Simmi's behaviour justified to an extent

Simmi's blind trust on Param is irking all of us, but to be honest, I feel its fine. Afterall nothing was proved against Param during the molestation case. Simmi is the one who has spent the max time with Param and during her tenure of stay, she did not trace any of his sleazy behaviour, so to believe a truth, she need concrete proofs, after all he is a very important person in her life. She cannot trash him away on some talks, it requires solid proof to shake a wife's trust which was missing during that time (this is why Ashok was able to release Param from the jail without any hassle) She did not trash away the whole thing only because Raman, her elder brother told it but her heart never seemed to accept the truth. The whole matter was pushed under the rug after that, , only during Ananya's naming ceremony it was mentioned once. I feel, if Raman or Mr and Mrs. Bhalla would have had a proper heart to heart conversation with Simmi, she would have come to terms with the truth but since it was not done, she is in a mess. And being family u need to deal with it..

I agree with you. She must be proved that Param is a bad person.

I kinda agree wid u tht she needs time... With molestation charges on her husband ...

But having blind faith in ur spouse is also not right .. I mean she stole a business file from Ramans bedroom n gave to param ... She cud've told Raman that Ashok is trying to do something wid ur business so b careful..

Ne ways for such ppl life is only a Gud teacher no matter how much u talk to them they might not understand... Bhallaji n Toshiji tried talking to her ... Mayb she needs more proof as u said to smell coffee...

Ya I agree with you.

I understand what you are saying... I dunno why do they even need to talk about it or explain anything... Just give her a live demo... Hide Simmi near a room and put Param and Ishu inside that room... problem solved...lol..

I agree. Simmi is justified in trusting him because she hasn't seen the truth for what it is. Sometimes even when your brain is probably inclining to agree with what is being told to you, your heart clings on to hope. It's hard to face that your husband is a filthy man, especially when you have a child too. It's easy to say but hard to go through. She needs concrete proof to believe the man is not worth it. She is seeing everyone side Ishita whose come into the family years after Param, she feels sidelined. The scenario was ignored by one and all after the fiasco happened, leaving her wounds unattended. Had they tried and done something back then, all this wouldn't have happened. The loneliness she is going through triggers her anger and silences the sane part of her mind, which may have otherwise tried and understood what her elders were saying.

Originally posted by: mnr123

I kinda agree wid u tht she needs time... With molestation charges on her husband ...

But having blind faith in ur spouse is also not right .. I mean she stole a business file from Ramans bedroom n gave to param ... She cud've told Raman that Ashok is trying to do something wid ur business so b careful..

Ne ways for such ppl life is only a Gud teacher no matter how much u talk to them they might not understand... Bhallaji n Toshiji tried talking to her ... Mayb she needs more proof as u said to smell coffee...

True !! One should not have blind faith in anybody but then again faith and blind faith has a very thin line between them. We cannot start doubting people just coz others r saying something, coz it may ruin ur relationship with the other, and u may feel guilty once the truth surfaces and the person comes out clean. Trust is a dangerous path to tread on, one should know how to go about it.

The stealing of file is something which was wrong on her behalf and this action of hers is only going to be an eye-opener for her. I wonder how she would face Raman who has worked so hard to get all these luxuries and at the same time stood by her during her hard time and took strong steps for her safety and good life even though he had to go against her wishes.

Originally posted by: saylithegreat

Ya I agree with you.

I cant off felt so bad for her yest. Everyone waa busy in their childish couple nonsense and she was there like a side person. Even her own mother wasnt really there for her.

See it is but obvious for a wife nt to believe all this. If some relative accuses raman , will ishita accept it easily without any pproof?

Off course there is diff between param and raman. Bt they both are husbands and wives tend to trust husbands blindly

Exactly !! The family picnic suddenly turned into couples picnic, everyone got busy with their spouses, Romi was not irked as he doesn't have a partner but Simmi who is married was tend to feel depressed and miss her hubby seeing everything, its normal.

Saylithegreat Raman was already accused by Mihika of deleting cctv footages of Amma's accident but she defended him and rubbished everything, when Ashok came by and told her the truth, she had to be coaxed by Mihika to go with him, such was her belief on her 2 to 3 month old husband whom she detested at one point then how can Simmi believe the accusations thrown at Param without any concrete proof, whom she loves and knows from a longer period.

Originally posted by: RoshniAN

I understand what you are saying... I dunno why do they even need to talk about it or explain anything... Just give her a live demo... Hide Simmi near a room and put Param and Ishu inside that room... problem solved...lol..

Live demos do not work in real life and as this serial is following the real life way of sorting things out, I would not want it to suddenly turn into fictitious ways, it would look very fake then.

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

I agree. Simmi is justified in trusting him because she hasn't seen the truth for what it is. Sometimes even when your brain is probably inclining to agree with what is being told to you, your heart clings on to hope. It's hard to face that your husband is a filthy man, especially when you have a child too. It's easy to say but hard to go through. She needs concrete proof to believe the man is not worth it. She is seeing everyone side Ishita whose come into the family years after Param, she feels sidelined. The scenario was ignored by one and all after the fiasco happened, leaving her wounds unattended. Had they tried and done something back then, all this wouldn't have happened. The loneliness she is going through triggers her anger and silences the sane part of her mind, which may have otherwise tried and understood what her elders were saying.

Love is blind and people does crazy things in it and it is difficult to forget a person you fall in love when you are a bachelor then how can you forget the person with whom you r married and is the father of your child. With marriage the trust factor increases and not decreases and to shake that trust, very solid proofs is needed.

Secondly, it is difficult to take in that your family is supporting a person who has just come in and also someone who has created lots of troubles in the family before and is not ready to listen anybody else. Has there have been proper talks, she would have come out of it.