First love is not always true love! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Shreeswathy

Bang on post preet..

Loved it.

First love need not be true love.

We will get a reality check if it fails..

I am saying it from my experience..

Originally posted by: Luv_Ishveer

FANTABULOUS post Preet!!
Each and every word was true
Don't know wen people will get their minds straight
But I just pray it's Swasan all the way QUITE SOON

Originally posted by: iam-in-love

well said... A big hug to u for this awsm post...

True love is based on respect , care & trust . And oue Sanskar love for swara is true & Swara too will realize her love for Sanskar soon

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

I think we should stop all this

There is no point explaining swalak fans

I think we Swasan fans should take a break

Swalak fans are clearly not ready to see that swalak was never meant to be

It's not just about true love I just don't understand why do they want a girl like swara to he with a man

1) who does not trust her

2) called her characterless (twice )

3) is blaming only rags for Swalak break up

4) is her sister's husband

And he did all this when he was in so called "love" with her

I mean what kind of love is this where u belive worst about someone u love

I also agree that sanskar did every wrong in the book to swara but he did it for revenge for his love. He was not in love with swara and was not even her friend. But still when swara told him to back off from revenge mode and move forward in life he did that.

Now here is lucky who does not listen to swara at all

She kept on saying that rags is lieing he did not believe her and insulted her

Now swara is saying that rags is not lieing ( although she is wrong) he does not believe her

Sanskar just asked swara that do u belive rags she said yes and he agreed to do what she wants without doubting her belief on her sister for her happiness

I just don't understand why can't swalak fans see through the symbolism out of all these incident

As far as Kavita is concerned sanskar loved her and we have seen his passion for her. He was going to take revenge from his brother and bade papa just for his love. But swara stopped him before he became male ragini

And name calling of characters is always on a lighter note

1) ragini becomes rags/ nagini etc

2) lakshay becomes lucky/ lux

3) sanskar becomes sanky especially because it rhymes with hanky

Hey we do not have a nick name for Swara??????

Originally posted by: sanabmw

Wonderful post...

Firstly I dont belive in first love ...pehla pyaar aapko kabhi bhi kisi se bhi ho sakta hai..looks se baato se kisi ki party main shadi main kahi bhi aur wo pyaar kam crush jayada hota hai..I think 70% to crush hi hota hai.

Chalo maan liya pehla pyaar saccha hua bhi but wo pura nahi ho saka but kya uske baad aap kisi aur se pyaar nahi kar sakte...pyaar main aisa nahi hota pyaar aabaad karta hai barbaad nahi.

Sanskaar ki life main kavita aayI uski death ho gayi wo 5 yers akela raha than swara ko jana samjha phir usse pyaar kiya usne kisi k marr jane se kya dusre insaan ki dunia ruk jati hai..nahi na..aur sanskaar ne kabhi swara k saath kuch galat nahi socha kabhi intimate nahi hua na hi dream kiya..uska pyaar itna pure hai..but aise pyaar ko samajhne k liye pure dil aur samajh chahiye ...jo k na lux main hai na uske so called fans..ab jo jaisa hoga uski aur uske aaspaas walo ki thinking bhi waisi hi hogi na😆

Aur lux uska kya kahu uska pyaar tab kaha tha jab swara pani main gir gayi tb to usne bina wait kiye shadi kar lee..ragini ko uska haq dene wala tha wo bhi two times ek baar sanskar k tent burn karne se ruk gaya aur dusri baar sawsan k marriage wali rat...agar saccha pyaar karta swara se to kisi aur ko touch kya shadi ka bhi nahi sochta

Jab hum kisi se oyaar karte hai to hum uske khilaaf ya against kuch nahi sunte but lux ne to kya kuch nahi kaha ...aur aaj suddenly ragini k sach k baad phir se pyaar jaag gaya aur dudh main se makhi jaise ragini ko bahar nikaal diya jase pehle swara ko nikaala tha..agr ye saccha pyaar hai so plzz mujhe aisa pyaar nai chahiye...

Pyaar main apne pyaar ki khushi dekhte hai jo sanskaar dekh raha hai...aur in my point of view second love jayada strong hota hai..kyu k apne pyaar ko bhula k kisi aur ko wahi jagah dena aur kisi aur k liye feel karna bahot badi bat hai...aur wo bahot mushkil se hota hai but jab hota hai to us jaisa pyaar bahot strong hota hai first se bhi jayada

Sawsan ka yahi pyaar hai jab wo hoga to sab k muh bandh ho jayege

Originally posted by: Sakura24

Hi,

This is the most needed topic of the forum, as some still don't understand, LOVE let along, true or first.

You're right first love simply opens you to the feeling, it is where you discover yourself and your partner, perhaps along this path somewhere you might realize that the same person is the perfect one for you and then...true love happens, but perhaps as you move forward you realize no, we're not meant to be and the relationship weakens. That is what happened with Lakshya and Swara. It can happen with anyone.

Any person who thinks you should hang on to that kind of a weak relationship, let me tell you its like hanging on to a breaking rope while dangling over a huge chasm, that relationship will eventually fail and the longer you hang on the more hurt you'll be.

In first love you fall for what you imagine the other person is and later realize who they truly are, that's alright as it's your first time falling in love.

But in true love you love that person knowing who they really are, and only because you want that exact person in your life, with you. As you know exactly what their strength and weakness is there is seldom chance of misunderstandings and miscommunication. In true love you want that person to be happy rather than to be with you.

Now tell me how many of the above was in Laksh and how many of above is in Sanskar? That's where the answer is.

I am really against anyone who suggest its alright for a brother in law to behave this way with his sister in law no matter whatever their history is, it's total gross and gives a very bad message. I don't think anyone should back such behavior.

I don't think anyone should be insulted either. Sanskar has his share of misdeeds but he has payed his debt in full. Even criminals gets released after that, why don't let the poor guy be?

I enjo
yed the post a lot, sorry for the long comment :)

Originally posted by: Banjaaran...

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🤗

beautiful post..

well i probably will regret writing the the essay i am gonna write below..
but have to let it out..

1. Sanskaar is drug peddler, criminal, blot on brotherhood, traitor, this and that and these and those..
then pray why people want him to turn him negative or obsessive?
i mean he is horrible already!

2. Quote verbatim from a Swalak'ian post:
Swara:
ek bhai ke bahoonn se uthi dusre ki bahoon mein giri.
err.. then let that **** girl be with the criminal brother. why let pure, innocent, victim laksh be with her. Doesn't he deserve better?

3. Hanky man.
call me silly but would a girl be rather with a guy who gives her hanky to wipe her tears than the jerk who gives her tears at the first place?

4. Swara forgave a criminal Sanskaar and psycho Ragini then why not Laskh.
Well! she said she has already forgiven Laksh.
so the point?
Second chance: oh! that she hadn't given to Sanskaar too after the confession even when he begged for friendship. she is now with him because she CHOSE too. not other way round.

5. Sanskaar trusts Swara because he knows her. Laksh trusted her always.
Okayyy!!
then who was the one who trusted Ragini's video and words over Swara's pleas and tears over drug fiasco? i-wont-believe-you-you-characterless-***- even-if-god-tells -me-otherwise Laksh!
with the morphed pics out soon Sanskaar WILL stand by Swara and this after that girl's constant confused reactions, rejections and midnight meets with her former flame (not her fault though).
So yeah! lets talk about trust again!

6. Laksh never moved on. Sanskaar did in a day.
errrmm. but for Sanskaar's tent burning stunt Laksh would have done ang-laga-de with his wifey. A week time i guess!
Sanskaar took five years of rage induced hell to let go of kavita. he tethered his love to hate. (wrong i know). and finally chose love again.

7. First love / True love..
the love which respects you, honours your word above all, love you unconditionally and will stand by you NO matter what... well that's love. first or tenth.. gimme that kinda of love and i am SOLD.

8. intimacy between Swara and Laksh..
Romantic?
Hell NO! it is extramarital illicit affair endorsed by no culture east or west.
if they are truly in love .. divorce, annul, separate from respective spouses and THEN move on.
Godspeed.
otherwise show some dignity.

phew..
that's some essay i typed away to glory.😳</font>

Originally posted by: Cintila

Preet !🤗

I'd love to rant but tune already sab kuch bolti diya😆

BANG on post👏👏