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Posted: 10 years ago
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My very first impression of Tanya was that she is so sweet n bubbly, such a nice girl.. and this opinion still holds.. she definetly seems like a really sweet girl..
But what Tanya said today outlined an issue which was vaguely felt even in previous episodes..
She said its her dream to get married to Viplav..
She loves him and wanting to marry him is definetly not a wrong thing.. but for me the choice of words in that situation (hiding engagement news from him) seemed to say that she never made an attempt to understand Viplav fully.. Viplav is obviously in doubts about his relation with Tanya.. but i dont see that in a "playing with her feelings" way.. because being guilty of daydreaming about another woman is last thing on his mind now.. it just shows he is not at all serious abt his relation with her.. he probably doesnt even see how serious Tanya is..
He doesnt connect with her.. probably coz he never loved her..
But Tanya claims to love him truely.. yet even she doesnt understand his heart.. she either doesnt see his confusion or doesnt bother to discuss it... either way that resulted in lack of a major substance in their relation.. Depth


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: swetha811

My very first impression of Tanya was that she is so sweet n bubbly, such a nice girl.. and this opinion still holds.. she definetly seems like a really sweet girl..

But what Tanya said today outlined an issue which was vaguely felt even in previous episodes..
She said its her dream to get married to Viplav..
She loves him and wanting to marry him is definetly not a wrong thing.. but for me the choice of words in that situation (hiding engagement news from him) seemed to say that she never made an attempt to understand Viplav fully.. Viplav is obviously in doubts about his relation with Tanya.. but i dont see that in a "playing with her feelings" way.. because being guilty of daydreaming about another woman is last thing on his mind now.. it just shows he is not at all serious abt his relation with her.. he probably doesnt even see how serious Tanya is..
He doesnt connect with her.. probably coz he never loved her..
But Tanya claims to love him truely.. yet even she doesnt understand his heart.. she either doesnt see his confusion or doesnt bother to discuss it... either way that resulted in lack of a major substance in their relation.. Depth



u just said exactly my words...either way Tanya will get devastated for sure...
they both have done mistakes in understanding each other...i hope this wont effect their good friendship
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Posted: 10 years ago
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taniya has gown up like a princess ,she got whatever she craved for ..and a boyfriend too..
before taking her relationship to next level with viplav ..at least she should have consulted with him at once ..
birthday parties can be pleasant surprise not a engagement ceremony..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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today i was feeling bad for tanya.😭
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: swetha811

My very first impression of Tanya was that she is so sweet n bubbly, such a nice girl.. and this opinion still holds.. she definetly seems like a really sweet girl..

But what Tanya said today outlined an issue which was vaguely felt even in previous episodes..
She said its her dream to get married to Viplav..
She loves him and wanting to marry him is definetly not a wrong thing.. but for me the choice of words in that situation (hiding engagement news from him) seemed to say that she never made an attempt to understand Viplav fully.. Viplav is obviously in doubts about his relation with Tanya.. but i dont see that in a "playing with her feelings" way.. because being guilty of daydreaming about another woman is last thing on his mind now.. it just shows he is not at all serious abt his relation with her.. he probably doesnt even see how serious Tanya is..
He doesnt connect with her.. probably coz he never loved her..
But Tanya claims to love him truely.. yet even she doesnt understand his heart.. she either doesnt see his confusion or doesnt bother to discuss it... either way that resulted in lack of a major substance in their relation.. Depth



The background of their relation has not been shown. But it can not be assumed that just because you want to get married to some one, that person also wants the same thing, specially if the other person has never expressed his feelings. Tanya should have spoken to viplav about the same because engagement is a big event in any one's life and it would be like blasting a bomb on Viplav's head. I think she always had an upper hand in this relation and viplav being a care free man never cared to see through Tanya. Viplav is also to blame because something must have happened that made Tanya assume that viplav also wanted to marry her. Only the future episodes will clear the doubts. From what we all can see , there will be a big chaos in their lives.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mugl-e-azam


The background of their relation has not been shown. But it can not be assumed that just because you want to get married to some one, that person also wants the same thing, specially if the other person has never expressed his feelings. Tanya should have spoken to viplav about the same because engagement is a big event in any one's life and it would be like blasting a bomb on Viplav's head. I think she always had an upper hand in this relation and viplav being a care free man never cared to see through Tanya. Viplav is also to blame because something must have happened that made Tanya assume that viplav also wanted to marry her. Only the future episodes will clear the doubts. From what we all can see , there will be a big chaos in their lives.

hi mugle-azam agree with what you are saying my only problem is, viplav... the girl openly confesses her love for him she calls him shono she leaves no opportunity to be all over him, he just takes it as you would if you were her lover boy , he told her any hanky panky has to wait till they are in US, and the problem of having a lawyer GF... all these thing indicate he was thinking along the same line as her... so now she is just his female friend and not GF , i think he's at fault and he has alot to answer for... today he didn't say anything to him when she hugged him from the back,oh please viplav don't be so naive... you know what her intentions are even if they are not same as yours, stop the woman going so far in the relationship to the point of no return for her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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agree with u shwetha and also with mughl-e-azam and tahera
tanya is not in fault for loving viplav...but she herself said viplav never confessed his love...and she assumed it his acceptance...and she is again not be blamed as viplav never opposed her open declaration of her love either...but hiding something like engagement from vipu? that's out of my mind...its not a play...its such a serious issue and i so agree with tanya's mother...how can u expect ur love to be kept in dark and at the right moment u will show up like oh its our engagement...even if the guy loves u, then too he will be shocked and irritated...and here he don't even love her...she is saying its her biggest dream marrying viplav...but taking a step towards marriage like this?...how justified?...even if she is holding faith on DT kianak, but she have to spend her life with vipu...not them...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i whole heartedly agree with you roopal he should have been asked not just told before the engagement... and dadi ji no point in her worrying silently if Shalu had blurted it out GM shouldn't have made her shut up... this way no one told deliberately..let's see who is viplav going to take to task tomorrow over this whole scenario.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tahera57

i whole heartedly agree with you roopal he should have been asked not just told before the engagement... and dadi ji no point in her worrying silently if Shalu had blurted it out GM shouldn't have made her shut up... this way no one told deliberately..let's see who is viplav going to take to task tomorrow over this whole scenario.


exactly
i felt a bit disappointed with dadi too
okay i know she can't oppose DT but vipu is the only one who lover her so much
she needed not to divert the topic...shalu wouldn't have been said anything as its her engagement..

i am also much excited how vipu gonna rescue himself
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Tanya to me is a stupid stupid girl.
Cant she see that Viplav isnt serious abt her at all. So who gave her the right to take the decision of marriage on his behalf as well?! Arre atleast ek baar to pooch lo usse! 😳
Yeah shes good hearted n all... but along that a very stupid girl too.
And I dont know how she fell in love with Viplav! I mean he is never very warm with her in that romantic way.
He was clearly annoyed with her even in yesterday's epi.
Hope she comes out of her dreamland & stops running behind Viplav.

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