Tanya

Originally posted by: swetha811

My very first impression of Tanya was that she is so sweet n bubbly, such a nice girl.. and this opinion still holds.. she definetly seems like a really sweet girl..

But what Tanya said today outlined an issue which was vaguely felt even in previous episodes..

She said its her dream to get married to Viplav..

She loves him and wanting to marry him is definetly not a wrong thing.. but for me the choice of words in that situation (hiding engagement news from him) seemed to say that she never made an attempt to understand Viplav fully.. Viplav is obviously in doubts about his relation with Tanya.. but i dont see that in a "playing with her feelings" way.. because being guilty of daydreaming about another woman is last thing on his mind now.. it just shows he is not at all serious abt his relation with her.. he probably doesnt even see how serious Tanya is..

He doesnt connect with her.. probably coz he never loved her..

But Tanya claims to love him truely.. yet even she doesnt understand his heart.. she either doesnt see his confusion or doesnt bother to discuss it... either way that resulted in lack of a major substance in their relation.. Depth

Originally posted by: swetha811

My very first impression of Tanya was that she is so sweet n bubbly, such a nice girl.. and this opinion still holds.. she definetly seems like a really sweet girl..

But what Tanya said today outlined an issue which was vaguely felt even in previous episodes..

She said its her dream to get married to Viplav..

She loves him and wanting to marry him is definetly not a wrong thing.. but for me the choice of words in that situation (hiding engagement news from him) seemed to say that she never made an attempt to understand Viplav fully.. Viplav is obviously in doubts about his relation with Tanya.. but i dont see that in a "playing with her feelings" way.. because being guilty of daydreaming about another woman is last thing on his mind now.. it just shows he is not at all serious abt his relation with her.. he probably doesnt even see how serious Tanya is..

He doesnt connect with her.. probably coz he never loved her..

But Tanya claims to love him truely.. yet even she doesnt understand his heart.. she either doesnt see his confusion or doesnt bother to discuss it... either way that resulted in lack of a major substance in their relation.. Depth

Originally posted by: Mugl-e-azam

The background of their relation has not been shown. But it can not be assumed that just because you want to get married to some one, that person also wants the same thing, specially if the other person has never expressed his feelings. Tanya should have spoken to viplav about the same because engagement is a big event in any one's life and it would be like blasting a bomb on Viplav's head. I think she always had an upper hand in this relation and viplav being a care free man never cared to see through Tanya. Viplav is also to blame because something must have happened that made Tanya assume that viplav also wanted to marry her. Only the future episodes will clear the doubts. From what we all can see , there will be a big chaos in their lives.

Originally posted by: tahera57

i whole heartedly agree with you roopal he should have been asked not just told before the engagement... and dadi ji no point in her worrying silently if Shalu had blurted it out GM shouldn't have made her shut up... this way no one told deliberately..let's see who is viplav going to take to task tomorrow over this whole scenario.