whom she was talking too?
^ He always wants to know where she is, what she is doing, how she is.
After the OCD Baba gave lecture to Guddan for breaking Durga Bahu's diya, he couldn't see her in stress n he let go of OCD, n stepped intot he mess n helped his wife make the Diyas.
Pooja without Dadi's saying, together he preformed the Dhanteras Pooja
Raddi Kand, Card Party, Diwali Scenes, Restaurant Order Mix Up Kand, Kidnap Kand, Dargah Scene, Bringing MS, Seth Punsihment are also examples of AJ's responsibilities because Guddan as the surname of Jindal Family.
Today Dec 18th Scene
It pained you, to see the colorful, bubbly wife of yours Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal- Galti Ki Dukhan, having tears streaming down her cheeks, her cying made you emotion that you had tears in the your eyes and made your heart reach out for her. Your gesture of removing her mums picture was sweet because you thought seeing her mums picture with mistake chits is making her happy lets remove the portrait n put it somewhere else.
My Rant of Decoding Responsibility
Jindal Saab you cannot see your wife Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal in stress, in tears, you are always pulled towards her, you take breaks from your office, busy schedule to make sure your responsibility is safe, secure n has not self-harmed herself.
After all this moments, yes he is responsible towards Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal because she is his Personal Reasonability. According to the legal dictionary, personal responsibility means: "response-ability means a person capability of responding to or meeting and fulfilling the challenges that are presented to him- being a person of good character with high moral and ethical standards.
^ This definition describes our Humanity Baba well, for AJ Guddan is the zest the Oomph, the spice, the challenge that was missing from his tasteless life. No matter how many times his verbal words says something else but his action n heart means something else.
My verdict after putting all the scenes and reading the legal definition is that Jindal Saab we feel responsible towards the person who we care about, the person who we share a bond with. In your case you cannot deny the fact she is your Jeevan Saathi, your legal wife and the person that has started to matter to you!!
For her happiness you are willing to give up your life and your most valuable possession the memory of your Antara that she n you built together the Jindal Restaurant.
Slowly her pain, her tears, her problems are becoming yours-even before the marriage it was yours. You cannot deny the fact the person who smashed cake on your face equivalent to a slap, after realizing her innocent, her love for her family, she came under your protective radar
Congratulations Mr. Akshat Jindal are becoming Human Again, who shows emotions not from the inside but outside too and is learning to express himself again. Because of your RESPONSBILITY towards Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal, your outer layer of coconut shell of yours is breaking!!!
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