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Posted: 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayasun

Hello Viji,


Today episode made me clear as to whose fault IshRa life is in a mess so here it goes. The sole reason is ISHITA only because she fell in love with Raman.

Ishita hurt never reached Raman today and he was cocky that she would be back without him apologizing because she loves him who gave him this much confidence that no matter even if you hurt me I will be like a doormat and bounce back to you it was only done by Ishita.

When Ishita was not in love with Raman Toshjii threw Ishita out of the house but once the problem was sorted did she come back NO Initially Raman did not want to go and say sorry to bring her back first Romi went then Bhallaji went but she refused to budge finally Raman came to call her and both apologized to each other and the next min she did not stay in her amma house.

When Ishita fell in love with Raman he threw her out of the house because of Rinky right after promising her few minutes ago that she would be his first priority and he would value her emotions first. She went out of the house but did she take a stand for him to come and apologize to her for trampling on her emotions NO she came back to Bhalla house without any apology from him

First leap she was thrown out of the house and her things were burnt did she take a stand NO she came back to Bhalla house without any apology.

Once Ishita fell in love with Raman how many times he threw her out of the house still she came back without his apology so if Raman expects here to crawl back without any apology from his side again this time than what is wrong in his thinking because that is what Ishita does every time she comes back to Bhalla house burying her respect so no one respect her.

Coming to the episode:

Simmi/Param/Gaurav - Looks like Gaurav is interested in Simmi and would do anything to achieve his goal. Param was a professional today but he has a slight doubt on Gaurav.

My blood is boiling thinking about amma whatever she said was correct that every marriage fights happen and for that you cannot break a marriage, If she took a stand against Raman in the hospital when he was verbally abusing Ishita using callous words during first leap or for that matter said something to him when he burnt memories of Ishita then her lecture to Ishita I would have accepted. She is never their when Ishita needs support but always comes when Ishita is completely broken and breaks her further.

Ishita says to her amma that your case is different there is no respect in our marriage, what do my kids see that their father always shouts at the mother at home and in public. I don't want my kids to be in this environment my son is grown up but I am taking my daughters with me.(I wish instead of brining up about kids safety she told everyone that it is not me who broke the relationship first it was Raman who said that even after Ruhi comes back our ways are separate and it is not going to meet again)

Raman is angry on her for calling him a bad father nothing else went to head. He says to her I love my kids if you remember I married you only for Ruhi(So he has not moved from Ruhi ki lye face that is why as soon as Ruhi is not there he cuts away ties with her) I would have proved Ruhi innocent after she was safe outside. She question him back what happens if you are not able to prove it. He says to her I would have proven she is trying to tell him Romi intervenes to stop the fight from escalating. He asks why you both are fighting as Ruhi is back safe and sound why don't you guys apologize. Raman is mad and asks him why should I apologize to her tell me whose side are you on. Romi picks Ishita side and Raman walks out.

Mihika asks what is this Romi and he says he with his bhabi this time and immediately Toshjii discards Ishita from the family she doesn't even say Ishita she says she becomes more than a mother too you today and turns to Ishita and accuse her of home wrecker Ishita absorbs whatever accusation is thrown on her.

Bhallaji is packing his bag Toshjii comes and questions him why he is supporting Ishita and he says to her even after all this tamasha your son has not asked sorry to Ishita immediately Toshjii reply comes back why should he. Mr.Bhalla shuts her up saying that you can talk to Raman too. (I liked this conversation both of them were correct in their perspective Toshji wanted Bhallaji to persuade Ishita as she is talking nicely to him and Bhallaji wanted the same thing from Toshjii as Raman was talking nicely to Toshjii)

Ishita/Appa convo - They are the only one standing and Ishita asks appa do you also think what I am doing is wrong. Appa tells her yes no father likes his daughters house to break. She says to him some might accept my decision and some might not even if you don't support me that is okay I am not going to change the decision(My god what an fabulous actress DT is she emoted very well a person who has given upon life or expect anything from anyone👏👏) Appa says to her no matter what I am your father and I will stand by you. She is happy getting a support of a parent.

Raman/Romi convo Romi is apologizing to Raman and manfoying him saying that he is going with bhabi to keep on eye on things and be his informer. He asks him to apologize but Raman is confident that he doesn't need to because as soon as her anger leaves she will come back and more over amma is also my side. Romi says your over confident Raman says to him its not overconfident I have faith in my love more over she loves me more than I love her so she cannot stay without me so she will come back I don't have to apologize(I think Romi realized the extent of his bhabhi hurt and the seriousness of her stand too he realized that it not going to be easy to bring her back once she leaves the house so he was trying to diffuse the situation before even it escalated.)

Anayna/Pihu convo Pihu is sad as to what to take and what to leave in this house as she left something in her mama house after coming back from Australia. (A typical kids reaction worried about her stuff.)

Ruhi/Adi - Ruhi at last realized that it is because of insane love for Sohail that IshRa are at crossroads Adi consoles her and says to her that he is staying here so that they can plan something to unite their parents (Again a typical kids reaction to unite the parents who are separating)

Mihika comes and says to her I am disappointed in you even after saying about Pihu you are still thinking about leaving. Ishita says to her she cannot change her decision Mihika compares Ishita with Shagun saying she is doing the same things taking the kids away. Ishita patience is lost she says to her that I am not changing my decision this for Raman to learn a lesson I am not doing this for my children. ( I have a different take on this lesson line I don't think it pertains to kids or their safety as I stated to you when I started that this post that Ishita is the sole reason for Raman to abuse her now she is going to show him that she is not going to given in easily that is the lesson I think she was talking to about Mihika) Mihika says this is not the way to teach a lesson by breaking relationship ( I was thinking you did the same thing in your suspicion only but here though you akka is talking this step after she was abused numerous times). Ishita says to her she is not changing her decision.


Everyone comes back to the living room Raman is cocky that Ishita would not leave. Appa says to her that he is with her and takes the bag. Ishita calls Ruhi and Pihu Ruhi comes and says to her that Pihu wants to spend some more time with Anayna Bhallaji says lets leave and all four of them walk out. Ishita never turn to look back

Precap: They start of the track is always emotional and very good but in the end they always finish it up as a comedy but here though they are starting the track with comedy so I am hoping it gets emotional and finishes with a bang with both of realizing what they mean to each other.

Things stood out in the episode for me.

1. Ishita state - There is a saying in Tamil that " Sadhu mirandal Kadu koilathu" loose translation if some one who is very quiet burst out in anger than the opposite person would be burnt to ashes. That is the same thing has happened with Ishita she took in all the pain when she could not handle anymore she is bursting like a volcano now.

2. Ishita walking out without turning back signifies that she has given upon this relationship so its up to Raman to make here believe in this relationship.

3. Ishita is not taking kids against their wishes - Yes the kids are sad as the parents are separating but if she was taking them against their wishes then she would not have left Pihu to play with Anayna when she was going out.

4. Ishita is not doing this to satisfy her ego she is doing this because she gave up.

5. Raman has not even realized the magnitude of the hurt he has inflicted the segments were disjointed so could not understand it but looks like he is soon going to realize that Ishita is not coming back on her own.

6. Toshjii accepts Ishita as long as everything is fine for her otherwise she is shown the door. If Ishita has walked out on her own she would not have cared two hoot about it.

7. Amma is like a typical mother who always says to their daughter no matter what you have to adjust with your family

8. Romi is the only one who realized the seriousness of her bhabhi leaving and how she is affected by taunts.

9. Bhallaji and Appa were good today. Both of them did not like Ishita decision but still stood with her as morale support.


Note: I am liking this track hope they take it nicely without OTT drama.



He maya..brilliantly written👏
You said it all nothing more to add.
based on what you said..ishita loves raman more than him and he's aware of it. ..as he himself said...she loves me more than I love her.
Yes as you pointed out..ishita never turned back..she's given up on their relationship.
@ bold red..4. Agree...
Edited by Mdwst - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mdwst

He maya..brilliantly written👏
You said it all nothing more to add.
based on what you said..ishita loves raman more than him and he's aware of it. Does this mean Raman doesn't love ishita the way she does ?...as he himself said...she loves me more than I love her? Maya actually that dialogue was a bit confusing to me..I mean I didn't understand it well..the meaning .
Yes as you pointed out..ishita never turned back..she's given up on their relationship.
@ bold red..4. Agree...


Thanks Viji,

I re-watched the scene numerous time just to make sure that is what Raman said.

When Romi said are you over-confident Raman said no, I have confidence in myself and my love and she loves me much more than me so she cannot stay without me so she will back after her anger cools down.

Yes Raman knows Ishita might not express her love as he express but she loves him more than he loves her because of her selfless nature

Yes she has given up on their relationship that is why she did not listen to any reason today from anyone.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks for clarifying...I interpreted it the other way...good to know..that he's aware of how much she loves him...
So the reality will hit him in the next episode or 2...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mdwst

@ Maya

Thanks for clarifying...I interpreted it the other way...good to know..that he's aware of how much she loves him...
So the reality will hit him in the next episode or 2...

Hahaha Viji.. yes hit him to the point to harass her by getting drunk and dragging her across. If this is love and realizing her hurt i have no words..the reason I'm saying that he didn't realize the hurt he gave her is his dragging her across.. atleast she wouldn't have made a spectacle if he is sincerely asking her to return home..
Let's see how episode plays...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mdwst

@ Maya

Thanks for clarifying...I interpreted it the other way...good to know..that he's aware of how much she loves him...
So the reality will hit him in the next episode or 2...


Hi Viji,


Yes he knows that Ishita loves him more than he loves Ishita prime example was given to us in bhoot track she put her life Ruhi through an emotional ringer just for Raman.

I hope so too Viji that he would realize it that she is not coming back and I also hope that she doesn't came back too

Viji by the way your prediction of she leaving the house came true👏




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lacustris

Hahaha Viji.. yes hit him to the point to harass her by getting drunk and dragging her across. If this is love and realizing her hurt i have no words..the reason I'm saying that he didn't realize the hurt he gave her is his dragging her across.. atleast she wouldn't have made a spectacle if he is sincerely asking her to return home..
Let's see how episode plays...

Lets c..Raji...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayasun


Hi Viji,


Yes he knows that Ishita loves him more than he loves Ishita prime example was given to us in bhoot track she put her life Ruhi through an emotional ringer just for Raman.

I hope so too Viji that he would realize it that she is not coming back and I also hope that she doesn't came back too

Viji by the way your prediction of she leaving the house came true👏




Hi Maya
Oh yeah...it did..I completely forgot ..thanks for reminding me...😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishitha never stood up for herself Ruhi was there questioning everybody that hurt her and in the Param issue Raman was there to stand up. Whenever Raman taunted her ridiculed her she always had a shocked disbelief writ on her face but was ever sumissive to a great extend. She fed and nourished his male ego the way Shagun had trampled and humiliated him to the core. He began to don the agressor hat whenever it had to do with Ishitha and now it has reached the breaking point where he assumes he is right he is loving and caring and she nothing in comparison.
To love your own kids is no big deal. To give love to a child you have not borne who chooses you over all else and whose loss is squarely shifted to your shoulder that you think life has no pupose and choose to end your life that is something different. When she senses that Ruhi is in a vulnerable state due to her puppy love and believing a confrontation will resolve matters she takes her to the cell. When thinks go awry while the blind love of Raman pushes him to resort to a plan that would have put not only Ruhi but the minister was training his gun on Raman so there was no way he could have got Ruhi out.
Ishitha on the other hand played a trick just as Sohail had and traps him .
Despite her efforts which she tried to share with Raman he was unforgiving and refused to hear her out and wanted her out of his life.

The frequency with which Toshi and Raman use Taufa ho jao is jarring to my ear and i am sure Ishitha's health and stress has made her say enough is enough.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Abhishek and Ishitha both blamed themselves for Nidhi's escape with Ruhi and bore the cross for 7 years. Raman banned people from taking her name resorted to abusive behavior assuming people would put up with his bad behaviour come what may.
Realisation has to dawn and though it can have comic relief it should end with a very honest chat between the two.

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