Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 19

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

muthu ka gf bhi hai?😲😆

Originally posted by: Oishi_S

Of course Neelu is the most sensible character in the show. 😎

Uske liye carpet wala Ashlu love is best 😛

Originally posted by: AroraTanya

The end result will be more dreadful for me.

Raman will be shown with immerse guilt for doubting Ishita.His behavior will be termed as narrow-minded, insensitive and as always rude.

Ishita will retain her Aabla Nari status. She'll be still oblivious about how could Raman doubt her with buckets of tears .

Mani will be the rescuer, savior, hero again. He'll be happily giving "failed husband certificate v2.0" with an Ishita like lecture.

Verdict of this shitty track: Ishita is always right and Mani is her perfect match. Raman is an egoistic outsider.

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

well, at least one person was ready to read... so here goes... really serious one re... memes and gifs later if needed😆

***** not proof-read... so please do excuse... and its not a post about bashing any character, so replies bhi thoda decent hona chaahiye please 😳

THIS is what happens when the foundation of a relationship is not defined (forget it being strong or not). Two individuals, broken, flawed and imperfect (in their own head) are pushed into a union for the happiness of a third one. In this situation, the third person happens to be a child...

After some time, it is natural for any 2 adults to start wondering if there is anything else to the union other than the third person's happiness. In some cases there is, and in some cases there isn't. In the case of Raman and Ishita, they were happily on the path of realisation (albeit a slow one) that maybe, they could share something more than a child.

So far so good.

But in the journey of their relationship, they got complacent. They never found out anything about each other unless they were pushed into it through circumstances of their daily life (and a whole lot of drama). Of course they were attracted to each other, cared for each other, but they never went through the phase of 'discussing' any future. They did need an awakening. We can all argue if the awakening had to come along in the form of 'another' third person, or if this couple was smart enough to realise it on their own.

BUT, through the introduction of this third person, the writing failed. The story is fine, the end result will also eventually be fine. But, to move their love story, Raman and Ishita are now reflecting the worst part of their own personalities.

Raman is shown to be a 'weak' man who starts faltering in his own steps rather than confront his worst fears. Yes, he has lived through his worst fears already once, but this situation would have been an excellent way to show that the man who was left by a woman 6 years ago is not the same any more. He could have been shown to 'confidently' tackle the matter of his wife possibly being interested in someone other than him. I am sure he knows she is not cheating on him. But he doesn't know if she is even interested in him romantically to shoo away other suitors.

Ishita is now shown to be the woman who has taken the role of the daughter-in-law more seriously than the role of the wife (which wasnt a clear role to begin with) and unfortunately that of a mother. SUddenly, the reason for her being in that home isnt the child or the child's father but everyone else associated with them. Her intentions can never be faulted. But I think she has had a very protected life (until Subbu rejects her), and her definition of being a good person is to HELP others. She doesn't understand that she may have to be a little bit selfish to bring true happiness to her own life. In her crusade of helping the extended Bhalla family (I include Shagun in this too), she forgets to prioritise the list of people. She has never had to prioritise before in her life. Things have almost always been chosen for her, hence her need for relying on an old friend now. The only semblance of decision-making we have seen her do is in Ruhi's matters. And now suddenly, since she already believes Ruhi and Raman are happy, she shifts focus on others.

While 'repeating' a lot of the scenes from the accident track (metaphorically), I believe they wanted to show that trust is being lost again, and this time they are more restless at the thought of that loss because they have something between them.

ALAS, it is coming across as a struggling story of 2 people who don't even trust their own self, let alone the other person.

Originally posted by: --Sia--

lucky beautiful post ...

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Lucky paaji

Tusi kamaal karte ho

Excellent piece of writing