Anu's decisions: It's still all about Rajat

Hello everyone! I thought I'd pen down some thoughts that I have been having on the current track.

There are two decisions that Anu has made recently - one to stay away from Rajat and the second to agree to marry Veer. These two should be looked at separately to understand her motivations and emotions.

Coming to the first decision, Anushka has always been a practical, level headed person who loves her family. Such an attachment always influences people very strongly and same is with her. We saw an example in the Devyani fiasco. Similarly, when today, her father, who she has always admired and listened to, went through so much and is asking her to do something, she cannot help but at least give it some thought. You always trust your parents to do right for you and she is doing the same. But I believe this is only half the reason. The driving force behind her staying away from Rajat also comes from the fact that she herself can see the problems that could arise if she agrees to this relationship despite Minty's extreme hatred. In the Anuraj relationship, Rajat has been the impulsive one but Anu has always thought things through. She can foresee that her relationship will put a strain between the families and also lead to discord between Rajat and his mother. All this could also affect Anuraj in the long run. She doesn't care so much about herself but she does care about Rajat's well-being and overall, it will be tough to lead a happy life. While this may not necessarily be true, I'd say these are reasonable assumptions given the way things have been going. This is why she is agreeing to let Rajat go, regardless of how hard it is for her.

The second decision of marrying Veer is, according to me, purely for Rajat. Her decision to leave him has naturally affected him really seriously and he is desperately clutching to whatever he can find to stop her from going away. Anu has observed what this is doing to Rajat and she can't see him ruining his life for a relationship which according to her has no future. She has seriously started believing that all she has given Rajat is misery and his reactions are cementing this notion. Anu will do anything to make Rajat happy. Since she cannot be with him, she does the next thing she considers best. She wants to remove herself from his life permanently by getting married to someone else. This will get Rajat out of the limbo he is living in now. In today's episode, she only agreed to marry Veer after her confrontation with Rajat when it became clear to her that Rajat will not move on in any other way.

Sure, these may not be the most rational decisions. But then emotions never are. It's not easy for her but she is doing what she thinks is right. I also think that no matter how much she tries, she will not be able to go through with this as Rajat's love for her and hers for him is too strong to let her move away from him. It will probably need a jolt of some sort for her to realise what she is doing and rethink her actions. But even now, I think whatever she is doing, is all for Rajat, one way or another.

Your thoughts?

I like your post.

I agree with you in a way however, after recently giving promise to Rajat she should not have rushed to go and meet Veer. If she is in love with Rajat she can't do that. It's obscene.

If She moved on she think Rajat will happy n this good for him... 😕 this not a way to move on n do for Rajat

hi sona, poorva here i liked your post very much you are talking aout anu's point of view fair enough but it is not just anu who is in the relationship it is anu and raajat it is anuraj, she decided to stay away from him he got desparate, she decided to do annulment he got vulnerable and finally she decided to marr veer he got shattered, their love has been tested time and again and anu has become habituate to struggle and that to alone but it is not the same with rajat he loves her and wants her at any possible cost both of them are at different tangents, anu made strong decisions without talking to rajat, she is strong but rajat is not. i think both of them are at fault right now because anu is trying to take all of it on her head and move on but rajat is frustrated because of this. if she wanted to decide for him, she just needed to talk to him, its not anu its anuraj, she has been like this always compromising alone, fighting alone and struggling alone but this time its rajat also both of them love each other so they should stay together, struggle together and fight together because if anu is with rajat, he will be completely fine, papa can be convinced and minty can be handled. rajat has been going through a lot because family has always been anu's priority s again their bond is being tested and they both have to learn it the hard way, to share their life, to trus each other and to confide in each other so time can decide for them and now hightime anu needs to realize that the solution is being with rajat and not away from him, he needs her more than anybody else and rajat needs to learn to trust her and confide in their relationship like he did a few days back coz acting desparate can land him nowhere and finally anu needs to learn that it not only her struggle, its abt anuraj so they have to be together or else their lives will be finished
and these are my thoughts!😃

She is doing everything for her dad only ..in her priority list rajat is at the bottom ..uska to kabhi number hi nahi aayega ki anu uske liye kuchh kare !!

Originally posted by: v_ani_patel

She is doing everything for her dad only ..in her priority list rajat is at the bottom ..uska to kabhi number hi nahi aayega ki anu uske liye kuchh kare !!

Agar use Rajat ke liye kuchh Karna hora to vo uska sath deti Jo bhi problems hai use solve karne me ..apne one sided decisions uss par nahi dalti ..its about anuraj not only anu or rajat ..she alone cannot decide about it ..

short but not sweet perfectly said ani

Originally posted by: poorva22

hi sona, poorva here i liked your post very much you are talking aout anu's point of view fair enough but it is not just anu who is in the relationship it is anu and raajat it is anuraj, she decided to stay away from him he got desparate, she decided to do annulment he got vulnerable and finally she decided to marr veer he got shattered, their love has been tested time and again and anu has become habituate to struggle and that to alone but it is not the same with rajat he loves her and wants her at any possible cost both of them are at different tangents, anu made strong decisions without talking to rajat, she is strong but rajat is not. i think both of them are at fault right now because anu is trying to take all of it on her head and move on but rajat is frustrated because of this. if she wanted to decide for him, she just needed to talk to him, its not anu its anuraj, she has been like this always compromising alone, fighting alone and struggling alone but this time its rajat also both of them love each other so they should stay together, struggle together and fight together because if anu is with rajat, he will be completely fine, papa can be convinced and minty can be handled. rajat has been going through a lot because family has always been anu's priority s again their bond is being tested and they both have to learn it the hard way, to share their life, to trus each other and to confide in each other so time can decide for them and now hightime anu needs to realize that the solution is being with rajat and not away from him, he needs her more than anybody else and rajat needs to learn to trust her and confide in their relationship like he did a few days back coz acting desparate can land him nowhere and finally anu needs to learn that it not only her struggle, its abt anuraj so they have to be together or else their lives will be finished
and these are my thoughts!😃

Tu hamesha sahi baat bolti hai partner.. 😉
My pov...she is not making any efforts to save their relationship...I understnd her situation..but point is she never tried to save her relationship..atlst she could have made some attempts...dad ko thoda time dene bolti..apne in laws k bare me convince karwati..there is neil sareen n rajat..shastriji knows how much they value her..alka k inlaws me astha nahi h kua..still he sent her to pandey house..earlier they had so much trouble..everyone had prblms with alka..still he agreed to leave her..secondly anu could have asked for more time..itz like somebody told her..relationship tod do n she is like..cool..I will break it within hrs...m sorry but i dont agree with ur post...there is no logical way which justifies anu is right...bcz she is totally totally wrng at present..and this is not her first time she is doing this..she has always been like this..taking rajat for granted..itz like u loved ma na..now bear punishment for it..xactly rajat is getting punished for loving wrong girl

Originally posted by: shashi05

Tu hamesha sahi baat bolti hai partner.. 😉
My pov...she is not making any efforts to save their relationship...I understnd her situation..but point is she never tried to save her relationship..atlst she could have made some attempts...dad ko thoda time dene bolti..apne in laws k bare me convince karwati..there is neil sareen n rajat..shastriji knows how much they value her..alka k inlaws me astha nahi h kua..still he sent her to pandey house..earlier they had so much trouble..everyone had prblms with alka..still he agreed to leave her..secondly anu could have asked for more time..itz like somebody told her..relationship tod do n she is like..cool..I will break it within hrs...m sorry but i dont agree with ur post...there is no logical way which justifies anu is right...bcz she is totally totally wrng at present..and this is not her first time she is doing this..she has always been like this..taking rajat for granted..itz like u loved ma na..now bear punishment for it..xactly rajat is getting punished for loving wrong girl

as always tune meri baat puri kar di na partner all m saying is woh saaraa siyaapaa apne sar pe le rahi hai and she is thinking it is right but is wrong kyoki its not only her its also rajat she needs to learn to trust and confide n rajat! but till then we will have to wait!😊

Originally posted by: poorva22

as always tune meri baat puri kar di na partner all m saying is woh saaraa siyaapaa apne sar pe le rahi hai and she is thinking it is right but is wrong kyoki its not only her its also rajat she needs to learn to trust and confide n rajat! but till then we will have to wait!😊

No no one point is clear..cvs made nonsense track..and now they are trying to justify themselve...but noway it doesnot justify them..instead anu is looking like a villain...cvs have lost their brain..god knows wat they want..shameless peoples..even after getting so much of hatred post.msgs n twits on india forum instagram facebook n on twitter..they are still not accepting their mistake .improving their mistake..