EPISODE/SHOW DISCUSSION THREAD 32(DIL BOLE....OBEROIS!) - Page 43

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Posted: 8 years ago
The Shivaay shouting scene - I think he only wanted to handle it in his own way. It came out bad. Both exchanged a look. And instantly one can spot how apologetic he was for it to be coming out that way.
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Posted: 8 years ago

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That's the story of Shivaay's life. Double standards with all capital letters. Tia also used to insult his brothers. He never told her to shut up. Ragini did the same to his family today but he ends up shutting up Annika. I am not supporting Annika nor am I here to bash Shivaay. But one has to be blind not to see the hypocricy here. I know Shivaay will remain like this. Dont know why though. But I expect Annika to give him a piece of her mind on this. An outsider always wins when pitted against her.


nope it's not

do u think shivaay will be hurt if pinky lies at him about reason xyz as much as he would be hurt if OmRu did???

that is the same...the fact remains that a man like shivaay only gives importance to those WHO ARE IMPORTANT TO HIM

that simple!!!! Tia was not important...ignore her...what she thinks/says doesn't matter in anyway ...
Ragini isn't important
& if u notice that even his brothers don't give importance to their comments and don't feel hurt by it
do u think if at some point Annika insults OmRu for real they wouldn't feel hurt?

that is the difference...wounds caused by those who are the closest to us are the seepest and hardest to heal
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Posted: 8 years ago

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For me shouting is no big issue. Ppl in any relationship shout at times. It doesn't mean disrespect acc to me. Maybe he did not want an argument over this.

But my problem is what is he planning to do in this situation. How many days will security ppl guarding rags help even if we go by imaginary Sid existing and doing all this? Why he does not ask about her bro to deal with it? Her bro is supposed to be rich and powerful too?


i'm telling u...either shivaay knows something and playing along or he's a dork
it's that simple

but the fact that he didn't let her stay in OM after this means he listend to everyone's questions and found them valid

so he respectfully sending her out of the house before anything serious happens


ETA: @bold: u should read what people are commenting everywhere (twitter for example) then u feel like everyone is living in la la land where nothing of this sort happens in relation

apperantly shouting isn't something familiar it only means disrespect
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Posted: 8 years ago
The "stop it Anika" I think is only because he didn't want the situation to escalate and also what it feels like everyone is ganging against Nagini, it's disproportionate force against one 😆 But Shivaay should seriously look into this matter and involve her family and to find out whoever this Sid guy is , if he exists !
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: LTLFan



For me shouting is no big issue. Ppl in any relationship shout at times. It doesn't mean disrespect acc to me. Maybe he did not want an argument over this.

But my problem is what is he planning to do in this situation. How many days will security ppl guarding rags help even if we go by imaginary Sid existing and doing all this? Why he does not ask about her bro to deal with it? Her bro is supposed to be rich and powerful too?


Bharti, People does not shout in public like him all the time and then say sorry in private. Yes we do shout but then others also asked the questions why didn't shout at them and stop them? why is it only annika all the time? Is it bcoz she was his better half?
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: LTLFan



For me shouting is no big issue. Ppl in any relationship shout at times. It doesn't mean disrespect acc to me. Maybe he did not want an argument over this.

But my problem is what is he planning to do in this situation. How many days will security ppl guarding rags help even if we go by imaginary Sid existing and doing all this? Why he does not ask about her bro to deal with it? Her bro is supposed to be rich and powerful too?


Valid point Bharathi.

Logical answer from me would be cv's wanted him to play dumb for sometime till they figure out the track and how the trp is playing out!

Jokes apart, after the lapse we have not been shown much of shivaays PoV, I can even say none at all. We have all been speculating on his behaviour. The only thing that I was sure was he was apathetic.

He is slowly changing from that after Anika's entry to OM. My understanding is he is dealing with dichotomies of Anika and will soon catch up with her dramas hopefully by end of this month.

Whatever anyone says cv's have kept shivaays character intact unlike Anika whose character always throws curve balls at us.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: EnasZ


even if it's not to protect annika...he actually stoped her before she get more insulted by ragini
if u rewatch that
he stopped her when ragini asking her why are u talking on his behalf
and annika was about to say something about haq and he stopped her...because ragini would have simply said that u too are divorced

and if shivaay got anything from the dinner is that she's hurt regarding the divorce...and that look in the kitchen was more than enough for him to NOT PUT HER IN THAT SITUATION EVER AGAIN



whatever be his reasons ( both reasons stated above could be have been his thought process)
he could have done it in a nicer way. the way he said stop it annika was very rude and in front of his family and nagini .
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: EnasZ


thank u...plain and simple

i don't know in which world we live in where husband doesn't yell at his wife and vice versa
it happens all the freakin time


Sorry to say but a wifes respect on his in-laws house mainly depends on how his husband respects her. If he keeps shouting at her in front of family or outsides in that matter then how would family respect her? This is real life scenario and I have witnessed in my own front so I now that until and unless husband treats you with full respect in front of family, she gets treated as for granted by others too. Husband can shout but that should happen in private not in open. And if shouting is done in public then sorry should also be done in public not in private room.

Well you say that you are shivika fan and not only ones but from your Shivaay's side answer doesn't look so 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: EnasZ


nope it's not

do u think shivaay will be hurt if pinky lies at him about reason xyz as much as he would be hurt if OmRu did???

lol I would say yes or i dont know bcoz Shivaay's love for his mother comes with full force sometimes like he can't even listen a word against her even though it is annika saying so you can't say. yes it can hurt him equally

that is the same...the fact remains that a man like shivaay only gives importance to those WHO ARE IMPORTANT TO HIM

If this is the case then how come Pinky's importance comes to him at sudden and then disappears at sudden 😆

that simple!!!! Tia was not important...ignore her...what she thinks/says doesn't matter in anyway ...
Ragini isn't important

He was going to marry Tia before meeting annika, so he would have let say those kind of things to his brothers all the time? Like he would have got married for business and wouldn't have paid any attention to what tia is saying to his family or anything even though Tia would have been his wife
This does not justify the point at all that they both were not important so he let them say whatever they want to
& if u notice that even his brothers don't give importance to their comments and don't feel hurt by it
do u think if at some point Annika insults OmRu for real they wouldn't feel hurt?
People get hurt by comment of stranger as well. Yes if a person who is close says something then it hurts more but Tia/rags words also hurt them. You can see how Om got angry when she said village thing to Gauri so if they didn't say anything that doesn't mean that they will get hurt only when annika says something and not rags/tia

that is the difference...wounds caused by those who are the closest to us are the seepest and hardest to heal
lol so it means any outsider can come, say the things to OmRu or anyone in that matter and Shivaay will be ok bcoz that is outsider or doesn;t matter to Shivaay 😆

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