Suman forgot about the girl she saw go to Shravan's room!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I know she said she didn't want him to stoop so low that she would become embarrassed for loving him, but now that she's getting married to him, how is she forgetting this part? She's not the type of girl who can forgive it as just a fling and think she can make it with Shravan from now on. To someone like her, it is a major break in trust. Either she loves him so much that she wants to overlook his stupid phase between the friendship breakup and now or she thinks he never followed through with it. She needs to know this part with a question. She is not the type to overlook this "his needs" argument from Shravan. His dad can overlook it saying boys will be boys, but even he was affected by this. Suman will be last one on earth not to be affected by it. CVs, MAJOR blooper!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Marybarton

I know she said she didn't want him to stoop so low that she would become embarrassed for loving him, but now that she's getting married to him, how is she forgetting this part? She's not the type of girl who can forgive it as just a fling and think she can make it with Shravan from now on. To someone like her, it is a major break in trust. Either she loves him so much that she wants to overlook his stupid phase between the friendship breakup and now or she thinks he never followed through with it. She needs to know this part with a question. She is not the type to overlook this "his needs" argument from Shravan. His dad can overlook it saying boys will be boys, but even he was affected by this. Suman will be last one on earth not to be affected by it. CVs, MAJOR blooper!

She knows he is acting in front of her. Sumo knows him inside out well.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dont worry...She will go to malhotra house with a huge list and a magic broom and make the guy repent every damage he has done in his new avatar!
Edited by slumberqueen - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lol that chammak challo whom Shravan threw out of his room & Ramnath panicked🤣

No worry wese bhi Shravan ka band bajne wala hai when Suman will come to know about his lie to Aditya. I don't think she forgot about that girl. She didn't talk because nowadays Shravan doesn't talk to her nicely, gets angry in any issue.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dont think she will be focusing on that aspect so much. Yes it was kind of tacky, but it's not like they were a couple then and she was engaged to another guy. She knew why he sent that girl to his room and I dont know if she were to dwell on it that much now.

She knows Shravan and she would know he is not the one night stand type. Having said that, he lived in London for 10 years, so she probably has no idea what was happening then. She knows he used to turn on the fake charm in front of women. (Urvashi incident etc). If I were Suman, I would not be hung up on it, as I am a realist.

I think Suman is too! Let's see if she brings it up. But I think it's beneath her dignity to show jealousy about something like that tacky incident with that girl from the party. It's like she is giving too much importance to a non-entity!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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That Jallebi Bai Is No more Important I think ...But May be During The Quarrel She will Take That Incident saw His Faults...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even I was thinking the same, how many times he will insult her? and how many times she will let it go? I wish she could have long clear cut conversation with him.. but no it will not happen unless Shravan get exposed..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I dont think she will be focusing on that aspect so much. Yes it was kind of tacky, but it's not like they were a couple then and she was engaged to another guy. She knew why he sent that girl to his room and I dont know if she were to dwell on it that much now.

She knows Shravan and she would know he is not the one night stand type. Having said that, he lived in London for 10 years, so she probably has no idea what was happening then. She knows he used to turn on the fake charm in front of women. (Urvashi incident etc). If I were Suman, I would not be hung up on it, as I am a realist.

I think Suman is too! Let's see if she brings it up. But I think it's beneath her dignity to show jealousy about something like that tacky incident with that girl from the party. It's like she is giving too much importance to a non-entity!


Realist it fine and I think she is too. But she knew he's the one-woman nerd type, so I don't think she actually believes he slept around either. Even if she was practical enough to think hey maybe he slept around in London, she cannot overlook him giving her a tit for tat, that's why she thought it was low. It was the timing of it after they restarted their "relationship," so it is human to think of it.

Shravan can have a history and commit to her, but she believes the letter and that he loved her all along. He said to her repeatedly that he had no woman around him, no crush/love story, and didn't want to be tied down to any woman. So I am not sure she believes that his charm meant he has a long history of one night stands or relationships. She thinks that woman he flaunted was the first time he tried to give back with a woman (other than Urvashi), so it it a very big event to her. CVs should show her at least mentioning it, it should get in the way with the other misunderstandings.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@ Mary:

Sorry to disagree with you mate, but I dont think that girl going to Shravan's room was a "Very big event" to Suman at all. She was upset and she thought it was tacky. Even when she reflected on it after coming home. She was more disappointed than jealous. When they were dancing together she was more feeling some jealousy I think. But when he so blatantly sent that girl to his room, I think she was feeling a bit sickened by the whole thing. Like Shravan is stooping low to get to her.


Yes, she was upset by it, but I doubt she is going to make a major issue out of it now. She has a lot more to worry about as far as Shravan's attitude and his Father's pathetic acts to contend with. Some girl who was sent to Shravan's room when he was trying to show her up is low on the list. Yes, she knows that Shravan loved her since school days, and he never had anyone else like that in his life since. She probably knows he has not been in love since. But that does not mean he is a Saint and that he would never have looked twice at an attractive female. He clearly did not give any other woman importance in his life (Probably coz he was still so hung up on Sumo). But to what extent, even Suman does not know. I remember him clearly saying about the girl he loved. "It was one-sided, and I have moved on". (He had not really, but even he fooled himself that he had).


Urvashi was just a girl again he used to make Suman jealous or show Suman he can get any other girl and girls give him importance, even though she (Suman) had not. This golden sari wala girl was again something on the same lines. It just went to a cheaper and in your face level. That is all. I don't think Suman thinks that Shravan has had many one night stands. Or that he had ANY for that matter. But that doesn't mean she is going to keep bringing up some girl who went to him room once as a major issue they can't overcome in their relationship. NO sensible woman would.


Now that they are getting married, she can take exception if he were to do something like that now. But what happened at that party is a not an issue that deserves that much importance or dwelling. Shravan took that girl to his room for whatever reason. How long she stayed there, no one knows. Yes Ramnath was upset seeing that, as any Father who knows why his son is acting like this would. He knows Shravan does not make a habit of entertaining girls in his room. But he saw him do that after Suman's engagement is announced and he knew WHY he did it too. So he was upset. Suman was equally upset about it. But neither Ramnath or Suman will give it that much importance that now it will be a sticking point.


Sorry, long post, but I had a lot to say! :)
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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How can she question shravan on being with a girl when she herself was with another guy... At that time she had no right to say shravan to not go with that girl???
She can bring this up only if shravan brings out her relation with aditya...
Shravan and that girl willingly when to the room.and both are adults( shravan is a ma child but still) and both were single..

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