Originally posted by: missdramkr
I maybe wrong but as far as I know that if a couple gets talak then they have to marry someone else before they can remarry the again but if they get an annulment ( I can't remember the word) then you are separated but not divorced and can get back together anytime.
I think you are right. If they divorced once , she has to marry someone else to marry this guy again.
Originally posted by: ghissapitta
Not only that but isn't the rule if the woman is divorced and husband/her want to reconcile she has to marry another man AND consummate the marriage with the other man?😕
Originally posted by: Barunkidiwani
After watching various speeches of renowned scholars on YT, here is what all of them said about the Talaq procedure as mentioned in Quran.
First of all Divorce or Talaq though is the legitimate thing but is the least favorite of Allah too
Divorce is to be taken only in extreme cases like when there are irreconcilable differences between husband and wife. But before that a mediation process has to be carried out by bringing in an arbitrator (usually the one who is an elderly and experienced person) from both the sides. Even then if the matter is not sorted, then the person can resort to divorce.
The man then has to pronounce a 'Talaq' (once) after which a period of 3 menstural cycles or 3 months is given known as Iddat. This time is given so that the couple can rethink upon their decision. Also, there are certain conditions laid down for divorce
Conditions for divorce
Divorce can be given only during the clean period i.e. a divorce cannot be given when the woman is on her menses.
If during the period of Iddat the wife becomes pregnant then the Talaq automatically stands cancelled
If you have sexual intercourse with your spouse during this period then also the Talaq automatically stands cancelled
Talaq would be an invalid one if it is given in a drunk state, in sleep or in anger
If the couple get back together during the Iddat period then no Talaq will happen. But if Iddat period is over and they haven't got back together then Talaq is deemed to have been taken place.
After the Talaq the same couple can remarry please note they can remarry even without performing the Nikah Halala (wife getting married to another man and consummating it) for maximum 3 times i. e. they can give Talaq and remarry the same person again at the most 3 times. After the 3rd time the woman has to marry another man consummate the marriage and can get back to the man she wants to marry only when her current husband dies or divorces her.
This is a kind of punishment from Allah who make a mockery of a sacred institution like marriage.
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