Originally posted by: DivAniTanni
A very beautiful and sensible post.
Many are saying that how Ishita could leave Raman in that injury! I laughed at it. When angry, even Raman too doesn't give a damn to anyone, he too doesn't care for anyone that time. Now, Ishita, being with Raman, learned some of his qualities (on a lighter note). Main point is, no one broke trust of each or if trust is broken...both have done the same. Both are at same faults. For Raman loving his wife is difficult and also easy too. Difficult cos of his past, easy cos he had experience. For Ishita, accepting a husband like Raman is difficult, cos she is new to this relationship compared to Raman, easy cos she is always vocal about her feelings. She loves Raman the way he is, sometimes expecting a sensitive attitude is not wrong from her side...well I think like this. Even Raman too expects her to change her externally (to me this is very wrong), Ishita wants him not to change, but to improve a lil bit (it may seem wrong to someone). I guess, there is a difference b/w change and improvement. The improvement Ishita asks from Raman, it will only do good to him, not bad. So, till now, any improvement is good for someone, he/she can try to improve. Whatever, I am glad that Ishita is saying something which is confusing to many. Cos, this makes her selfish...a real human. At the end of the day, most of the wives want best from their husbands even if they themselves can't be the best for the husbands. That's what is making Ishita like other typical wives around us. Also most wives are more suspicious😆. She is said to be modern, yet traditional. She indeed is traditional when it comes to relationships, she is modern when it comes to thoughts and behavior. That's why I love her. Raman...I don't actually like him, don't also hate him. Majority of his actions fail me to like him and find any justification for that. He changed for betterment within these days. Only needed is some more improvement. Ishita needs to stop expecting love from Raman, when she believes that he can't love her. Time will make her see that Raman loves her. Till then, she can keep her expectations low.
Chala essay khatam karti hoon. Was feeling bad seeing many criticizing Ishita for raising voice, saying the truth, when she has the right to do so and that was natural. Your post made me calm.
Saying this, also want to say that Raman's jealousy level is too much, but his being jealous is not something dramatic. It happens. I just wish CVs had kept his jealousy and Ishita's Mani thing in limits.
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