Software Symphonies 5--Spice Route on 148 - Page 45

Dear II,

"I don't want kinds" is probably the most dangerous sentence you could ever say. It's way more dangerous than saying "I'm not gonna change my surname" or "I love you"(which you haven't said yet). You are trying to pull something off that the great Cristina Yang couldn't do! Trust me II, I've seen Cristina go through all stages of not wanting a child with a husband who wanted children and it leaves you with two choices- either you destroy yourselves (including your career) trying to go one way or another (kids or no kids) or, you destroy your relationship. There's no other way. From what I've known about you, you don't have one tenth of the strength that Cristina had! You're not even sure what you want! You get all happy and blushy when he mentions kids! I think you are misinterpreting your fear of 'not having it all' as 'I don't want kids'. If I'm right and you are doing that, please don't. It has the power to destroy you and him beyond repair.

Wings

P.S. Cristina Yang is a famous character from Grey's Anatomy. She's one of my favorite characters.

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Normal people dont make good fiction😃

If they constantly communicated u wouldnt read the story... it would sound like a documentary Arshi

I know I say that a lot... But I think its true... its over rated... its not a work place u know... personal life is not a work place it is where we get to be OURSELVES, we get to hold on to our fears and doubts and insecurities... WHY should she share everything on day one?😕

I bet there are millions of happy 100% understanding marriages out there

This one will NOT be one, so dont get your hopes too high😆

100% understanding is boring... there is no spark left afterwards...

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Dear II,

"I don't want kinds" is probably the most dangerous sentence you could ever say. It's way more dangerous than saying "I'm not gonna change my surname" or "I love you"(which you haven't said yet). You are trying to pull something off that the great Cristina Yang couldn't do! Trust me II, I've seen Cristina go through all stages of not wanting a child with a husband who wanted children and it leaves you with two choices- either you destroy yourselves (including your career) trying to go one way or another (kids or no kids) or, you destroy your relationship. There's no other way. From what I've known about you, you don't have one tenth of the strength that Cristina had! You're not even sure what you want! You get all happy and blushy when he mentions kids! I think you are misinterpreting your fear of 'not having it all' as 'I don't want kids'. If I'm right and you are doing that, please don't. It has the power to destroy you and him beyond repair.

Wings

P.S. Cristina Yang is a famous character from Grey's Anatomy. She's one of my favorite characters.

love Vandu she gets her sister .. and I like how R&B makes II realize things without really much effort -- from i dont want a kid to feeling like he just told her ILU was so perfect .. simple facts - you have taken care of kids, and then a 32? and interestingly where i thought they would fight and sleep on terrace etc they actually had a meaningful convo in their land 😆

something tells me for them its going to be an accident and she is going to hit the roof top and R&B will have to 2 deal with her pregnancy hormones 😳
cute how R&B gave her clothes too  to dry cleaning kash thodi der ke baad aatha banda 😆 oh well. 😆
a very breezy update..

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Dear II,

"I don't want kinds" is probably the most dangerous sentence you could ever say. It's way more dangerous than saying "I'm not gonna change my surname" or "I love you"(which you haven't said yet). You are trying to pull something off that the great Cristina Yang couldn't do! Trust me II, I've seen Cristina go through all stages of not wanting a child with a husband who wanted children and it leaves you with two choices- either you destroy yourselves (including your career) trying to go one way or another (kids or no kids) or, you destroy your relationship. There's no other way. From what I've known about you, you don't have one tenth of the strength that Cristina had! You're not even sure what you want! You get all happy and blushy when he mentions kids! I think you are misinterpreting your fear of 'not having it all' as 'I don't want kids'. If I'm right and you are doing that, please don't. It has the power to destroy you and him beyond repair.

Wings

P.S. Cristina Yang is a famous character from Grey's Anatomy. She's one of my favorite characters.

Originally posted by: arshi21

That's right! Its fiction afterall!

And she obviously shouldn't share everything on day one or even on day 200! 

I just meant that even in fiction this update seemed like Ishita was coming around! Nothing else.

😊

As far as sparks are concerned, I can debate over that but then its your story and prerogative at the end and I love to read this story with all the discrepancies that it comes with and all the loopholes simply cause of the way you have woven it! 

And I think that in itself is a brilliant job!  Also, I would like to confide in you that I have tried writing many MANY times only to stop at some point cause of lack of motivation and to see you go through this everyday and writing it everyday is very refreshing.

I find it very, very commendable Nisha. 👏

I hate the laundry wala 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: arshi21

I totally agree with you. Ishita is not that strong. She is confused and has no clue how to handle this volatile relationship she has on her hands. She wants everything desperately but she doesnt seem to have a clue how to go about it.

She wants to be strong but she isn't (like nisha has mentioned many times, she is vulnerable inside). Well, if this story is gonna last long, I would for one, love to see HER character growth for sure.😊

Edited by Nisha0604 - 9 years ago

Originally posted by: modernfamily

Aaj dry day hai kya? Nobody around

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

Ladies what do u think of John Kransinki . He is indeed 6.3 and a good actor. Hair kangi s still a concern though 😆😆