Can't shivaay be selfish for once?

But was shivaay-pinky relation like normal mother-son relation???

lets see

In first few epis shivaay maintained that his mother is more in love with money than him

then in middle epis,He felt bad for his mother.But he never gave her priority over omru and dadi

Then shivaay got accusation from tia and his mother pinky instead of supporting her son.She stood with tia.It was anika at that time with shivaay even after getting accusations from pinky and forced marriage.She still supported shivaay.

When tia got exposed,Pinky did not believe shivaay telling the whole truth and kept accusing anika until tia confirmed what shivaay said was true

Then we came to that part,Where shivaay balanced both relations because he felt bad that his father was unable to identify his mother's jewelry.

Then came,lookalike track,In which anika identified that sso (Mahi) was fake and quickly take action and saved shivaay indirectly.

Then shivaay planned and whole family followed.Pinky asked for forgiveness (but had not accepted anika.Frankly speaking shivaay's nkk genes came from pinky,She had no prob with tia because of nkk and used to force tia on shivaay and anika does not have nkk so she is unable to digest that her son is giving attention to girl without nkk)

and now this phase,anika took the bullet for shivaay and instead of giving little bit attention to anika she was more worried abt her fever.

Shivaay and pinky never had normal relation so i m unable to understand this sudden insecurities.Yeah shivaay ignored pinky because right now his priority and concern is for anika who he was almost abt to lose.This girl did soo much for him and always stand by his side.Does not she deserve his complete attention just for few days after being shoot by the bullet.This is same guy who got more pain when anika got blood on her finger.At that time,He was not head over heals which he is right now.Its like honeymoon period for him.Let him enjoy with his wife.He wants to think abt her only right now.Yeah its selfish but this is first time in his life when he got selfish.He always thought abt his family first and now for the first time he does not want to think and see anything and wants to take care of his wife who gave everything she has to him.So is it bad of him?

(Copied from the comment i posted on another topic)

Exactly! Shivaay needs this phase - he has taken care of his loved ones all his life and you'd think the mom would be happy for him (or atleast someone in the family.. but.. daadi is missing, Rudra tho has become a random extra in every scene)

Hence the sudden flip by Pinky who is becoming downright creepy always peeping into Shivaay's room and actually expecting Shivaay to dedicate his success to her. Seriously CVs?!