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sonapari

@sonapari

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi,guys.

I am watching RR everyday & I am loving it specially for the war of words between rudra & paro.

In past two episodes paro has shown that she is capable enough to give majorsa a piece of her mind whether he likes it or not.

So what are characteristics of strong woman?

Is a strong woman always supposed to shout,scream or slap ?

Or can she be shown as someone who is sensible,balanced & stands for her beliefs & values?

Someone who is gutsy enough to call a man "jallad" ...And bite him ...I mean literally...😆

Mind you he is the same man who has killed her husband on wedding day infront of her own eyes..

In SBS they showed rudra tells paro "if you try to kill yourself ,go ahead ...but remember everyone related to you will be burnt to ashes"...

Now what is she supposed to do in such situation?

The way she traded fire to fire talks with rudra in the jeep shows she isn't a weak character...

She had the guts to talk back to rudra & call him "jallad"...

so I think she is a strong character ...

Being a Strong woman doesn't mean you have to slap,shout ,scream every time... just a sentence said in cold blooded manner is enough to give chills if you ask me...

Though rudra is shown as headstrong,short tempered & the one with"don't mess with me attitude"...paro is shown with inner strength & calmness...

Calmness which might be considered her strength ...

Why should calmness be considered a weakness?

Being calm & collected under devastating circumstances is a huge challenge...

It's not everyone's cup of tea...

I from my own experiences have learnt that it's so easy to scream,shout when you get mad...

But it takes lot of courage to face horrible situations with dignity,calmness &grace...

Paro may not scream,shout but yep she has the guts to show rudra how much she hates him...how much she disrespects,detests him...so in my opinion she is a strong woman ...

Having said that I would love to watch her get too upset,angry at majorsa & just scold him so much that he will be bewildered ...

Personally I feel sanz looks super amazingly beautiful in scenes which her character is supposed to be upset/angry at the ML...

But in my mind Paro is a strong character & as story moves on,she is going to get evolved...

A girl who is orphaned in childhood...whose husband gets killed on wedding day in front of her own eyes...her sister just disappears or is supposed to be dead...decides to stay alive...

Whatever might be the reason... majorsa's threat of burning the whole village to ashes scares her so much that she decides not to kill herself...but she must be a brave woman to face such torture for the sake of her loved ones safety...

Such girl has to be a "strong woman" to stand up to life's brutal reality...

Brutal reality that she has to live...no matter how cruel circumstances are ...she has to carry on for the sake of lives of the ones who are dear to her...

Please share your thoughts...how would you define a strong woman?

Edited by sonapari - 11 years ago

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Swetha

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Posted: 11 years ago

Sanaya herself said her character isn't a strong woman...Big deal really it's different from anything she has done in the past I am sure her character will have more shades in the future. Right now she's going though a hardship like have some feelings as well for the character I remember crying for over 4 days when I lost my grandmother. Here were talking about a girl who been disowned, her husband been killed she's in a shaadi lehenga for over 3 days. How do people expect her to be? A bubbly widow running around doing a comedy? I was upset last week when people were calling the character irritating like give her time to heal already! I like how the makers are slowly building up Paro's character.

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sonapari

@sonapari

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Swetz-
Sanaya herself said her character isn't a strong woman...Big deal really it's different from anything she has done in the past I am sure her character will have more shades in the future. Right now she's going though a hardship like have some feelings as well for the character I remember crying for over 4 days when I lost my grandmother. Here were talking about a girl who been disowned, her husband been killed she's in a shaadi lehenga for over 3 days. How do people expect her to be? A bubbly widow running around doing a comedy? I was upset last week when people were calling the character irritating like give her time to heal already! I like how the makers are slowly building up Paro's character.

I know sanz said this character is not a strong woman ...

But my question is how do we define a strong woman?

My point is does a strong woman always have to fight,scream out loud,slap??????

Isn't there something called inner strength ?

These kind of people may not be called as emotionally volatile as rudra...

But that doesn't mean they are weak...

Doesn't it take lot of courage to stay alive after such atrocities???

I mean this character will evolve as story progresses...but just because she doesn't scream,slap doesn't mean she is weak...

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: sonapari

I know sanz said this character is not a strong woman ...
But my question is how do we define a strong woman?
My point is does a strong woman always have to fight,scream out loud,slap??????
Isn't there something called inner strength ?
These kind of people may not be called as emotionally volatile as rudra...
But that doesn't mean they are weak...
Doesn't it take lot of courage to stay alive after such atrocities???
I mean this character will evolve as story progresses...but just because she doesn't scream,slap doesn't mean she is weak...

I think she is fighting the best she can. She is going through a huge emotional turmoil and that can take away strength and drain a person completely. She is a captive and with whatever strength she has she did fight back Rudra , she did try to run away but the kind of circumstances she is in she cannot do much. She has to face this all calmly without falling apart !

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Posted: 11 years ago

Such a big lecture .
Paro is shown a weak character.
Calling rudra jallad doesn't make her strong women.
In one sbs moment they showed her tricking rudra but episode was scraped that was more promising .
The other day she had gun in her hand she could have ran pointing a gun towards him rudra was unconscious at that time .
What's with her when ever she is in front of rudra she faints to be carried that not chemistry to me atleast .
that is forced scenes.
Anyway we can't do about paro weak character hope she shine strong and fights out with rudra .
Why I said a slap means how dare rudra holds her like that and manhandling is big no to me.
Paro should n't allow him to touch her like that .

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Posted: 11 years ago

The episode of Paro running away is not scrapped but will feature this week. As there was a another segment showing Aman and Rudra looking for her

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Priyanka Agrawal

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Posted: 11 years ago

The episode of Paro running away will feature this week

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: priyanka3677
The episode of Paro running away will feature this week

Thank you..That will be interesting to watch how she tries to run away from Rudra !

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Deezi

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Posted: 11 years ago

I think the way CVs have shown the slow change in Paro is perfectly believable. ...they way she used to get scared stiff around Rudra before now she atleast retaliates verbally...the way she used to tremble in fear whenever he came close has changed to her standing her ground. ...little things such as these have conveyed that paro is actually very strong within...she just needed time to grieve, and come to terms with the fact she's all alone now...when she put the gun to her forehead...she gave in to weakness and was ready to end it all...just one line convinced not to kill herself...the hope of atleast one person willing to believe her...the fact that she threw that gun down and choose to live in situation she's in right now, a prisoner, with no support from the outside world, all alone willing to fight this beast of a man for her freedom is for me a sign of an incredibly strong woman.

Edited by DoJin - 11 years ago

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rafaya1

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: DoJin
I think the way CVs have shown the slow change in Paro is perfectly believable. ...they way she used to get scared stiff around Rudra before now she atleast retaliates verbally...the way she used to tremble in fear whenever he came close has changed to her standing her ground. ...little things such as these have conveyed that paro is actually very strong within...she just needed time to grieve, and come to terms with the fact she's all alone now...when she put the gun to her forehead...she gave in to weakness and was ready to end it all...just one line convinced not to kill herself...the hope of atleast one person willing to believe her...the fact that she threw that gun down and choose to live in situation she's in right now, a prisoner, with no support from the outside world, all alone willing to fight this beast of a man for her freedom is for me a sign of an incredibly strong woman.

You put it brilliantly .. 👏

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