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libsrocks

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Posted: 9 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: aparnauma
They have not shown us how she had been searching all these years.
But I guess she must be searching for her all the same. That's how she will come face to face with Nandini according to the news article.

She has been doing three things raising Shivam searching for Nandini and her social work.

isn't thats all wht BV is now based on...assumptions!

anandi is searching for nandini: assumption

anandi is giving independent life to shivam: assumption

social work is the only part which is not an assumptions

i think viewers really want to know whether all this has really happened in 10-11 yrs or not or else even we have thousand other assumptions to make like anandi herself has refused to let shivam know about shekhars so singhs is the only family he knows, anandi has not been attentive towards shivam like she was towards amol, anandi has never let shivam meet his bua saanchi in udaipur

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SPuja

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Posted: 9 years ago

#32

Yes, a lot of things have been left for assumption and different people will assume different things.

Like this Shiv Niketan can be assumed to be just revamped Basant Niketan - the name is similar and Basant Niketan is out of sight now. Was Anandi searching for Nandini? We can assume that she is still searching. Or we can assume that once she came to BH, she got busy and after that talk with DS - she kept Nandini in her heart and mind with other work. Otherwise - she had seen the person who kidnapped her daughter. She knew that he had made her daughter his daughter-in-law. Even Sarita is with her and Sarita's family know where that person lived. Searching Sarita's in-laws and Akhera with the help of sketches is possible when Akhera is seen living in his own village and not hiding in some unknown country.

People who want to defend creatives will assume that the story is going in right direction, people who do not find the story logical will assume that there are gaps and it does not add up as creatives want us to believe. All personal choices.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#33

If we go by assumptions it can also be assumed that Shivam knows about his father's family and visited them.

Shivam did say that he misses Amol.Going by the same coin we can assume that Shivam did visit his Darling Buaji who is in Udaipur.Do we need to see him with his darling buaji to believe that he is in touch with them?

Why assume that he doesn't know much about his father?

No single mother ever brings up her children by constantly telling them about the missing parent and make their kids feel that loss all the time.and make them feel that they are missing something important life.In fact it becomes the mother's duty that they get the best in their lives and the absence of a father shouldn't change things for them.

That way Shivam is content because Anandi is his mother and father just like Shiv wanted her to be.He did not want his children to feel how different things would have been had their father been there with him.

As for Shivam's troubles with Abhi there could have been similar situation had thye been living in Udaipur too.Who knows may be Sanchi's husband would have paid more attention to him that would have caused feelings of insecurity in Sanchi's kid too.Had Mahi been part of the story same problem would happened between Mahi's kid and Shivam too.

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libsrocks

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Posted: 9 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: aparnauma
If we go by assumptions it can also be assumed that Shivam knows about his father's family and visited them.
Shivam did say that he misses Amol.Going by the same coin we can assume that Shivam did visit his Darling Buaji who is in Udaipur.Do we need to see him with his darling buaji to believe that he is in touch with them?

Why assume that he doesn't know much about his father?

No single mother ever brings up her children by constantly telling them about the missing parent and make their kids feel that loss all the time.and make them feel that they are missing something important life.In fact it becomes the mother's duty that they get the best in their lives and the absence of a father shouldn't change things for them.

That way Shivam is content because Anandi is his mother and father just like Shiv wanted her to be.He did not want his children to feel how different things would have been had their father been there with him.

As for Shivam's troubles with Abhi there could have been similar situation had thye been living in Udaipur too.Who knows may be Sanchi's husband would have paid more attention to him that would have caused feelings of insecurity in Sanchi's kid too.Had Mahi been part of the story same problem would happened between Mahi's kid and Shivam too.

@bold
at least that wouldn't have glorified bal vivah like singhs-anandi's bond do

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#35

I do not understand how Anandi Singhs bond glorifies bal vivah

Dindn't they show Bal Vivah screwing up things for Anandi Jagya and Singhs?

If they are together is it because of child marriage or is it because of that bond formed from the troubled times they faced when they were coming out of the wrecked child marriage which happened to be their common enemy?

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SPuja

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Posted: 9 years ago

#36

I do not understand how bal-vivah was a common enemy for Anandi, Jagya and Singhs. Was bal-vivah a reason for Anandi-Jagya break-up? Did Jagya cheated because of bal-vivah? How is bal-vivah a common enemy for Singhs? Jagya did not like his village background - and that was the reason for his distance with his family - he changed his name, he hid his village identity. Bal vivah was not the reason in all this. The bond between Anandi and Singhs was formed due to long association that was due to bal-vivah. And as regards Jagya cheating and second marriage - even then bal-vivah was not the culprit. It was cheating which even persons in adult marriages do.

Creatives preach one thing and show just opposite.

Edited by SPuja - 9 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#37

I am talking about Singhs and Anandi

Anandi's life went down hill because of Bal Vivah. if it had not been Bal Vivah she would not have been in a pathetic position with no education no means of supporting herself when her husband dumped her for another woman.

It was child marriage and traditions that put her in a position where she is vulnerable to all kinds of stuff

Child marriage - being a girl Anandi paid a price which was lot more than her husband paid for being married off in childhood.

It was the marriage that did't last because it was child marriage and of course the other reason is balak var himself.

I am no fan of Jagya but we can't say all his problems were entirely of his making - Half the reason for failure of his marriage was because of Dsa, his parents and child marriage the other half is his own immaturity. Edited by aparnauma - 9 years ago

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 9 years ago

#38

Just because anandi and Jagya are living under the same roof, it does not mean glorifying Bal vivah.

If Jagya and anandi continued their relaionship after they attained their age, it would have become glorification of Bal Vivah. Even then it would not have been glorification but a marriage according to outdated traditions which worked. There was that rule that if one does not file divorce within some 2 years of attaining the proper age, then the marriage stands valid or some such thing. Thats why Gauri wanted that dovorce signature desperately.

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SPuja

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Posted: 9 years ago

#39

Balika Vadhu did not show bal-vivah wrong. Bhairo- Sumitra had a blissful relationship, even in Anandi's generation - there are normal relationships like Lal Singh's, Phooli and Sugna got widowed - that can happen even in adult marriage too, Rani was abandoned - that also happens in adult marriages too. Anandi remained with less education and was made to do household works - it was more due to DS's rigid frame of mind (and her parent's hurry to do gauna) and less due to bal-vivah. Generally, in bal-vivah girls remain with their parents and go to sasural after gauna, which takes place a lot later.

Even after marriage in adult stage - they show Anandi returning to Singhs is just a little short of glorification of bal-vivah. Even a glamorous, bubbly Nimboli does not make impression that she is suffering. And before anybody assume that I want to see torture - I make it clear - I do not want to see torture - but make the tortured girl look and behave like a tortured girl. Otherwise it will be same feeling which emerged when Rasika was weeping in front of Shiv telling about her torture...

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#40

The only child marriages that worked according to BV were that of Sumi and Bhairon and Lal Singh and wife.

Every other child marriage was broken up and the reasons they gave are many.

If they wanted to glorify child marriage they could have shown Anandi Jagya re uniting and living happily ever after as husband and wife.

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