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There are a lot of discussions going around about each of these characters and I am throwing in my two cents.
Let me start with Palak n Ritwik
Ritwik: It's easier to say that don't let the past affect the present. To give him credit, he is working on his problem, trusting his Palak more than an average man does (even after his trust issues). The way he defended Palak in front of his dad is commendable. Love happens faster but Trust takes time to build. A relationship has to mature n grow and trust in a relationship builds when 2 ppl live it together, go thru small n big incidents, understand each other better ..Ritwik trusts Palak. No question about that. But he is also a human.He had expected Palak to be upfront about everything to him And he loves her to moon n back . Hence is possessive. The very thought of her betraying him, kills him. Any relationship needs time to cement and mature. And if couple is surrounded by love n warmth when they are in this phase, the cementing happens faster. The scheming , plotting, misunderstanding, insulting and misleading ppl that Palak and Ritwik are surrounded with now have made the situation very tricky for R & P. He is not wrong to expect honesty from Palak, but has to learn that he needs to give a benefit of doubt to her and chance to explain before coming to any conclusion.
Palak: She had been raised as a very fiercely independent go getter girl. Her dad always believed in her and supported her in whatever she wanted to do. As parents, they never stopped her from gng anywhere or doing anything ( cue: how she went withRicky to bring Setu n Rohit back when they ran away, how she went to look for Setu at Rohit's place) . She has done it whole her life.- Fighting for injustice , has fought against hospital managements, big pharma companies.. she is an absolute bad ass strong girl who will root for the right thing. This aspect of her character is what attracted Ritwik towards her . Life mein pahali baar ek ladki ne Ritwik ki band baja di. For her, an expedition to expose a wayward boss is nothing new. She might not have wanted to clue in Ritwik about it since he would hav reacted in an alpha male way which is cute but would not have helped in exposing him. Sometimes, we all hide some stuff from our partners..esp if someone makes lewd comments or so..we try to handle it ourselves first and if it is beyond us , we clue in our partners or parents. This is bcoz we don't want to involve everybody and get the typical how dare you touch my girl wala drama' for every other pass we get from all the perverts around us . It is subjective to each female what threshold she considers as her limit to handle it on her own. In Palak's case, she is a band bajavo, charlie's Angel type independent girl for whom doing a sting operation is well within her threshold. She has fought bigger battles before. She would have planned to go home and tell casually to Ricky ki mera naya boss mujh pe try maar raha tha, meine aur Setu ne sting operation karke expose kar diya..' . Imagine in a normal scenario, how Ricky wud hav reacted (surprised and amused) if she wud have come home and told something like that. But the problem started when other ppl started creating misunderstanding around this. Palak had no clue that all this will be presented to Ricky behind her back in this manner. Every relationship has its own challenges, Palak n Ritwik's is that they have a lot of ppl around them who don't like them to be together and are hell bent on creating MUs. ImPalak needs to understand her husband is a different person than her parents. He might have different expectations from her. He might be the coolest husband on earth but there might be some things important for him in this relationship. She needs to understand what they are and respect them since they both have to be extra careful since ppl are hell bent on undermining their relationship. She being the cool headed and grounded one among them, has more responsibility to clarify and avoid situations that create MU in future.
Let me start with Palak n Ritwik
Ritwik: It's easier to say that don't let the past affect the present. To give him credit, he is working on his problem, trusting his Palak more than an average man does (even after his trust issues). The way he defended Palak in front of his dad is commendable. Love happens faster but Trust takes time to build. A relationship has to mature n grow and trust in a relationship builds when 2 ppl live it together, go thru small n big incidents, understand each other better ..Ritwik trusts Palak. No question about that. But he is also a human.He had expected Palak to be upfront about everything to him And he loves her to moon n back . Hence is possessive. The very thought of her betraying him, kills him. Any relationship needs time to cement and mature. And if couple is surrounded by love n warmth when they are in this phase, the cementing happens faster. The scheming , plotting, misunderstanding, insulting and misleading ppl that Palak and Ritwik are surrounded with now have made the situation very tricky for R & P. He is not wrong to expect honesty from Palak, but has to learn that he needs to give a benefit of doubt to her and chance to explain before coming to any conclusion.
Palak: She had been raised as a very fiercely independent go getter girl. Her dad always believed in her and supported her in whatever she wanted to do. As parents, they never stopped her from gng anywhere or doing anything ( cue: how she went withRicky to bring Setu n Rohit back when they ran away, how she went to look for Setu at Rohit's place) . She has done it whole her life.- Fighting for injustice , has fought against hospital managements, big pharma companies.. she is an absolute bad ass strong girl who will root for the right thing. This aspect of her character is what attracted Ritwik towards her . Life mein pahali baar ek ladki ne Ritwik ki band baja di. For her, an expedition to expose a wayward boss is nothing new. She might not have wanted to clue in Ritwik about it since he would hav reacted in an alpha male way which is cute but would not have helped in exposing him. Sometimes, we all hide some stuff from our partners..esp if someone makes lewd comments or so..we try to handle it ourselves first and if it is beyond us , we clue in our partners or parents. This is bcoz we don't want to involve everybody and get the typical how dare you touch my girl wala drama' for every other pass we get from all the perverts around us . It is subjective to each female what threshold she considers as her limit to handle it on her own. In Palak's case, she is a band bajavo, charlie's Angel type independent girl for whom doing a sting operation is well within her threshold. She has fought bigger battles before. She would have planned to go home and tell casually to Ricky ki mera naya boss mujh pe try maar raha tha, meine aur Setu ne sting operation karke expose kar diya..' . Imagine in a normal scenario, how Ricky wud hav reacted (surprised and amused) if she wud have come home and told something like that. But the problem started when other ppl started creating misunderstanding around this. Palak had no clue that all this will be presented to Ricky behind her back in this manner. Every relationship has its own challenges, Palak n Ritwik's is that they have a lot of ppl around them who don't like them to be together and are hell bent on creating MUs. ImPalak needs to understand her husband is a different person than her parents. He might have different expectations from her. He might be the coolest husband on earth but there might be some things important for him in this relationship. She needs to understand what they are and respect them since they both have to be extra careful since ppl are hell bent on undermining their relationship. She being the cool headed and grounded one among them, has more responsibility to clarify and avoid situations that create MU in future.
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