Originally posted by: kajribarunsobti
at last u understand me dear... I am really not in love... believe me I am not... but he is a friend... I have to say this to him, but he is not listening... he said I need time to think
aree I dont need any time... I sure
He is not for me
Well,
Let me tell you about a guy who I reckoned of when I read your post.
I was 16, chatting on Facebook and he was just a mutual friend. I had broken off from my first bf.
So this guy, who I was chatting with, was 18 when I was 16..and we talked and talked and he said he found me funny and more such stuff and that "I have feelings for you..yeh jaan le, okay?' and I said.."Okay...what did you eat?!" :P and he would still come back on this topic whenever we'd talk.. and I said "You told me we'd be friends, right?" and he'll say "Yeah, I'm sorry.." and then he became bitter and we never talked. He just might have felt hurt, I dunno..I felt wrong as well. I didn't blow him off, not at all. I just did not know how to deal with it. So I un-friended him :P and he sent me a request again and said why did you do that? I told him you don't wanna be friends anymore and you're talking rubbish so that's it. And he said "I'm a guy and I feel this way towards girls and all this becomes crucial at times."
So there. He felt hurt, and I came to know that guys are more sensitive than you think. And it takes a LOT OF COURAGE for them to propose a girl. We just became normal friends - nothing special, just friends. I never really knew if he still had feelings for me and I *sorry for sounding rude* did not care, 'cos I knew I didn't feel that way about him.
You cannot be forced to feel what you don't wanna feel. And it's your life, you should deny, say NO if you don't want to be with someone. And first of all, you're too young and you should have fun now. Not to forget, focus on your studies. Don't over think all this - just be strong in your decisions if you utterly and thoroughly feel it.
And you should enjoy the pampering and care you get ;P I know some girls don't like attention but oh well, it's always good and cherishing when you get it from close ones :)
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