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Hi guys.tina here..hope u remember...
this is a real life situation..need ur help nd expert opinion plz..
m madly in love with(or its just that I think I love, nt sure) my teacher...he isnt actually teaching me nd we rarely had any interaction before..saw him 4 months bck nd I realized it just few days ago when we met again in my new rotation, call it destiny or anythng...he z so cute, more or less like dv nd he z also lively like him, nt with me but I saw him interacting with his male nd female colleagues...
m heads over heels in love 4 him but I cant propose 2 him directly as he might take it as a mischief or anythng...m fearful...
what should I do nd hw 2 proceed furthur?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Any1 koi kbi serious topic p bhi reply kerdiya kero :'(
This is a matter of love guys...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow. I honestly don't know how to respond to this because this sounds very filmy in the sense that I have only seen it in movies. I went to school with this girl in india who got married to one of the teachers at her school and they have a 3-4 year old son, their age difference is like 7 years. But I don't know the back story nor am I in touch with her so I cannot tell you how that might of turned out. However my suggestion to you is depending on how close you are to them, try sitting down with them and just be honest. if you don't want to do it face to face try writing it on paper and let them know through that.
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Take your time and be sure first .. You ur self said you are not sure ...
Then find ways to be friends with .. Filmy style ask for help ..

Friends banane ke baad aage ki tip dongi .. Kya pata Tera mood badal jaye aur meri tip waste hogi
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Tina, I want to tell you one incident happened in my college, One of my friends liked our Maths Lecturer , he was really a handsome guy and very lively person. The same thing my friend discussed with me in break and we were in dialemma how to approach him. After break we immediately had his class hr. One of the girls in our class said "Sir , you r looking very handsome in this dress, color really suits you " . He replied with a smiling face " Yes, but dont keep any hopes on me, I AM ALREADY ENGAGED" . We were shocked, it seemed as if he overheard our conversation. So pls first know more and more about him and share with me. I will suggest you a good idea my dear!!😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinatartari

Hi guys.tina here..hope u remember...
this is a real life situation..need ur help nd expert opinion plz..
m madly in love with(or its just that I think I love, nt sure) my teacher...he isnt actually teaching me nd we rarely had any interaction before..saw him 4 months bck nd I realized it just few days ago when we met again in my new rotation, call it destiny or anythng...he z so cute, more or less like dv nd he z also lively like him, nt with me but I saw him interacting with his male nd female colleagues...
m heads over heels in love 4 him but I cant propose 2 him directly as he might take it as a mischief or anythng...m fearful...
what should I do nd hw 2 proceed furthur?

.. Tina serious topic pe ...serious solution...hmmm...
1)...as u mentioned ur not sure of love...fist fix it...whether it is YES or NO. (PUCCA WALA DECISION LIKE DV )

2)...u are meeting him after months...so check in normal talk and conversion...how was he doing,,,,,any gfs...any relp etc...etc...before proceeding with ur feelings for him...nahin toh tumhara popat ho jaega (CONFIRM THAT NO ANKY IS THERE )

3) If ur confirmed with 1 and 2, then ...start...interacting with him...more often...join his grp of frnds, if both of u have common collegues...mix with him and his grp...as friend circle...(JAISA DV KA RELP ANKITA KE LIYE THA)...

abhi ittna hi...shayad aage kuch zarrorat na ho...YA TOH TUM PEECHE HAT JAOGI YA PHIR WOH PROPOSE KAR DEGA? (U WILL BECOME DILZ OR HE WILL BECOME UR DV...)😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He isnt my friend bt I ve tried seeking his help as per u guys hv said..even askedc4 his cell no in case we dnt find him in the clinic nd we need his assistance..we means me nd my frnds, but I ve nt told them about my interest...
but what furthur?hwcn I proceed?I didnt dare call orvtext him..lolx...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: hope20

Wow. I honestly don't know how to respond to this because this sounds very filmy in the sense that I have only seen it in movies. I went to school with this girl in india who got married to one of the teachers at her school and they have a 3-4 year old son, their age difference is like 7 years. But I don't know the back story nor am I in touch with her so I cannot tell you how that might of turned out. However my suggestion to you is depending on how close you are to them, try sitting down with them and just be honest. if you don't want to do it face to face try writing it on paper and let them know through that.



writing would b risky 4 me..he cn directly go 2 my dean nd give him a written proof of my love letter if he doesnt like it...hecn also go tell his colleagues abt this nd make fun of me..
I ve shared many eye locks wid him while passing by...lolx..bt m never sure its due 2 what?
I knw nothing about him just that probably he is of Asian descent..nothing else nd I cant b v free wid him cx probably he has a hint as 2 what I might come up with, thats what I think...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifrini

Take your time and be sure first .. You ur self said you are not sure ...

Then find ways to be friends with .. Filmy style ask for help ..

Friends banane ke baad aage ki tip dongi .. Kya pata Tera mood badal jaye aur meri tip waste hogi



Friends bananay ka tip do na ifrini plx..
he z senior me nd nt my batch mate or some1 I cn become frnds with..I try2 roam around him all the time nd try asking 4 help regarding studies..
he z sweet but to-the-point..
neither I knw hw 2 make thngs proceed furthur nor he himself takes any step..
though quite a few times he passed a smile when I passed by...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparna37

Tina, I want to tell you one incident happened in my college, One of my friends liked our Maths Lecturer , he was really a handsome guy and very lively person. The same thing my friend discussed with me in break and we were in dialemma how to approach him. After break we immediately had his class hr. One of the girls in our class said "Sir , you r looking very handsome in this dress, color really suits you " . He replied with a smiling face " Yes, but dont keep any hopes on me, I AM ALREADY ENGAGED" . We were shocked, it seemed as if he overheard our conversation. So pls first know more and more about him and share with me. I will suggest you a good idea my dear!!😃



how 2 know more about him?I hv no way other than him 2 approach him nd I dnt knw hw 2 ask him personal qs?any tip plx...

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