Anshuman doesn't love Paakhi

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Posted: 11 years ago
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It was very clear from the beginning that Anshuman didn't get Paakhi back in his life because of love.
He brought her back and used her merely to satisfy and justify his ego in front of the whole world.
Paakhi is nothing but a regular girl to him, who eventually he wants out of his life.
When Anshuman went to Chitorgarh, he made Paakhi clear that he isn't looking for a WIFE, but he wants a MOTHER for his son.
But now... what I don't understand...
Anshuman does not love Paakhi, ok, but he has no reason to HATE Paakhi either.
In fact, he should be greatful to her and respect her for everything she has done for him and his son.
His son, Ayaan, calling Paakhi "maa" isn't a small thing, although children only understand the language of love, in this period of time, even Ayaan felt loved and cared for by Paakhi.
A normal human being is bound to melt after so much love and care, that at least you respect that person for giving so much love and care.
So what is it, that is keeping Anshuman disrespecting Paakhi, playing tricks and hurting her feelings by making her feel guilty, ashamed and what not?
Isn't it logical, that when a person cares for you and respects you, you automatically start caring and respecting that person too?
Ok, so I don't understand that unnatural behaviour of Anshuman.
Admitted, he doesn't love his wife... but I hope, AT LEAST, he will respect and care for the MOTHER of his son!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anshuman may not love her aur yet he may not be clear of his feelings for paakhi ,What she means to him but he's never been rude or disrespectful toward paakhi infact he cares for paakhi though he may not admit and keeps telling himself that he wants her out of his life ..

Just give him some time to clear his head and hrt filled with confusion ..he's so lost ..once he has clarity ..things will get better
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anshumaan is a confused man he dsnt knw wht he wants, hes gt 2 minds like whn the night b4 paakhi was leaving he had some feelings 4 her he had tears and was saying tht shes a nyc person.

At sum point he will def develop feelings n love towards paakhi n im waiting 4 tht day whn he expresses his feeling he dsnt admit it bt deep dwn he does like paakhi sumwhere bt hes afraid of Rana sir... lets see .

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Posted: 11 years ago
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well his feelings may not be out in the open yet, but there is some form of respect and care there.
if you noticed that today when tanya was throwing pakhi's lunch bag out, his expressions showed that he didn't like that !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anshuman does love Paakhi he just have not realize it yet. 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Meynika


But now... what I don't understand...
Anshuman does not love Paakhi, ok, but he has no reason to HATE Paakhi either.in
fact, he should be greatful to her and respect her for everything she has done for him and his son.n he doesnot actually hates her at all😛,this is the reason he is still been so long scared to tell her about wats his plan behind her,he is jus listening to wat he has planned consciously n simultaneously ignoring his feelings for her,evrytime one can see those confused gestures on his face n the reason why he remain restless is not bcoz he hates her its bcoz he isn't realizing wat to do
His son, Ayaan, calling Paakhi "maa" isn't a small thing, although children only understand the language of love, in this period of time, even Ayaan felt loved and cared for by Paakhi.
A normal human being is bound to melt after so much love and care, that at least you respect that person for giving so much love and care. thats bcoz till now he is taking her forgranted considering her merely his fault,once he will come to knw the real faces as symbolically shown in the recent promo how pakhi will gonna remove those materialistic masks from his face as well as from others's faces, only then he will realise about pakhi's love on the other hand if to talk about aayan he is a kid n kids heart is always considered as most unadulterated n pious in the whole world,they understand wat they see,he saw how pakhi stood by him in that case n thus made special place for her as his mother😳
So what is it, that is keeping Anshuman disrespecting Paakhi, playing tricks and hurting her feelings by making her feel guilty, ashamed and what not?
Isn't it logical, that when a person cares for you and respects you, you automatically start caring and respecting that person too?
Ok, so I don't understand that unnatural behaviour of Anshuman.being a psychological student i can say there are plenty of such minds i mean to say pple who always take those pple forgranted who cares for them n loves them so unconditionally,bcoz they dint get the chance to realize there feelings alltogether n merely considering the other as nothing to them as wat i said in case of anshumann n pakhi above
Admitted, he doesn't love his wife... but I hope, AT LEAST, he will respect and care for the MOTHER of his son!
its merely a matter of time n m sure his redumption part will surely compensate n clear evryone's doubt about his feelings,it surely hurting for us by now how all the time he is into planning but m sure later part will gonna be more intersting😊😉

Edited by parichayan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lucky.m


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Anshuman may not love her aur yet he may not beclearof his feelings for paakhi ,What she means to him but he's never been rude or disrespectful toward paakhi infact he cares for paakhi though he may not admit and keeps telling himself that he wants her out of his life ..</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Just give him some time to clear his head and hrt filled with confusion ..he's so lost ..once he has clarity ..things will get better</font>



Never been disrespectful??? Going out of town with girlfriend telling lies that he has business meeting isn't being respectful in any scale
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He doesn't love her. He doesn't care how much she has done for him and his son! He has only one thing in his mind that he wants Tanya! But at the same time he doesn't! He can't go away from pakhi...the day she will go away from him, than he will understand her importance'
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: noexcuse



Never been disrespectful??? Going out of town with girlfriend telling lies that he has business meeting isn't being respectful in any scale


Hey

Relax u got me wrong

I am not siding anshuman or saying anshuman is right he is human with many flaws...if what u said is the case then all this scheming and plotting and getting prepared for engagement behind paakhi ...all this sum up under same right! disrespecting her..my point here is he never tried to hurt paakhi deliberately and purposefully .his bursting out was when he thought paakhi wants go on vaction ..I think that's only part where he shouted at her and showed his gussa in open

all he wants right now is to get her out aur uss chakkar main he's doing all this ..deep down he cares for her ..its about time he realizes and then it's gonna be so late ..

his going out with tanya right now he has this sword of 7 days hanging on his neck and like always he's confused nad tanya is just taking advantage

woh sab chodo If anshuman has been in position to make a note what is right and what is wrong ..things would have been different ..

Btw I posted this reply the earlier one b4 epi aired
Edited by lucky.m - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: arn4vkhushi

well his feelings may not be out in the open yet, but there is some form of respect and care there.

if you noticed that today when tanya was throwing pakhi's lunch bag out, his expressions showed that he didn't like that !

<br>yes very true

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