A Step In The Right Direction

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Posted: 11 years ago
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What a nice episode today...nothing thrilling like yesterday's...but then a first day at work only happens once.

The obvious notion would be that it was a nice episode because of the lovely "I Love You" SurYa scene.


But my post is about something else...Bhabasa and Babo


For a long time now Bhabasa has let Bhabo rule the roost, but things get out of hand.


Yesterday he put his foot down when there was a confusion about Sandhya moving out of the Rathi house. Bhabo was all set to point fingers, and even Suraj was dialing Sandhya's number when Bhabasa put a stop to it.


Enough, he said. How much more does Sandhya have to prove herself? How much longer before we stop jumping to conclusions? How much longer before we stop doubting her every chance we get?


It's funny how Bhabo...who is a constant raging storm...goes into silent bheegi billi mode when Bhabasa finally makes the effort and puts his foot down.


He's done it before...but then it was more like him reasoning with her. Yesterday...it was more authoritative.


I so loved how Bhabo came into her bedroom, and approached Bhabasa with embarrassed caution. Why? Because she had been proved wrong once again.


And I loved how Bhabsa reminded her that in a household it is not just the children, but also the parents that have a responsibility.


And I loved how he pointed out to her that a Saas has responsibilities too...responsibilities that she hasn't been living up to.


The result...


Bhabo proudly put up Sandhya's name plate outside the Rathi home for all to see. She even defended her DIL in front of Daisa and others who have nothing better to do than put down someone's DIL.


Yesterday, Bhabo was just another one of those sarcastic ladies in the crowd. Now, thanks to Bhabsa...it seems something has finally clicked and she's finally taken a step in the right direction. 😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome post Fathima aunty 😊
Today, I was most thoroughly surprised. I was expecting another aangan drama where SoorYa stand in front of Bhabo seeking her permission to put the nameplate and how she would go about giving her lectures. But this was a pleasant move and I really liked it.

It's high time, they show a changed Bhabo for the good. I mean, there are other ways to introduce the drama. It's very important to showcase a changed Bhabo, if the writers really want to make a good show. It'll be nice to see Bhabo supporting Sandhya and standing up for her, when the society questions her role in and outside the house.


Babasa, I have always liked his coolness. But today, it was so nice to see him actually doing some work and making his wife understand her duties.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MisscoolEyes

Awesome post Fathima aunty 😊

Today, I was most thoroughly surprised. I was expecting another aangan drama where SoorYa stand in front of Bhabo seeking her permission to put the nameplate and how she would go about giving her lectures. But this was a pleasant move and I really liked it.

It's high time, they show a changed Bhabo for the good. I mean, there are other ways to introduce the drama. It's very important to showcase a changed Bhabo, if the writers really want to make a good show. It'll be nice to see Bhabo supporting Sandhya and standing up for her, when the society questions her role in and outside the house.


Babasa, I have always liked his coolness. But today, it was so nice to see him actually doing some work and making his wife understand her duties.


I agree Naina...so much has changed in DABH...it's about time the CVs let Bhabo show some growth in her way of thinking too.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Although I really cannot trust bhabho, I liked what bhabhasa had to say. It was a good message to mothers in law in general. Also I was like 😲 when they played a sad aaa a aaa tune for bhabho. She said Sandhya won her heart when she came to Chavi's wedding!!! All the other 10001 sacrifices including giving all her jewelry meant nothing 😕 Bhabho's heart indeed is a very hard one to win.
Yes I do agree, There has been progress overall. Yesterday, even bhabho took the drama into her own room and kept Meena out. Bhabhasa did not allow involving Sandhya. Even Suraj stopped Meena from calling Sandhya.

I hope they do something with Suraj. He is a smart man. For me it was sad to see him stammering while reading the poem in hindi. This way, it won't be. long before he starts feeling inferior to his very smart wife.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes fathimaji
it was a good message to MILs

what makes sandy unique is that she didnt even let them know that she has been allotted quarters
only because of lachu blurting they came to know
or else the matter would have gone unnoticed

sandy knows the pulse of RM and bb in particular
inspite of sandy proving herself the best DIL ever bb still is not convinced
bb has taken a baby step towards her supaatra beendhni

and we cant cheer this as the new promo says
bb back to her ruling days
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes good signs from Santos I must say. Doesn't matter to me about the future... at least today, she did something concrete in showing support.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Deebz

Although I really cannot trust bhabho, I liked what bhabhasa had to say. It was a good message to mothers in law in general. Also I was like 😲 when they played a sad aaa a aaa tune for bhabho. She said Sandhya won her heart when she came to Chavi's wedding!!! All the other 10001 sacrifices including giving all her jewelry meant nothing 😕 Bhabho's heart indeed is a very hard one to win.

Yes I do agree, There has been progress overall. Yesterday, even bhabho took the drama into her own room and kept Meena out. Bhabhasa did not allow involving Sandhya. Even Suraj stopped Meena from calling Sandhya.

I hope they do something with Suraj. He is a smart man. For me it was sad to see him stammering while reading the poem in hindi. This way, it won't be. long before he starts feeling inferior to his very smart wife.


@bold: That's true...Sandhya has done soo much for this family. But I guess Chavi is Bhabo's ultimate pride and glory 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: thala

yes fathimaji

it was a good message to MILs

what makes sandy unique is that she didnt even let them know that she has been allotted quarters
only because of lachu blurting they came to know
or else the matter would have gone unnoticed

sandy knows the pulse of RM and bb in particular
inspite of sandy proving herself the best DIL ever bb still is not convinced
bb has taken a baby step towards her supaatra beendhni

and we cant cheer this as the new promo says
bb back to her ruling days


What new promo? 😕

So Bhabo backtracks?...Why am I not surprised?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PadBear

yes good signs from Santos I must say. Doesn't matter to me about the future... at least today, she did something concrete in showing support.


Hey stranger...where have you been?

Yes I guess we have to take Bhabo's goodness towards Sandhya in low doses 😆

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