Diyaar-e-Dil AT# 3 - Page 41

Originally posted by: lostmymusic.

Mary - yaar tou baat karo na about them! main tou bhari bethi hun!

I don't think Suhaib "loves" Arjumand. I believe that after Arjumand blasted Suhaib in this episode about how a child should be born out of husband and wife's love, he realized that he was wrong in ignoring Arjumand so harshly. He should have tried to build some bridge to her when there was time. After that, he started acknowledging her as a person. I personally loved his, "Main ais bache ki nahin, tumhari baat kar raha hun." And Arjumand noticed this too but she kept pushing him away as a way to ease her own frustrations.

Then in the hospital Arjumand apologized to him and admitted that he was a good guy, that was when all the previous gilla shikwas were erased. And then Suhaib held his baby...the child he immediately fell in love with. How could he not acknowledge the mother then? Arjumand was the woman who gave him such joy and who shared his love for the child..this connected him to her. In a fit of frustration he had said that the child is his only but he never repeated that. Afterwards Wali became "hamara bacha". Now they have mutual respect for each other and a shared love for Wali. Love for them is inevitable...and i believe precap was a glimpse of that.

Suhaib is too loving and caring and he will first extend that love and care to the woman who is bound to him for life. And Arjumand tou always wanted love and respect as a person. Suhaib will make sure to give her that. and she will reciprocate. aaah! good days await them <3

Originally posted by: brainychild92

^I loved when he says "Main ais bache ki nahin, tumhari baat kar raha hun." She is taken aback for a second but doesn't want to believe it.. she is too depressed to...

Also, I think he said that the child is his only so she wouldn't hurt it... I mean in that fit, she could've done anything to her child, but she wouldn't to his... I mean she is that person who can do anything to things that are hers but not to other people's..

Over all, amazing episode. Fell in love. Even when Suhaib gets upset that Behroze isn't there... It sums up their relationship.. Can't wait for Tuesday :)😳

Whioa

Such beautiful posts on arsu

Jus had a blast reading them n agree with each n every point

Originally posted by: HeavenlyBliss.

Yup, my grandad is really ill. Please pray for him.

Originally posted by: HeavenlyBliss.

Yup, my grandad is really ill. Please pray for him.

I will keep him in my prayers
May Allah give him Sehat
Have a safe journey 😊

Originally posted by: mary78613

Lol, to pehle bolti na. I am ever ready to discuss the show 😛

Yes he has realised during her pregnancy that he was not right in ignoring her and he tried to show concern but she was too used to his indifference now and kept on taunting 'tumhe meri fikar kab se hogaee' and 'mehrbani kerke tum meri fikar na he karo'

Love is something that I don't think can ever happen between ArSu but mutual respect, care and the bonding because of the love for their child is what I expect from their relationship. By love I mean that mushy romance that we see between RuRoze 😆 I think a relationship can work perfectly if it has mutual respect and care which they will have from now on.

I believe during her pregnancy Arjumand was more vocal about her feelings about the relationship and him and the child too. She used to taunt before but she never said outright on his face how much she hated him, and her hatred for him had transferred to the child. He was taken aback by this, she believed that kids are a result of the love between the parents and there was only 'jabr and zabardasti' between them.

During their talk before the delivery, Arjumand spoke the truth after a long time, that she loved the kid even if she hated their relationship, the soft look on Suhaib face when she said that showed how much these words meant to him and how relieved he was to hear them. When she apologised to him, he said that mein tumse naraz nahi hoon Arjumand because he knew that the fault was at both sides. If she was hating the kid it was because he never showered love and care on her but he had decided that he would from now on.

Post delivery they looked so much at ease with each other, the awkwardness vanished and they were holding hands and looking at Wali so lovingly. I still cannot get over this scene!

Bolne ke liye bhi pehle bolti? 🤣

Just because a couple doesn't have mushy romance doesn't mean they aren't in love. ArHaib won' t have the mushy romance because they two seem far too mature for that kind of stuff. Mature as in..the things they have gone through, mujhe nahin lagta that they will find it within themselves to have dhuan dhaar qisam ka romance. Their love will bloom in the everyday stuff of life. Settling in, making each other their priority, the child that binds them, being together in the little joys of life. I know Suhaib said that he can't be happy without Behroze but I really wish that with Arjumand and his family he gets to spend his days not feeling empty and worthless. The precap gives me all these hopes. Them making promises to live a normal and happy life with their child. And normalcy for a child includes the parents love not just for the child but for each other as well..

Aaah! That look on Suhaib's face when Arjumand confesses that she loves their child. Suhaib was just in awe of this woman who despite going through all this stuff and depression still found it within herself to love someone. Suhaib knew all about her hatred for herself and everyone around them. In that moment he realized just how desperately she was in need for some love and caring. ajksdasdkjh! that look was everything, I swear!

The hand holding though! Yes, the ease and comfort as you said! Suhaib so easily reaching out for Arjumand's hand and taking it in his, patting in comfort as a token of gratitude and appreciation that she went through all this pain of giving birth...aah! Man! I need more and more of them!

Originally posted by: mary78613

Yes he showed care and concern towards her but it was a bit too late for that. The months of ignorance had taken a toll on their relationship.

I personally think she would have never hurt the child, she was just frustrated with the situation and vented out by saying that shee hated the kid and the father. But she never really meant it, never said it from heart.

To me, she looked more like a kid who was whining because things were not turning up the way she wanted. A ziddi, arrogant kid. Thats all. But that zidd vanished when she realised she could lose the most precious thing in life because of what she had said. That made her come back to her senses.

I really feel for these two brothers. At least they will meet in the next episode after so many years.

I have said this about Arjumand, she is a woman who might say extreme words but she doesn't act upon them. Her tantrums after the marriage were just her way of getting the attention which she wasn't getting. All she ever dreamed of all her life was the normal things. She didn't want something extraordinary. Just a loving husband and a family of her own in where she will find peace doing the day-to-day life chores. When she was denied that, she got frustrated and lashed out any way she found was her justified right. But she never did anything to cross the line. Only once did she got mad at her mother but when Suhaib told her not to, she didn't refuse him. And we only got to see Arjumand's frustration when she was with Suhaib. How she felt when she was alone, we don't know. And in those moments she could've fallen in love with her child. She was the one who carried the child, felt all of its tiny moments and growth within her. Zubaan se she might've cursed him but dil se nahin kiya...issi liye when the moment came and she realized that she was wrong, her remorse and guilt was too much. I think she will love Wali more because she might feel she'd have to compensate for all the curses she gave him when he was in her womb.

Suhaib tou will be overjoyed when he meets Behroze and sees his niece but hayyee re Behroze! His ego would never allow him to reconcile with his brother. Gaah..I feel for them, really. We all take relationships for granted. In our anger and ego we forget that nothing lasts forever. The moments we waste away being mad at each other, we don't realize that these could be our last moments with them. Yehi guilt Behroze ko bhi khaa jaega and Agha Jaan ko bhi..

Originally posted by: lostmymusic.

Bolne ke liye bhi pehle bolti? 🤣

Just because a couple doesn't have mushy romance doesn't mean they aren't in love. ArHaib won' t have the mushy romance because they two seem far too mature for that kind of stuff. Mature as in..the things they have gone through, mujhe nahin lagta that they will find it within themselves to have dhuan dhaar qisam ka romance. Their love will bloom in the everyday stuff of life. Settling in, making each other their priority, the child that binds them, being together in the little joys of life. I know Suhaib said that he can't be happy without Behroze but I really wish that with Arjumand and his family he gets to spend his days not feeling empty and worthless. The precap gives me all these hopes. Them making promises to live a normal and happy life with their child. And normalcy for a child includes the parents love not just for the child but for each other as well..

Aaah! That look on Suhaib's face when Arjumand confesses that she loves their child. Suhaib was just in awe of this woman who despite going through all this stuff and depression still found it within herself to love someone. Suhaib knew all about her hatred for herself and everyone around them. In that moment he realized just how desperately she was in need for some love and caring. ajksdasdkjh! that look was everything, I swear!

The hand holding though! Yes, the ease and comfort as you said! Suhaib so easily reaching out for Arjumand's hand and taking it in his, patting in comfort as a token of gratitude and appreciation that she went through all this pain of giving birth...aah! Man! I need more and more of them!

Lol! Chalo now we know we both crave lengthy discussions! 😛

Yes they're love will be based on mutual respect, care and their love for their child. I personally believe this kind of love is more realistic and last for a long time. A part of Suhaib will always be empty because of Behroze's absence but that does not mean he would not be happy at all. But that void would stay!

Yes exactly! Suhaib knows Arjumand now, he knows why she acts the way she does and what she needs. She needs love and care! and according to the precap they will make a truce and decide to live a happy married life! I am just so happy for them!

I noticed during the pregnancy that Suhaib looked at ease with Arjumand around. Before he did not even look at her. That means things changed between them after AJ came to their house. Obviously being intimate changes stuff, I think that changed a bit of the awkwardness from Suhaib's side at least. Remember the way he tucked her into bed? That was super cute. Even though she did not want him to touch her but he still did and showed that he cared.

Originally posted by: lostmymusic.

I have said this about Arjumand, she is a woman who might say extreme words but she doesn't act upon them. Her tantrums after the marriage were just her way of getting the attention which she wasn't getting. All she ever dreamed of all her life was the normal things. She didn't want something extraordinary. Just a loving husband and a family of her own in where she will find peace doing the day-to-day life chores. When she was denied that, she got frustrated and lashed out any way she found was her justified right. But she never did anything to cross the line. Only once did she got mad at her mother but when Suhaib told her not to, she didn't refuse him. And we only got to see Arjumand's frustration when she was with Suhaib. How she felt when she was alone, we don't know. And in those moments she could've fallen in love with her child. She was the one who carried the child, felt all of its tiny moments and growth within her. Zubaan se she might've cursed him but dil se nahin kiya...issi liye when the moment came and she realized that she was wrong, her remorse and guilt was too much. I think she will love Wali more because she might feel she'd have to compensate for all the curses she gave him when he was in her womb.

Suhaib tou will be overjoyed when he meets Behroze and sees his niece but hayyee re Behroze! His ego would never allow him to reconcile with his brother. Gaah..I feel for them, really. We all take relationships for granted. In our anger and ego we forget that nothing lasts forever. The moments we waste away being mad at each other, we don't realize that these could be our last moments with them. Yehi guilt Behroze ko bhi khaa jaega and Agha Jaan ko bhi..

Originally posted by: mary78613

Lol! Chalo now we know we both crave lengthy discussions! 😛

Yes they're love will be based on mutual respect, care and their love for their child. I personally believe this kind of love is more realistic and last for a long time. A part of Suhaib will always be empty because of Behroze's absence but that does not mean he would not be happy at all. But that void would stay!

Yes exactly! Suhaib knows Arjumand now, he knows why she acts the way she does and what she needs. She needs love and care! and according to the precap they will make a truce and decide to live a happy married life! I am just so happy for them!

I noticed during the pregnancy that Suhaib looked at ease with Arjumand around. Before he did not even look at her. That means things changed between them after AJ came to their house. Obviously being intimate changes stuff, I think that changed a bit of the awkwardness from Suhaib's side at least. Remember the way he tucked her into bed? That was super cute. Even though she did not want him to touch her but he still did and showed that he cared.

I said this a lot in the previous pages that couples get more at ease after getting intimate. Wonderful observation of yours though, ArHaib did get more comfortable afterwards. Pehle Suhaib used to plain look away from Arjumand. She used to be more at ease pehle bhi but afterwards Suhaib didn't completely shy away and gotten used to her presence around himself in the room. Arjumand pushing away Suhaib's hand but Suhaib still not going away and sticking around despite all her tantrums, that was such a marked change in his behavior that even Arjumand was surprised 😆

The void will always stay and somehow I don't think Arjumand would want do something to fill that void or something. She might just accept him with his void. Unless Arjumand still despises Behroze for rejecting her so cruelly, I think she will sympathize with Suhaib who misses his brother dearly. But if she turns out like AJ ke Behroze ka zikar bhi mat karo etc, then Suhaib will have one more pain to bear alone. If he can't talk about his brother to his wife as well...then that's really just one more tragedy for him. I am sure he wouldn't hold it against Arjumand and will continue to respect and love her but ek kasak tou reh hi jaegi..uwaaan! Suhaib deserves all the love i tell you!! 😭😭