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"To ask the 'right' question is far more important than to receive the answer." - Jiddu Krishnamurti
Zara Kabeer Ahmed has not only started to understand how to handle her husband, but also has she learnt how to hit him on the nerve.
"tum ne haan keh diya ? Ik parayi aurat k sath kaam karne k liye?
Parayi aurat !! Oh Zara how have you hit the bulls eye. I am so so glad and satisfied that one question that bothered everyone has finally been thrown at Kabeer.
"jis sey tum ne nikkah kiya hai usey tum apne sath bahir nai le jana chahate, lekin ruksaar k sath tum ne haan keh diya ? "
BULLS EYES AGAIN!!
Yet again we all were cringing and crying that why on earth would Kabeer accept Ruksaar's help and not Zara's help? Finally we got the answer today that his sole reason of keeping Zara away is not mysogny but because he is not comfortable with her mindset, and he has said it again and again.
"Tumhain lagta hai Ruksaar ki soch tumhain apne project main madad karegi?"
Yet again a razor sharp question, what does Kabeer really think of ruksaar? What is his real perception of him? and he clearly answers that its not his descion, but miraj's descsion and also did we get Kabeer trying to calm down a raging Zara explaining how his only problem with her is her mindset - not working women, not that he is his wife.
and lastly the most beautiful part.
the realisation of right.
Kabeer today not only realised, but also accepted that no one except Zara has the right t work with Kabeer, and openly and honesty told her the only hurdle between their work.
That bedroom conversation has my heart in so many ways i can't even describe. Razor sharp questions, equally blunt answers, subtle understanding .. that raging Zara trying to fix the alarm clock and Kabeer realising that she was pissed just takes that and fixes it for her while answering her calmly.
Thank you CVs for this mature husband -wife discussion, for not letting the characters mince words or go in circles.
Zara & Kabeer recieved SO much flak , and unnecassary too without actually given any time to let thier characters bloom. The Kashmir track, the post kashmir coldness .. all of them were fragments of thier characters and they recieved so much backlash. i am glad makers are answering them and how ! š
Why Zara was so perfect?
She was blunt, she was straight up, and she clearly demanded her right. She threw back everything Kabeer was throwing at her.
Why Kabeer has my heart?
He was accommodating, explanatory and non-dissmisive. He listened to everything she had to say and acknowledged her right to ask all those questions.
Today's episode made me very proud as a viewer. This content is what we signed up for. A mature arrnaged marriage problem handled just like it would be in any ordinary home!!
And ..
before i end the best question of the episode .. "apple khayengey?" š³
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