Asha's reaction to Sona's secret

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Posted: 9 years ago
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We have all seen Ishwari reaction to Devakshi relationship. we have yet to see another mother reaction to this relationship. we have got to see her POV.

I wonder how will Asha react that her daughter has not disclosed the secret to her.

Would Asha throw tantrums to Sona the way Ishwari did to her son?

What will be her reaction when she comes to know Dev as a love of Sonakshi's life?

Would she accept Dev as Sona's life partner?

Would she want Sona to get married to a bengali guy?

Would she want Sona to get married to a middle class guy rather than a rich guy?

Would she disclose to her husband and her mother in law?

How would they react to this news?

Would she be ecstatic to find out about Sona love life?

Would Sona disclose the secret tomorrow?

Would Asha support her daughter?



So many questions yet to be answered. What do you think?


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes right so many questions to be answered, but I am sure she will support her.
We can only wait and watch
Posted: 9 years ago
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So far I came to know that.. Asha is a very supportive mother..may be she will get upset 4 sometime..but not like Iswari.. She is a very sweet mother..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I hope Sona tells her mother before she comes n asks her. Asha wudnt behave like Ishwari n take it to her heart that Sona did not share it earlier. She wud be sad momentarily but wud be extremely happy abt Dev and Sona.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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"The bittersweet struggle of a mother. Don't want to see my babies grow but then i do to see my babies dreams come true "

If no Dev no Sona
Sona love Dev very much

I am sure Asha will accept Dev and she will fulfill dreaM of Sona
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Posted: 9 years ago
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She surely will support Sona. Yesterday we saw that she got hurt knowing Sona is keeping some secret from her. But she is very understanding and will eventually understand Sona for sure. Me too want Sona to inform her parents. They should not come to know by overhearing. Dev ke ghar pe toh overhearing se hi pata chala Maiyya aur Mamaji ko.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Unlike eswari, Asha is very friendly and supportive..i think she will accept😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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She will be understanding ..but will be worries as Dev hasnt disclosed to his mother.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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First time replying in this forum, so forgive me if I offend anyone.

To the topic: How will Asha react as opposed to Ishwari's reaction?

Answer is based on our cultural reaction - how Indian culture raises boys vs girls.

Girl are brought up with the expectation that she will marry and leave our house. Even though parents have emotional connection with their daughters, they don't created a "hold" on them. As opposed to boys, who are expected to stay home and take care of their parents. Parents form a "hold" on them and they become insecure when they start to lose that "hold".

Even Ishwari showed this cultural differences. When Neha fell in love with her teacher, Ishwari accepted the change easily. Even when Neha started to get influenced by her Ranveer (i think that's his name). And Neha did not tell her mother about her relationship even after the proposal. When she became aware, Ishware accepted, processed the change (in a healthy manner), and helped the relationship move forward. She saw a good, smart, intelligent man falling for her daughter. And she saw Ranveer as a good partner and support.

When that same form of love entered Dev's live, Ishwari started to get afraid and insecure. She started to resent Sona for influencing her thoughts to Dev or when Dev started to listen to Sona's suggestions. She did not see Sona's intelligent, smartness, or how Sona's influence might help Dev as a support system. She just saw the loss on "hold" over her son. True, Ishwari is attached to Dev a lot more than her daughters, but her attachment is starting to show like a typical Indian mother losing control of her beloved son. Not a mother losing connections to her children (son & daughters) as a generation gap.

Asha on the other hand is like a mother from the western culture. She raised her son & daughter as equals. She never expects her son to take care of her & her husband. And she does not hesitate in accepting financial help from her daughter either. She has deep emotional connection with both her children but she has not placed any "hold" or expectations on either. She might get hurt that daughter was not comfortable in opening up about her relationship with Dev, but she will look at Dev and judge him to see if he is a suitable partner for her daughter. I hope Asha's character shapes out this way.

Even if Asha follows Indian culture, she will still accept Sona's relationship with Dev. Asha will judge Dev as any mother would of their child's choice. And if she find Dev worthy of her daughter then she will be happy about it and support them. Because she wants her daughter to meet a good man who will make her daughter happy. And who is financially secure to take care of her daughter, which Dev is.

I think Asha will have real issues with Ishwari and how Ishwari will treats Sona.

I guess we have to wait and watch how both Mother's characters will be shaped by the writers.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I can say for sure that she definitely won't behave like Ishwari!! 😕 😆
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