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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Jyotika95

Aww thankyou.
I am glad i could bring smile on the face.😳

Yeah bit shy.
But i must say everyone out here , i have no words.You guys make me feel all the emotions with so much of depth.
And the MPS is just too good.😳

My net got crashed.Have to catch up a lot.😆


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Newbie! Hiii!
Please say you know me so that I feel famous 😎
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Posted: 10 years ago
Every emotion arises from self- hence need. So need is essential in love too but how do you define "this" need is where most fumble. It cannot be about self because it's a two way street. Balance . Which Manik lacks because his inability to trust himself to function without the absolute.
@Bolt for you- "No, I think you're like James," said Lupin, "who would have regarded it as the height of dishonor to mistrust his friends."



BOXTER- I HATE WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO ME.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Their needs collide.

Does he need her? He does.
Does she need him? She does.

He needs her without a word, without an obligation, without even a question.

She needs him, the same way.
Another thought, if mere words of appreciation and observation like 'you protect me. You're my shining star' inspire her to be that,

wasn't it the same case for Manik?

'You're a good man! You're a hero! Tum achhe ho.' Weren't these the starting words of the crumbling of a shell? Of wanting to be what she needs him to be. Of complete belief. Of trials and errors, of inspiration and introspection?
Of becoming the man she thought him worth of?

words. words.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: BoxedIn

Genie, didn't you ask that question a few days ago, whether Manik can kill for Nandini? Did you get an answer, first tell me that.


I didn't , repeatedly banged my head, though .
But at most said said no he won't , reasons- well he knew Soha was sick, he won't cross the line, he had everything covered. Not convincing.😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
Would Nandini kill for Manik?😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie

Every emotion arises from self- hence need. So need is essential in love too but how do you define "this" need is where most fumble. It cannot be about self because it's a two way street. Balance . Which Manik lacks because his inability to trust himself to function without the absolute.

@Bolt for you- "No, I think you're like James," said Lupin, "who would have regarded it as the height of dishonor to mistrust his friends."



BOXTER- I HATE WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO ME.

BOLD - Why do you think so?😆 i mean elaborate. Manik lacks trust in his own self. How?
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: MaybeSomeday...

Would Nandini kill for Manik?😆


Not Nandini, she plays by the rules , too conventional and she is the one who will take the bullet for him.Because of her need to protect him . And she thinks he can live without her too.

While he can kill because of his no rules, no morals, monster self , as Nandini's life in danger would always push him to protect her, where dying while saving her will leave her vulnerable after. Hence he would rather eliminate the thread than die . Not that he is not capable of giving his life for her. But he would kill too.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie


Yes, Yes!! JP is always my template to read Manik. Did Liy's friendship with Snape ever disappoint him? MaNan babies be playing JiLy dating life for me. 😳


Nandini's inability to trust will disappoint Manik? Because he prides himself on basing all his relationship on trusts - by picking his self (Nandini) over fab5 , did he not break their trust too.
Sometimes circumstances make us do things which we won't necessarily do-= pressure. He needs to cut himself some slack and her too. But he cannot because of his issues.


Excellent points raised genie.

What's the kind of trust manik expects? James considered it the height of insult to doubt his friends. Manik is much the same. Perhaps for Manik too more than actions it is a kind of unvoiced loyalty that equates to trust. But I'm merely speculating here.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Manik is one guy. Himself.
But in a lot of circumstances Nandini needed him to be different.
To be a different man in that moment.
It didn't become about morality, or right nor wrong.
About two ideologies.
And he conceded.
Gave in.
Even if he didn't believe in it, and couldn't understand.
He did it for her.
What is that?


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: MaybeSomeday...

BOLD - Why do you think so?😆 i mean elaborate. Manik lacks trust in his own self. How?


Because he bases all his relationships on absolute - an extreme , you do that only when you don't trust yourself to recover from emotions like disappointment , fear , guilt and failure. Noyonika shaped it in him. He never trusted himself to be good , even though he wanted to be one. He had it internalized in his head that he had to play bad because he is not capable of good , hence Dhruv the saviour . His need to hide behind a monster mask - to wage his battles is the biggest proof.Also why he took to monster self, not just for protection of his friends but for himself too.

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