Originally posted by Nisha0604
Lets face it how many of us are able to treat the kids on the in laws side just like we treat our own nephews and nieces? ZERO!!
Its impossible to jump up and start loving the kids
Only soap bahus do that
In real life we all have our reservations. We want to be accepted and not criticized, and so we take it slow, we dont jump up and claim all sasuraal ke bache like they are our own
II by nature is a kid lover so its easy for her to be warm and affectionate
To expect her to love Nandu EQUALLY is like asking a new entry level employee on the first day of his or her job to "become a CEO within a year"
Joint familes place such ridiculous expectations on the new bahu
Its easy for R&B to love Shravu, NOBODY EXPECTS HIM TO
The web of complicated relationships is unbelievable. Sometimes bahus also go that extra mile to show care for in law kids, not out of some e sudden love they have realized but out of concern, out of wantign to blend in and also so they are judged wrongly. How can one compare the love that a girl feels for those she has seen, raised, cared for worried and loved from the time they are born and the love and the care they would feel for kids who have come into their lives by association. After many years it can be possible but itni jaldi nahi jo sakta.
Yes II by nature sai loving and giving personality not a meanie so she attempts to treat NANDU equally but I feel primarily to protect SHRAVU