Everybody cannot do everything- Janak - Page 4

As of now, I don't think all thos eassembled fro the Swayamvar were aware of the fact that baby Sita had lifted the bow and that was the reason, Parushuramji had asked janak to set the contest to choose the groom and the one who strings the bow will be the match. Looks like that will be revealed in today's episode.

Yes jaya. Ram will kill parashuram  's ego. Waiting for that. 

@ Ramya, nice to hear that you are into research. Yes, as parents it is a bit difficult to digest to send our kids to research line as it will call for her full attention and at times she may have to miss all the other fun in life. If being an engineer, I have faced such situation where it was little difficult to manage house and work, I can understand your parents worry and please don't mistake them. For them, all they want is a happy and jovial life for their kid and I think they would have understood that now after seeing your happiness lies in your research.

Originally posted by: adi2512

@ Ramya, 

We both are so alike...imagining faces, based on what / how they write...even I tend to do that... 😆😆

 😆 Happy to meet one more like-minded person😊

Originally posted by: deejagi

@ Ramya, nice to hear that you are into research. Yes, as parents it is a bit difficult to digest to send our kids to research line as it will call for her full attention and at times she may have to miss all the other fun in life. If being an engineer, I have faced such situation where it was little difficult to manage house and work, I can understand your parents worry and please don't mistake them. For them, all they want is a happy and jovial life for their kid and I think they would have understood that now after seeing your happiness lies in your research.

 

Unless you find a understanding life partner and in laws, it will be difficult to lead a happy or shall I say peaceful life for a girl who works on non time bound work. that is the main reason why parents would love their daughters to choose some bank job or teaching profession etc. where your work is in stipulated hours and after that, you are free. that is not the case with scientists, engineers, doctors etc. as they shall be ready 24 x 7 to invest their time on their work and had to rush even at odd hours of the day or night.

Yes, I missed other fun in life according to my parents but for me its really everything. I agree ur views. This is somewhat troublesome pleasure for me which I don't want to miss😉

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@aditi the problem is if you move ahead in life without understanding in fundamentals, you will always struggle. You will always complain. So if we are struggling somewhere the truth is that we don't know fundamental. We are applying the law incorrectly. Law can never go wrong, but its application varies from person to person. So only if you know fundamental you can apply it. But for quick gains fundamental is ignored. Yes there are so many private colleges so why study hard for engineering. Get a payment seat. After that. There are so many IT companies. Get into one of them. Get married. Have kids. How to lead married life. No clue. What to teach kids no clue. Because you didn't struggle, you don't have a journey, you don't have learnings. And one catastrophe suicide not just the child, how many family suicides I see everyday in newspaper. And I feel why couldn't they survive. Why couldn't they think positive. Why couldn't they hold a bit longer. Reason is unable to deal with failure. Struggle helps you to deal with failure and then bounce back. [/DIV]

Yes u r right without fundamentals everything goes haywire..
Nowadays education system is in such a sad state .. Paid seats and commercialisation of education is at its peak..
Another problem is nowadays one is not clear about career options..
Parents say go for Btech or MBBS and children start preparing without even exploring other options.. Sply Btech has become so common, but jobs are limited.. So yes one needs to b very clear about what to do after graduation, job, teaching, research , start up etc

Yes u said it very nicely , difficulties or struggles should always be treated as an opportunity to have an experience...
Like my father had a good knowledge about entrance and all so he guided me ...

I am so much loving the discussion going on here..

Fantastic post Shruti didi😃