Kalpana Teri Koi Zidd toh Nai??? - Page 7

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

The end to discussion of OCD..!!

Now.. party time..!!

@Nandini: Sejal and I will never think one unless if its going to be about taking a fair stand for either one of them 😆 We tend to get into details until one loses its patience and give up 😛

And as I said.. I don't see Rags suffering in all over with the OCD. He has similar germs in him 🤣

@Sejal: "Obsessive'compulsive disorder (OCD) is an anxiety disorder in which people have unwanted and repeated thoughts, feelings, ideas, sensations (obsessions), or behaviors that make them feel driven to do something (compulsions)." From Google.

I can't highlight from my phone but want to point out something here. OCD deals with "obsession" . Raghav has obsession for his things. I rest my case! 😃


Gals! Lets prepare ourselves for some intense party!! 🥳

Yar even i was upset frm rags today bt am sure kuch bhi karke he will manao kalpi nd he actually luvs her, its nt a zid its jst pure luv 😉

Originally posted by: Manoshono

@Nandini: Sejal and I will never think one unless if its going to be about taking a fair stand for either one of them 😆 We tend get into details until one loses its patience and give up 😛

And as I said.. I don't see Rags suffering in all over with the OCD. He has similar germs in him 🤣

@Sejal: "Obsessive'compulsive disorder (OCD) is an anxiety disorder in which people have unwanted and repeated thoughts, feelings, ideas, sensations (obsessions), or behaviors that make them feel driven to do something (compulsions)." From Google.

I can't highlight from my phone but want to point out something here. OCD deals with "obsession" . Raghav has obsession for his things. I rest my case! 😃


Gals! Lets prepare ourselves for some intense party!! 🥳

Lol.. OCD cases can be handed over to Atulya now.. we have clincical psychologist here.. I am in from Educational Psycho... so now whatever she wants to explain...😆😆😆

But Atulya.. not erikson..!! Please.. IF is stress buster for me...😳

Anum, end mein again akkad... main usse samjha doonga, main... akkad stil there but I love this man with all his flaws. Something both Ragna need to do, accept and love each other with their flaws.

He really needs to tone down. She needs to understand too why he is so anal, so set in his ways. He has been alone most of his life, he cant change overnight... talk, talk, talk Ragna, we need to see more than eyelocks. Not that I mind the Ragna eyelocks.

Sammy - good going love guru. Let Raghav sort the mess. His papad factory was not producing enough papad last few days so back to production now😛

@ Shali - agree with you. Kalpi studied in a boarding school, She should know a thing or about hygiene and manners despit her chawl background.

@ Arshi - so happy to see you post here. There are some really nice folks on this forum, you will like this forum.
I am loving the way they are building their relationship too and every fight brings more understanding of each other. Love it. He cant change overnight and he has been alone most of his life so he is very set in his ways. Right you are, falling in love is just the beginning.

@ Seju - loved that he realized and regretted but then turned around and blamed Sammy😛


@ Shana - going to look for your posts. Yaar, party is next week maybe. Tomorrow seems like hospital trip with Gauri, Raghav following Kalpi there as mentioned in the spoiler.

Sorry for choppy replies, in a rush today.

@Nandy as you said. I also love this guy with all of his flaws! That's what makes him unique and real. And I love being real. His Akkads is what makes him Raghav Singhania.. Moreover, these are the things which makes all of us to fall in love with him. Doesn't matter how much mistakes he has made in the past, at least he has the ability to regret and say sorry then nothing else matters. Today, I truly saw him regretting on his ill-mannered behavior. That's it! For me he has won. And yeah, he will going to make his gal understand. And we know how he will going to do that? Just a little garmi from his body and bang, she melts 😉

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Lol.. OCD cases can be handed over to Atulya now.. we have clincical psychologist here.. I am in from Educational Psycho... so now whatever she wants to explain...😆😆😆

But Atulya.. not erikson..!! Please.. IF is stress buster for me...😳

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Shali... Just to add up..!! First thing she clearly mentions is her house.. She isn't used to using soo much of material while arranging... imagine.. if she has to work in her house... how would she do it???

Today.. Kalpi was at NO FAULT..!!
Kalpi made it clear.. she has never done any of it..!! It's a big house, you are all alone, without any guidance... she has discussed, her work with Sammy... and it was her doing all alone.. probably using tray would have made sense, and not on carpet.. but who would tell her to do that???

Shabs...

Kalpi worked one day as an waitress...even before starting she has to knew the rules and regulation concerning hygienic... So dont give me it isnt her fault...sorry hun even I wont touch a single thing without proper permission...and if left alone then I would have searched for a plate or something...but never put it on the floor...

So is kalpi at fault...yes...but raghav should and could have reacted otherwise...he blasted at her for something that could have been explained in a decent way...not those harsh words...

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

It's obsessive compulsive disorder.. foram..!!
where in person is totally like.. a freak of order and places... and are particular about their own possessions... dare anyone mess with that..!!
They tend to lose their control over small things..!!

Why is spoon not straight, (in case if spoon on table is tilted..)

or other type could be.. the one I have dealt with had... the thing... of insecurity..!!

Like.. the guy... who locks the door and leaves for work.. visits back home n number of times to make sure.. he has locked it properly.. in fact opens it and confirms if he has turned off electricity or not.. which makes their personality.. really difficult to deal with..!!

Often... the kind of behavior Raghav displays..!!

sejal i must sat say this OCD thing is quit a trend these days people specially i have see boys sometimes very proudly say i have ocd u see ...and they find it cool ...and i am like ...bhagwan bachaye aapse😆

raghav does have ocd that i am quit sure...but we cant confuse it with nature where people just tend to have things in order and r angry coz things r messy...well then its not ocd ...its simply like why not have things in order so taht u get things on time

and sometimes this strictness and with lot people to say yes sir to it becomes ur nature...and may be confused as ocd😕

like gauri too displays raghav types character and i sometimes feel like has raghav inherited this OCD thing from his mother...and was this OCD of his mother a kind of point of difference between her and her husband...coz as we all know OCD persons tend to be so difficult and stubborn that normal person cant live happily with them unless and intil they have strong reason to be together like love or childeren

now one question to experts sitting here ...i in my collage days always use to cheque twice if i have locked my scooty or not and sometimes i was so afraid that i used to leave my class and go to my scooty to see if it is locked

did i had ocd

ps. i had once left the key in scooty and it horrified me like hell.