Tips for Astha how to control Shlok

Communicate
Communicate with your partner openly. Tell him; how you feel when each time you have to do things the way he likes. Try to explain his calmly and peacefully that, you wish to have little more space in the relationship where, you can take few decisions for your own self. In this process of sorting out things, try to avoid getting into any kind of fights as they will close the scope of discussion for the next time. And, also remember that, as your husband has this habit of doing things his way, he might have a little trouble understanding your point of view so, handle the situation with care and patience because after all, communication is the key to a happy married life.

Don't take any kind of abuse

Never stay quiet and take any kind of physical, mental or verbal abuse from your husband. Your silence will not only portray you as weak but also, give him the strength to repeat all this over again the next time. Let your husband know that, you are his better half and have equal rights in the relationship. And, marriage has not made him a master and you a slave that he can do whatever he wants.
Seek help of family and friends
If, all your efforts to improve the situation seem to go in vain then, all you need to do is, ask a family member or a close friend, on whom your husband has great amount of trust and considers him/her to be a well wisher, to come and help you out. You never know, chances are that a third person is better able to explain your point of view to your husband who is just not ready to listen to you at all.
Get separated
If, nothing works at the end of the day then, there is no point holding on in an abusive relationship. Seek a divorce and gift your self freedom', from dominance and all kind of abuses.