Originally posted by: SP2684
@bold - you're absolutely right - why should she change herself for a bunch of people on the show? She can be herself all she likes. But then - why whine and complain that nobody likes you, in that case? She has her likes/dislikes - she, by her own admission, finds every other HM apart from Gaurav (and pre the WCs) 'boring', and hence she doesn't hang out with them, not to mention the abuse she throws their way.
So why can they not dislike her? It is because she's whining that nobody likes her, and because she's laying the blame for that at their door, is why the question of introspection is raised - if 10 people have a problem with your attitude, then there is the remote possibility that there is something wrong with your attitude, and not them.
And nobody is looking for perfection - it doesn't exist - the only person in that house who thinks Bani's perfect, is Bani - which is why she cannot comprehend that there are people who dislike her abusive personality. She's welcome to her 'real self' - provided she grasps that other people have their likes and dislikes just as much as she has hers.
I keep meaning to reply to ur posts and keep getting sidelined.
I think it's false to say that 10 people have a problem with her attitude. Yes dey don't like it when she swears and abuses in a generalized way and they r absolutely right and entitled to feel that way. Am just copy/ pasting what I had written earlier:
Its also a misconception that Bani does not try to make friends. I have said it weeks ago that she was the one celeb who made an effort to talk to the commoners one-to-one. Evidence is when Akansha got evicted and Niti was feeling sad, Bani went and told her dat somehow she had not been able to talk to her only, but had talked to all d HMs and dat she wld like to get to know her.
Even Gaurav was telling to Bani that Manu thought Manu and Bani would be best friends as she had talked to him in thr first week.
Bani has always made efforts to have a one-to-one talks with HMs and be on friendly terms with most. She was good friends with Karan and Lokesh other than Gaurav and also friendly with Manveer, Mona, Nitibha, Rahul (initially) and Rohan on and off. She is already friend of Sahil, though he too wasnt sure how she wld take him in BB house. But she welcomed him so warmly and dey r gelling well in unseen videos and when Rahul was mocking Sahi's walking style, she told him not to do so and dat he's a nice guy. So she has never deliberately try to distance herself from the HMs. Though she tends to go into her own zone sometimes, but tat does not mean does not want to be friends with others.
What I suppose upsets her and baffles her is dat when der's any negative tags or things dat have to be said about HMs, she ends up at the receiving end. Like in dat tag task, Manveer even he's more of a friend of Bani, but then gives d honest tag to Lopa and dis is what Bani can't comprehend. She genuinely feels she's on good terms with all, but many HMs have issues with her and she does not realize it. That's naive on her part and it upsets her.
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