Originally posted by: MadOwhat
<font color="#003333">I<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">s it weak to apologize ...OR...it shows strength of character @ a secure person??</font></font><font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#006666">
</font><font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#006666">@ Blue - Is Apology a barter transaction that it has to be 2 sided ??.</font><font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#006666">
</font><font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#006666">...besides Neha ,even the KSis go and apologize after a squabble...i.e after they get their share of footage</font>...something I consider a trait of strong person...Dipika and Sree don't believe in apology (Sree atleast does sometimes) ...in addition to their frequent emotional breakdown this too is a testimony of their fragile and insecure character.@Red - From the game perspective...it was a stupid move...hopefully, we will get more clarify during WKW@Bold black - don't think she had any reason to apologize to Sree...but the game concept is such that she has to keep Baby Sree happy to avoid her Single team from disintegrating(especially when Dipika is mothering him and KVB is brothering him)
It is not weak to apologize, but she has to stand her ground.
Why does she steps forward to apologize even sometimes when it is not her fault ?
She has to show some confidence in her decisions.
I like Neha,I want her game to improve and be a tough competition to Deepika.
But she shows her weakness when she without her own fault pleads apology.
Yesterday when Somi was stealing her share of balls, Neha was right to defend herself.
Somi did some drama about Neha is becoming physical. Within short time Neha again did not stand strong, she offer to give her share of balls to Somi.
In Shree's case Neha should have waited few days, before apologizing. I would be glad if Neha would apologize only once instead of continuously pleading in front of Shree.
I want Neha to show strength in believing herself and make decisions. I was glad she stood by her decision when Deepika confronted her about Somi disqualification. She was wrong for sure to disqualify Somi, but I was glad she showed confidence and did not apologize to anyone for that.
I will say again, NEHA has to stop one sided apology to improve her game.
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