Originally posted by: 2filmy
I just loved the way you described their emotions here
their inner turmoil is so clear and the change in the dynamics. one incident changed everything in a day. neither would have thought such a day would come that too after Diwali. that's why they say anger ruins all. it's man's worst enemy and we shouldn't say or do anything in anger as that only harms us and our loved ones. but it's also true at times the heart overpowers the brain and acts of it's own accord. small things magnify and cause a huge rift in relationships and then separation. one says or does something and then it's too late to repair things. maasi used to blame her she didn't mind that much as she was an outsider for her but Dev is her own and they are together for a long time and he knows her well now still he said all that
So very true Priyu! Each one of us has perhaps lost a friend, a loved one or some relation somewhere or the other... though we did not mean it to happen that way... but Anger is very much a high ranked shadripu and does maximum harm in life.
And generally, men give into anger very easily... somehow their upbringing, the society culture all teach that it's ok or it's right to show anger openly in men... while in women, anger is required to be suppressed... weird!
Actually, our mythologies keep both at equal... Laxmi gets angry at Vishnu and leaves him, Parvati takes the Kali form, radha roothofies on Krishna.
In families and especially in married relationships, the new society expects the woman to take everybody's anger and never express hers. Then she's goody goody wife or bahu or Bhabhi... It's such a partial culture.
I genuinely feel that this link of mother teaching daughter Aise hi hota hai, learn to bear... must be completely broken and the concept of ardhnareshwar come back in every relation.
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