Farhan Akhtar dating Shibani Dandekar - Page 2

Originally posted by: ThunderLight

I dont understand why people keep saying Shraddha deserved more. I find her whole family very creepy from Shakti Kapoor to her brother. Only she seems to be bearable or is it bcoz of her looks. Comparatively, Farhan though in 40s n divorced looks far more successful n good background. 

Originally posted by: grumpydwarf

I mean objectively are we living in the 19th century where a person is still judged by other people from their family? Were we still look at caste, background, family wealth, old money vs. new money. Times have progressed and people deserve to be judged for who they are. It would be sad if Farhan wasn't more successful then Shraddha at 40. Meanwhile, she isn't doing badly compared to most of her contemporaries budding Alia. She has not been in a failed marriage or flirted around everywhere. I'm not at all saying that divorcees or people with failed relationships don't deserve a second chances. But I am starting to doubt Farhan's ability to commit at this point. 

Originally posted by: ThunderLight

So people are still judged by failed marriages? That is not 19th century? 

Based on wat i know of them, both Shraddha and Farhan seem equally decent persons - Irrespective of age difference. Which is why am surprised at the hate against Farhan for no reason. Which makes me look at the background and family aspects. And i come to the conclusion that it is Farhan who shud be more embarrassed to be associated with her notorious family. Not other way round. 

Originally posted by: grumpydwarf

I never said I was judging him by his failed marriage. I specifically clarified that numerous times in my comment. I was judging him by his inability to commit in general and coming across as a philanderer. 

Originally posted by: ThunderLight

How is he a "philanderer" when he is Single now and moved on to date others? i believe he and Shraddha broke up long back.  And if he is one, then he was in such a relationship with her too, right? So how does that make her better than him?