Some ramblings: Ramifications of a simple white lie

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Posted: 11 years ago
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"The basic truth of human condition is that everybody lies. The only variable is about what"
Astha is always used to telling white lies and she feels that there is nothing wrong in telling lies as that is how she is brought up that if you are protecting/ helping someone by telling a simple white lie there is no harm.
In her immaturity, childishness she also defends herself that she has helped Sojal to go visit her Mom who met with an accident. She even justified her actions to a small innocent child that there is nothing wrong in telling lies when its good for others! Really..is that what you teach a small child who is opening her eyes to this world and by teaching such values to a child you mend them in a wrong way 😔. Even Varad supported her for her white lie, what kind of father is he!!

She did not fully understand the repercussions of her lie...till her "sweekruthi samaroh". She saw the bitter stark reality of the relationship of her MIL and FIL. It was a shock of her lifetime when she found out about her dear baba's atrocities and her sasubai's plight! Anjali could have spoken that its not her fault and that Astha lied to her that Sojal is at home, but she did not. In fact she hid the truth and took the blame upon herself; and tolerated the wrath, physical abuse from her husband 😭. Then she tried to put up a fake smile to not spoil the image of her family.
All these being observed by Astha now understood the reality behind the gruff behavior of her Sasubai and that she is only acting according to the wishes of her husband and putting up a false bravado in front of others.
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Now will she again lie to Shlok or will she tell him the truth about the reality of his beloved baba whom he respects like a GOD? They just started a new beginning to their lives and Shlok apologized to her for all the anguish he gave her. However, Shlok is also branch of the same tree of Agnihotri clan who also inflicted emotional abuse upon her just because he felt she is the cause of his father's disgrace. Even if she tries to confide with him about the truth he will never believe her as it his Baba in the picture now. I want to see a shrewd Shlok and mature Astha to deal with this situation which can create a big rift between them.
Hoping against hope that Cv's handle this new track sensibly as this is most important part of the story.

A big applause to Geetanjali, Manish šŸ‘again for enacting such scene which was bone-chilling and mind-numbing. Shrenu also did well who got a big blow and who is unable to cope up with it. And superb direction by Waseem.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you Jia...lovely write up...
I agree with u abt lying. ..as a mother I never define lies as white or black...A lie is a lie no matter the intent...I have never liked Astha's "white" lies n today she herself will need to under the damage it can do...
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Nice post jia.
Aastha tells lies to help others. Shlok, though detests lies, used them to trap Aastha in marriage. Well, he is a confused soul, because when he told Aastha that he hates her, did he really hate her? Or did he hate the fact that he is falling for her? Who marries someone out of hatred? So I am confused now about whether he is a liar or not.šŸ˜› Agree that their lies or lie look-a-likes caused problems, but they don't live a lie. They are more true to their feelings than Anjali and niranjan.
Anjali lives a lie to save niranjan's image (?!), though I have my doubts regarding this. Is it just about family honor or is there more to her story? Hmm. Niranjan lives a lie to satisfy his ego. They are not honest to themselves. Though Anjali is trying to protect others, by living a lie, she is actually causing more harm than good. Jyothi is an example. Swathi-shlok is another example. Kavya is another example. I can't blame her entirely because she is a victim here but still we cannot undo the result of her falsehood. Two unborn girls dead before coming into the world, a little girl's spirit being sucked out of her, a young girl's life destroyed, all her kids lives in shambles. All this just to protect niranjan's public image! Is it worth the sacrifices?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sasha_1939

Thank you Jia...lovely write up...

I agree with u abt lying. ..as a mother I never define lies as white or black...A lie is a lie no matter the intent...I have never liked Astha's "white" lies n today she herself will need to under the damage it can do...


Thanks Sasha for the appreciation...@bold is correct. In fact I too never liked her lies. She is immature ..she acted mature a couple of times but needs to learn a lot of life lessons. I meant to say in her context its a simple white lie...She has done 2 wrongs here - taught a child that its ok to lie (which Varad supported) and also became the cause of her Sasubai's anguish 😭. In fact it is her upbringing as her mom also thinks that its ok to hide the truth or lie as what she is doing right now for Jyothi...isn't Kalindi hiding the truth from Shlok-Astha to save Jyothi. Does she understand what effect it will show in her daughter's blissful married life?
So, now Astha understands what are the consequences of lying ..let's see how maturely she acts to deal with this..again let's see what authors has penned down
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Originally posted by: xayeshax

great review!šŸ‘


thanks Ayesha for appreciation
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Originally posted by: uma111

Very lovely write up.Jia


Thanks Uma 😊
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Originally posted by: dsr11

Nice post jia.
Aastha tells lies to help others. Shlok, though detests lies, used them to trap Aastha in marriage. Well, he is a confused soul, because when he told Aastha that he hates her, did he really hate her? Or did he hate the fact that he is falling for her? Who marries someone out of hatred? So I am confused now about whether he is a liar or not.šŸ˜› Agree that their lies or lie look-a-likes caused problems, but they don't live a lie. They are more true to their feelings than Anjali and niranjan.
Anjali lives a lie to save niranjan's image (?!), though I have my doubts regarding this. Is it just about family honor or is there more to her story? Hmm. Niranjan lives a lie to satisfy his ego. They are not honest to themselves. Though Anjali is trying to protect others, by living a lie, she is actually causing more harm than good. Jyothi is an example. Swathi-shlok is another example. Kavya is another example. I can't blame her entirely because she is a victim here but still we cannot undo the result of her falsehood. Two unborn girls dead before coming into the world, a little girl's spirit being sucked out of her, a young girl's life destroyed, all her kids lives in shambles. All this just to protect niranjan's public image! Is it worth the sacrifices?


Thanks Rekha.. I liked all your points esp about Anjali that you said.
yes in fact everyone lies in this story like you said .. and the quote I wrote in beginning fits too...
1. Be it Astha, Kalindi - to save others like Sojal, Jyothi. But they both don't understand what are the consequences of those lies , today its turn of Astha and next Kalindi will understand when she will know she ruined her daughter's blissful married life due to her lie. All Kirloskers think the same don't they!
2. Be it Anjali to save her family prestige or be in NA who lives his life in a mask
3. Be it Shlok who married Astha by trapping her..did he really tell all the truth to Astha about Swathi..I doubt!
4 And good reminder of Jyothi part too...
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i really want astha to apologize to anjali because she triggered this abuse this time (unkowingly) but she has been careless, thoughtless by taking matters in her hands without looking at the situation with different perspectives

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