Patiala Babes: An interesting tale that supports emancipation of women

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Posted: 5 years ago
Author: Anil Merani

If you talk Punjab, you can't ignore wife abandonment by wealthy NRI men, which is a major issue across the pinds (villages) of the granary of India. Well, something similar is the story of the new Sony TV drama, Patiala Babes, where Babes, aka Babita (Paridhi Sharma), is dumped by her England-based khasam, Ashok (Bhanujeet Sudan), for another woman, Mitali (Hunar Hali).

As always, the wronged woman has to be picture perfect. Babes has willingly stayed away from her hubby for 17 long years, to take care of her invalid in-laws and nagging, selfish nanad (husband's sister), who lives with them with her good-for-nothing hubby. The family is complete with Babes' idealistic father-in-law and stereotypical mother-in-law.  The makers have done their homework and have added jagrata, an essential of Punjabi life.

Babes' only support system is her daughter, Mini (Ashnoor Kaur), who has just finished high school and now wishes to pursue her dream career of a globe-trotting adventure photographer. Being very social media savvy, she loves to post # pictures online. Not only this, Mini even effectively uses the threat of SM badmouthing to bring a cheating cooler repair man to heel.

Mini also funnily spurns off the proposal of her best friend's elder bro. The tension on Babes' face when she hears about Mini getting propositioned was fun and very reflective of desi middle class family fears, of their daughters and sisters going astray.

Paridhi, who had attained fame with Jodha Akbar, is playing the devout sacrificing mother well. Indian society is still very conservative and many women will identify with her trials and tribulations, for a woman is still expected to put her happiness last.

Ashnoor (Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai fame) is also just right for the chirpy, fun-loving daughter's role. Her dialogues with God are fun and show how today's youth is trying to balance religiosity and modernity in its own unique ways. Like any daughter, she too wants her father's love and attention, which alas, she never gets.

Bad guy Ashok knows that he is wrong, hence does not have the courage to admit his mistakes face to face, and emails a voice message to his sister which is heard by all.

In a bid to further paint his character black, the writers create a situation in which he is forced to come back to India and now wants to move in with his new woman, not caring a fig about what will happen to his legally-wedded wife and daughter.

For once, the creatives have not shown the other woman as a bi*c*. Mitali is not wrong to force Ashok to admit their link-up. Her fear, that his wife has family backing while she has none, is accurate.

From whatever little we have seen so far, and based on our extensive understanding of how desi content works, we are doing the following crystal gazing of the coming tracks.

Well, to start with, Mini will make jilted Babes stand up for herself. But soon, complications will happen with the entry of the male lead (Anirudh Dave). Will the latter have a relationship with the mother? We will not be surprised if Mini too will fancy him, leading to a kind of love triangle. Had there been just a possible on-screen affair between Mini and Anirudh's character, they would have cast a much younger guy, given that Ashnoor is a teenager herself. Interestingly, Anirudh's on-screen avatar might also be shown slightly younger than Babes, leading to more Log ki Dassange (what will people whisper).

The acid test here would be viewer acceptance. You need to factor in that today BARC has gone rural; hence, will village and Category C and D towns accept the above revolutionary thought that a woman can/should find love again?

What might work against this Rajita Sharma show under the banner Katha Kottage is that Sony fiction does not boast of great ratings anyways. So if you add the above concept handicap to the mix, it might mean more numbers' issues. Also, this show and Ladies Special have just replaced KBC, which was a huge ratings spinner. So will Sony wait and give the possible above story enough leg-up to stand on or quickly change to the more traditional saas-babu, suffering woman saga?

Having said this, we appreciate the fact that acclaimed Writer and Producer Rajita Sharma has treaded upon an interesting concept, which is away from the stereotypical stories and plots.

The beginning has been good!! Well, we'll just have to wait and watch.

We at IWMBuzz.com credit 3 out of 5 stars for Patiala Babes.

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Posted: 5 years ago
It is so true, I remember watching about women who are left behind by their husbands. It is so heart wrenching watching these women. I wonder why these morons willingly want to marry these girls and leave them behind? Dowry, family pressure, reputation? I am really baffled by these which is still happening in this century 😕
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Posted: 5 years ago
Feeling sorry for all those women who are left behind to take care of family while the husbands enjoy life with another women...

Waiting to see how the story will move forward... Don't want mother and daughter loving same man ???
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Posted: 5 years ago
Originally posted by: abhi786

Feeling sorry for all those women who are left behind to take care of family while the husbands enjoy life with another women...

Waiting to see how the story will move forward... Don't want mother and daughter loving same man ???

i dont think they will be showing this.
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Posted: 5 years ago
Loving how this show takes a completely fresh take on the issue with the daughter asking her mother to live her own life instead of fighting for a husband who does not even deserve her jutti! 👍🏼

So Mini has her hero in form of Mickey, so the triangle thing is unlikely unless Ashok comes to his senses and suddenly wants Babs back 😳
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Posted: 5 years ago
Why do TV husbands never have to face legal issues and paying hefty alimony 

IN current situation , Babita should file for a divorce with big fat one time and monthly alimony pay . 

They should complain to the British High Commission that Ashok should not be able to return to UK unless and until  the divorce case is resolved .

Alas !  Indian TV will never be that realistic!
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Posted: 5 years ago
Originally posted by: sunaina02

Why do TV husbands never have to face legal issues and paying hefty alimony 


IN current situation , Babita should file for a divorce with big fat one time and monthly alimony pay . 

They should complain to the British High Commission that Ashok should not be able to return to UK unless and until  the divorce case is resolved .

Alas !  Indian TV will never be that realistic!

 

Ashok told the family the truth few days back when he and meeta left UK permanently,  told the family he is moving back to India permanently, as he in losses and closed his business..That's why meeta and ashok want to move into their parents house... 

I don't know babitha is thinking in the terms of divorce now.. I don't know getting alimony is that easy, as I have a relative who is in court for 8 years still unsettle, The girl filed for divorce and as her husband left her in her mothers house when she has problem mentally she in depression due to no kids . Sot the guy left her in her parents house to use medical health, but now still after 4 years also he didn't take her to home. The girl filed for divorce and alimony, but the boy produces evidance that he is earning very little . He is a Software engineer, but he showed salary statement very less and also showed he is taking care of his sick mother care producing all the bills , he can't give alimony as he doesn't have much . While reality her mother is  OK.. Also he says in the court he wants his  wants his wife to come home but she only rejecting as she doesn't want to take care of MIL who is sick...

The girl is afraid to go, as she suspect her husband is with another women, and if she go, he might kill her and show it as a suicide. It's she field the case so if she wants the divorce, its mutual he will not give any alimony, but some amount as cash only final settlement, or she can go back and stay in his husband house.. The case is still going in court 8 years over... We feel the boy has another women and a child also but no proof .The boy and his family keeping tight no word where they are staying in HYD.. He moves after every few months and changes his cell number and no contact with any relatives..

Now a days Men also using the loopholes and avoiding to give alimony, except few..I have seen 2 or 3 cases where men avoid to give alimony monthly and offer divorce with less settlement amount or no divorce..
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Posted: 5 years ago
Originally posted by: abhi786

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Ashok told the family the truth few days back when he and meeta left UK permanently, told the family he is moving back to India permanently, as he in losses and closed his business..That's why meeta and ashok want to move into their parents house...

I don't know babitha is thinking in the terms of divorce now.. I don't know getting alimony is that easy, as I have a relative who is in court for 8 years still unsettle, The girl filed for divorce and as her husband left her in her mothers house when she has problem mentally she in depression due to no kids . Sot the guy left her in her parents house to use medical health, but now still after 4 years also he didn't take her to home. The girl filed for divorce and alimony, but the boy produces evidance that he is earning very little . He is a Software engineer, but he showed salary statement very less and also showed he is taking care of his sick mother care producing all the bills , he can't give alimony as he doesn't have much . While reality her mother is OK.. Also he says in the court he wants his wants his wife to come home but she only rejecting as she doesn't want to take care of MIL who is sick...

The girl is afraid to go, as she suspect her husband is with another women, and if she go, he might kill her and show it as a suicide. It's she field the case so if she wants the divorce, its mutual he will not give any alimony, but some amount as cash only final settlement, or she can go back and stay in his husband house.. The case is still going in court 8 years over... We feel the boy has another women and a child also but no proof .The boy and his family keeping tight no word where they are staying in HYD.. He moves after every few months and changes his cell number and no contact with any relatives..

Now a days Men also using the loopholes and avoiding to give alimony, except few..I have seen 2 or 3 cases where men avoid to give alimony monthly and offer divorce with less settlement amount or no divorce..

Thanks for sharing.
I agree with you,such people will always plan everything well in advance.
They have no sympathies or responsibilities towards anyone
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Posted: 5 years ago
Originally posted by: abhi786

 

Ashok told the family the truth few days back when he and meeta left UK permanently,  told the family he is moving back to India permanently, as he in losses and closed his business..That's why meeta and ashok want to move into their parents house... 

I don't know babitha is thinking in the terms of divorce now.. I don't know getting alimony is that easy, as I have a relative who is in court for 8 years still unsettle, The girl filed for divorce and as her husband left her in her mothers house when she has problem mentally she in depression due to no kids . Sot the guy left her in her parents house to use medical health, but now still after 4 years also he didn't take her to home. The girl filed for divorce and alimony, but the boy produces evidance that he is earning very little . He is a Software engineer, but he showed salary statement very less and also showed he is taking care of his sick mother care producing all the bills , he can't give alimony as he doesn't have much . While reality her mother is  OK.. Also he says in the court he wants his  wants his wife to come home but she only rejecting as she doesn't want to take care of MIL who is sick...

The girl is afraid to go, as she suspect her husband is with another women, and if she go, he might kill her and show it as a suicide. It's she field the case so if she wants the divorce, its mutual he will not give any alimony, but some amount as cash only final settlement, or she can go back and stay in his husband house.. The case is still going in court 8 years over... We feel the boy has another women and a child also but no proof .The boy and his family keeping tight no word where they are staying in HYD.. He moves after every few months and changes his cell number and no contact with any relatives..

Now a days Men also using the loopholes and avoiding to give alimony, except few..I have seen 2 or 3 cases where men avoid to give alimony monthly and offer divorce with less settlement amount or no divorce..


Exactly , you have told a real story and that should be reflected in a serial.  
The concept of "Pati Parmaeshwar" should be wiped out of Indian psyche . Pati is  soulmate, lover and friend,  not God.