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Posted: 14 years ago

do you have to have sex with some1 to prove that you love them?  I was talking to a frnd and she said that she only did it with her bf because he didn't think she loved him, so to prove to him, she had sex with him.  I was very surprised.  Does love really make you do stuff  Confused like that?  if you have to do stuff like that to prove to some guy u love them, then im glad im not in love! what do u think guys!

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Posted: 14 years ago
well i don't know any thing about it,, cuz i'm not in love he he
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Posted: 14 years ago

I believe sex is an expression of love.  It's up to the individual to determine when and how they feel the need to express their love.

And I don't think there should be any restrictions on it. 

Like for example, a girl falls in love with a guy and turly believe that she has the intentions of being with this person for the rest of her life and vice versa.  Let's assume both their decisions are mutual. I see no reason why they shoudn't have the right to express their feelings and love for each other.

Some times, there are some circumstances that don't allow for two individuals who love each other to end up being with each other, even in that case I believe that sex is ok.  Because sex (or making love) is a beautiful thing if two individuals feel the same love.  It's an expression, and to put limits on restrictions on it is something so unnatrual.

But the problem is that people abuse Sex and that results in totally different world.  That is the problem.  The limits and choices are dependant on your upbringing and our teachings that shape our individual views about it.  People have to know the results of their actions.

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Posted: 14 years ago
 if u really love him, and he really loves u, he wouldnt need reassurance about the fact that u loved him by having sex with him,... n if he does..i think he jus wants 2 git some Wink
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Posted: 14 years ago

Love and Sex are just two different things i can say

Sex is only one of the ways to express your love, on the other hand , if a relationship is maintained only by sex...then i dun see any love in this relationship.

There are still many ways to express your love to someone, but in hustle and bustle we just cant feel the love your mate to u, or you have just used to it.....

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Posted: 14 years ago
hmmm I agree with you all except when a guy tells you "show me you love me!" isn't exactly ummm.... lol... the "loving manner" anyone would want to hear well ... me anyway.

My AP English teacher has told me and my class so much regarding love and sex and when a guy wants to have sex with you (psst... my teacher studied in the medical field so she wasn't at all suprisingly afriad to discuss anything that revovled around sex because we were reading a lot of books that contains sex and so forth) they'll do almost "anything" most of the time to get some from you. And if they use the language of "gaming" then drop the guy immediately! ^__^ lol thats what she said! what can i say~ Wink

I'm not dismaying real and emotional love here but what I'm saying is... is that once a man suddenly starts to begin to have "special needs" isn't exactly a good thing. O__O Just thought you'd all like to know that because my teacher who has been divorced twice and remarried and has traveled almost all of europe (ummm i hope this fact reasurres some of you Big smile) that men will even go far enough to even "lie" no matter how much you deny it just to have sex with you.

Smile Good day everyone one and ummm... yes my teacher is a very open and educated lady I must say .... Smile But I trust what she says because I can never be as half as smart as she is no matter which university or college I attend. T_______T



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Posted: 14 years ago

If the guy really loved the girl, he would not ask her for sex, but would instead let the relationship flow and let love making come into it when it does. Having asked her for sex to prove her love, he has just played her to get what he wanted. Its not a relationship that would last if you need to prove your love to your partner.

Edited by Mysteriousguy - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
no no no no! if u really like a guy den sex is not da answer to prove it if ur frends bf really liked her den he wud neva tell her to prove her love!LOL
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