Originally posted by: jhalak7
All those are very initial stages of how to manipulate and capture a prey . Read Kamasutra and other books of manipulation.
Rule1----At first taunt her, tease her---- hurt the prey, make her fight with you
Rule-2----Find the sorrow of the prey. If it's a puddle, dig it and make it a river. Make her cry and suffer. Make her feel lonely.
Rule-3 ---Show her so much sympathy that she forgets to believe on her own two feet and start thinking that you are the one who can make her life better. Support her like no one cares about her than you.
Rule-4- Poison her mind about her family. Break bonding between her parents( He made that video which made Pilai more furious)
Rule-5- Do something that breaks trust of her friends.
Rule-6- Ignore her when she becomes dependent to you. ( He danced with Radhika to make her feel jealous or get more attracted)
Rule-7- Create misunderstanding with her friends and break friendship( He made that and made Neil so suspicious and cheated that he forced her to leave his house).
Rule-8- Now the prey is alone. Bring in to your cage. ( He got a house for her)
Rule-9- Create sexual attraction. Awrat hai. If she becomes pregnant and single-------later Arjun leaves her pregnant. She would suffer. Her friend don't trust her( he thought), her mother hates her( he tried), may be he would make her leave her job too as she is pregnant( if) ...then what would that besahara ladki do? Kill her self. Just as he planned.
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It's no love. Very ancient technique of manipulating woman. Well you can try this on man too. A lot of girls do these days----------check all the vamps of other serials. They do this always. Divide and rule---------British did it too. That's how India turned in to 3pieces. 😆
Nice that they are showing that. Usually a lot of us gets fooled by this kind of manipulators like Arjun. Sometimes they come as husband , sometimes as wife or sometimes as BF/GF or politicians. If you know some one like them-------------run for your life.
Sam is complete. She is sad because her brother is dead. Mom is upset because her son is left. Now they know each other's sorrow-----------no Arjun or Neil is needed to fix their relationship. Thanks to Radhika. Nice and intelligent girl. 👏
OMG ... girl, u nailed it !! 👏
u hv quite deep understanding of such manipulating techniques which even have been played in real life not just at personal level but even in political & geo-political stage !! just countries are replaced by individuals & millions of people suffer for no fault !! 😒
"the hegelian dialect" is no different. no wonder world's wealth getting controlled by few & majority getting poorer !!
Indian TV shows apply it quite dramatically !! 😆
but what i love about most of Indian stories or psyche of Indian audience is, good winning over evil & leading to ultimate happiness. no, don't classify manmarzian characters as good&evil here. 😆 i mean in most of the stories, there has to be someone who breaks this evil trap,safeguarding his/her near&dear ones.
i so much wish if this could be played out by someone at geo-political stage as well,safe guarding the interests of millions !! 😭
as far as show is concerned, yes. radhika is one who is standing in between sam and her destruction at hands of of her manipulator arjun, who is into these manipulating games due to reasons best known to him !! would love to see to more of radhika standing strongly upto arjun !! i would like to see even arjun suffering later,paying for his misdeeds irrespective of how sad&painful his past is !! at the same time, quite curious to know his story&reasons as well,may be as a kid he suffered due to evil designs of someone else !! yes, they shouldn't take to romance angle leaving loose ends in story. i believe this show is much more than just another love story !! hope CVs dont disappoint us !!