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Yes Nitu, what you have said is true. But when Dev's blazers became dirty she washed and Ironed it for him even though she was not doing it at home. Isn't that what being independent means. Where as Dev had to go to his mother to wash it and iron it for him. That was her motive behind asking him to do his own work. But now it is all blown out of proportion.😆
She did that for Dev but she was dependent on her mom for lot of things Even today she is unable to do few things on her own .Dev has accepted her shortcomings and doesn't expect her to become a perfect homemaker .Similarly Dev is not good at managing clothes and doesn't have the inclination to learn .Top of that He doesn't want to spend his free time on washing,ironing when he can take help .She should respect that .Not everyone will wash their own clothes or iron them .
I understand she doesn't want lshwari to help him .Fair enough and I have no problems with that but my only concern is allow him to atleast take help from others .Suggest him to take Kichu's help for washing and clothes can be sent to laundry for ironing
Once in a while is ok but doing on daily basis is not a easy task especially after a long hectic day .I think Sona is confused herself ..she is unable to communicate the real problem .Dev depending on his mom is making her insecure.Its not about clothes or being independent
