Man and woman has to know each others world ram - Page 2

Originally posted by: Arijit007

my dear aditi, you should have told that lady that her assumption about sita and ram is horribly wrong. neither ram nor sita were supirior in that marriege, they were absolutly equal. aur koi farak hi nahi padhta ke ram khana pakaay ya sita.

@aditi there are 2 problems when you talk to ladies like her. First is the moment they see something different from what they expect in this epic we need to understand their world is crumbling. And who told ladies doesn't like the idea of regressive Ram. They too need it so that they can become Kaikeyi( no Kaikeyi is far better than the present saas of TV soaps) in the garb of Kausalya and expect her bahu to be Sita who according to them is doormat. Any other idea of Sita frightens them. But on a lighter note if I was in your place I would have asked her " Aunty what do you want to watch, extra marital affair, conspiracy, knowledge on how a saas can oust bahu from her house or something else" . I will ask them such things with a smile. On most occasions people are put in place.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@aditi there are 2 problems when you talk to ladies like her. First is the moment they see something different from what they expect in this epic we need to understand their world is crumbling. And who told ladies doesn't like the idea of regressive Ram. They too need it so that they can become Kaikeyi( no Kaikeyi is far better than the present saas of TV soaps) in the garb of Kausalya and expect her bahu to be Sita who according to them is doormat. Any other idea of Sita frightens them. But on a lighter note if I was in your place I would have asked her " Aunty what do you want to watch, extra marital affair, conspiracy, knowledge on how a saas can oust bahu from her house or something else" . I will ask them such things with a smile. On most occasions people are put in place.

 

@vipraja don't tell what TV shows have done to society. It has degraded it. As Adiit's experience people does not want to watch sensible things. It is not just Ramayana, no sensible story is accepted. And this negativity is not helping anyone.

@aditi education in south has helped a lot. If you look south women of my generation are quite educated, working. But I don't think north the situation is like that. It will take another 2 generations for north to catch up. That's why shows which doesn't sell in Hindi becomes hits down south or abroad. Edited by shruthiravi - 8 years ago

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@aditi education in south has helped a lot. If you look south women of my generation are quite educated, working. But I don't think north the situation is like that. It will take another 2 generations for north to catch up. That's why shows which doesn't sell in Hindi becomes hits down south or abroad.

BARC ratings takes rural. That's why all this nagins, dayans and black magic is taking centre stage. Instead of showing rural India something constructive to change their views, these shows are trying to keep them where they are.