Was adiya totally responsible for poosh affair !!

Extra martial affair has no justification.
My question is were adiya totally at fault .

My answer not really

Only a weak and fickle minded ppl look for outside pleasure .

Ppl dislike home food so we go to restaurant for eat something different and tasty
But daily if we have outside we end up to doctors.

Having friends is ok sharing and caring is also ok
But sin is having an affair .

Ok affair is also ok but hiding it with ur spouse staying in marriage it's the worst that ppl can do .
Poosh have done that sin and adiya are punished unnecessarily.


Today they showed adiya failed in there marriage
But my question is how ?
Being naive and kiddish is that a sin or route to failed marriage.

I feel adiya we're not the failures it was poosh who failed miserably.

They failed in expressing to there spouse what they needed in life .
Adiya were human like we all are
They don't have X-ray in there system to get clear pix .
Nor poosh were matured enough to make them understand.

If zoya was innocent Yash could have explained her like Adi does now she could have u sterstood that maintaining 2 houses is not easy
Pooja could have made Adi understand what her interest were .
Instead they chose outsider to fulfill there wish

That wasn't good.

Adiya are sweet simple ppl so are poosh but communication was needed .
If it didn't work better get separated.
I respect ppl who take the upright decision of taking divorce to be with ppl they like .

Ppl should never ride on both the end will be like poosh
But they got peace what about adiya they get to see there failed side .

Poosh were cowards who could neither be faithful nor upright decision makers they just rode on 2 wheels .

If it takes to hurt someone badly do it end it but backstabbing is not acceptable.

Poosh were not only coward but confused individual who didn't know what they wanted in life .

They were not perfect themselves but wanted pitch perfect spouse .
Let me tell about my life .
I didn't know anything when I married it was arranged marriage.
My hubby had different tastes altogether.
But slowly we build that foundation which is needed by expressing firmly even if one doesn't agree we compromise
One day his wish is granted other day mine .
It took 5 yrs to get to know each other but it's beautiful.

Patience is the key ego has no place one has to go down to make the other happy .

It's not complicated but ppl make it .
If arranged marriage is so love marriage should be easy
Why poosh lost that logic .

Silence is sometimes strong weapon but sometimes it's the weakest link.

Few times by words things get sorted why poosh failed in it.

There is no justification for having an affair only a weak minded ppl do such things

agreed.. least said abt yash the better.. but pooja ws jst like her own mother.. she wanted adi n also wanted passionate love frm yash.. she wanted best of both worlds n both mother daughter were selfish ppl who only wants unconditional love frm adi n dont want to return the same unconditional n selfless love back to him.. 😡 i hate poosh n sakshi😡

You said it right, cheating has no justification!!!! Yes, two ppl can be totally different from each other, but thats where communication plays its part. If you want something from your partner... say it!!! Say it loud and clear. You need to be open with them. Hiding your desire and problems wont solve the issues. If you are not open to each other than you are betraying both yourself and your partner. And before you cross your boundaries think what it would be like if it was done to you. Being selfish is one thing... but cheating is a sin. When you cheat... you dont only break someone's heart... but you break their trust, you shatter them completely. You wouldn't want it to happen to you so dont do it to them.

They showed Adiya was at fault, yes to some extent where they didn't see everything eye to eye with their partners. But it was Poosh who was the sinners. Pooja wasn't convincing enough to Adi and Yas hid everything from Zoya. What tupe of marriage were they in??? Tgey lived separate life from their partners and never told them anything. They broke their trust... they walked out of their boundaries and cheated their partners who believed them with their eyes closed and loved them immensely. That was just simply wrong!!!! They can never justify it.

Adiya and Poosh both were equally responsible for their failed marriage because their respective partners were unhappy with their marriage even before starting the affair. Rather than taking the right decision PooSh decided to cheat on their partner and for that cheating only PooSh are responsible. So PooSh are to be blamed her for everything but AdiYa were too blind in their 5 years of marriage. They lived in their own world of oblivion were everything for them was perfect. When you are married you don't have to spell out everything to your partner sometimes your body language also speaks volumes.

Originally posted by: Ianoconic.

Adiya and Poosh both were equally responsible for their failed marriage because their respective partners were unhappy with their marriage even before starting the affair. Rather than taking the right decision PooSh decided to cheat on their partner and for that cheating only PooSh are responsible. So PooSh are to be blamed her for everything but AdiYa were too blind in their 5 years of marriage. They lived in their own world of oblivion were everything for them was perfect. When you are married you don't have to spell out everything to your partner sometimes your body language also speaks volumes.

Originally posted by: Sovereign_K

I won't say EMA has justification. Nothing can justify that disgusting act. But I do feel Adiya are equally responsible for the failure of their marriage.

Poosh were also responsible. They saw their marriage drowning and they did not do anything, just let it drain having an EMA. EMA was not the solution, communication was, but they did not communicate openly with their partner.

And a relationship works through communication, you need to communicate through words. I found Adiya at fault in the way, they took their partners for granted. Pooja was so hurt the way Adi reacted to her when she asked to accompany her. And Zoya kind of imposed her likes on Yash. But that doesn't give them the right to find the kind of partners they wanted from outside.😡 I hate Poosh with a passion for betraying Adiya like that.

From the start, they were not meant to be.

Both are at faults at their own places, but if Adiya were forgivable then Poosh weren't.

Adiya had their own flaws. And they did the mistake of thinking their marriage was perfect since their spouse didnt voice any open disagreement.