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Posted: 11 years ago
new definition of forced marriage
now I have another gyan of a forced marriage
kisine bol diya
bete, tum agar ye shadi kar loge to
tumhari upar mangal ki mya, shani ki saya aa jayegi
it will be force marriage...
can't stop laughing...
nani ne forcefully vishnu ki shaadi kara di... through her taunting sermons...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Lamboo: Were you actually serious when you said that people can't be forced apart from kidnapping or threatening? Serious? SERIOUS? 🤣 🤣 Oh Gaad! Internet mein kaise ajeebo gharib cheezon se paala padte hai!

Tiny15: I never for once said that divorce at the drop of a hat is correct. NEVER. Adjustment and compromise are neccessary, without which a marriage can never work. In Western countries, people divorce often since the adjustment capacity is low. But here the question of all that does not arise (in case of MeeShu where people were in marriage because of majboori). And as Kesar pointed out, did Vishnu-Meethi REALLY try to make the marriage work? Did they?



how will they would have worked out that marriage
with that bhukad-nangad (bhikari taking money from pimp raghu)
makhi ki tarah vishnu-meethi ke
age pichhe bhan bhanati rahe
without giving them the space and time
and that psychotic girl blackmailing
by giving that stupdi 15-din ka mahlat...
so disgusting these two psycho supported by a lomdi pimp father...
ufff...cnnot even puke more on them and their so called luv-sab theory...
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: tiny15

lambooji bang on.and in us etc. mrgs r broken just on these grounds. an d there i rarely saw arranged or forced mrgs r done but mrgs r done based on luv & happiness but still divorce rate is more & their mrd lives r not happy even tho they say we luv each oder.



In Australia or America and many other countries Canada,Mexico,Russia,Spain,Sweden, this phenomenon is called no-fault divorce permitted by law. No-fault divorce is a divorce in which the dissolution of a marriage does not require a showing of wrongdoing by either party.Laws providing for no-fault divorce allow a family court to grant a divorce in response to a petition by either party of the marriage without requiring the petitioner to provide evidence that the defendant has committed a breach of the marital contract.

There are aguments for and against No-fault divorce law. Indian Americans living in America marry both arranged and love and many do not use No-fault divorce law due to cultural differences. But the choice is there for all to make use of it whereas in India this no-fault divorce law is not there.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Lamboo: Were you actually serious when you said that people can't be forced apart from kidnapping or threatening? Serious? SERIOUS? 🤣 🤣 Oh Gaad! Internet mein kaise ajeebo gharib cheezon se paala padte hai!

Tiny15: I never for once said that divorce at the drop of a hat is correct. NEVER. Adjustment and compromise are neccessary, without which a marriage can never work. In Western countries, people divorce often since the adjustment capacity is low. But here the question of all that does not arise (in case of MeeShu where people were in marriage because of majboori). And as Kesar pointed out, did Vishnu-Meethi REALLY try to make the marriage work? Did they?

dear i wasn't meant that u said abt drop off hat divorce.
meeshu got mrd in majboori but they were really trying atleast on physical level bcoz 2 overcum or making mrg work it bcums difficult menatlly.
it doens't mean that if wid in 15-20 days u r mentally not able 2 4get ur ex then u r not trying.
they showed them tried bcoz meeshu never lied 2 each oder.
i was saying they were not given space & time 2 move on proper

oder ppl'v e difft POVs that they didn't try but in all meehsu epis i saw them trying 2 move on esply vishnu & even meethi tried but immedietaly after 2 days of their mrg their ex escame hovering them. so how much they tried it luked like they r not trying.and they also felt bit weak which any1 can.
they were not shown rembring all moments all the times. sumtimes wenever they'd direct encounter wid ak or mukta then only rembrd them & vishnu toh i never saw rembring those moments once he deleted the pics. he only rembrd her threat that she"ll harm herself. and even the pic he'd in diary was just remained there bcoz i don't rembr mukta or he'd exchnaged any flower or any gifts btn them . once he wanted 2 give her ear rings but rohini thot hes giving 2 her but he made it luk like he wanted 2 gift meethi sumthing.(rembr that phone convo b4 mrg)

and i m telling u that in reality ppl r not liking meeshu mrg breaking. many of frnds elders & even my cousins who r still youngsters r not liking it. they wanted mukash mrg. bcoz no normal & ommon ppl"ll ever like mrg breaking esply meeshu types where it cud b worked on.

so i wud say that Meeshu did try & they even started 2 move on like vishnu openly supporting meethi & asking mukta 2 hav normal relation as they r in same family & even meethi said 2 her mnay times that vishnu never lies. so that means they were trying but bcoz of hovering of their exes thta bcame difficult. arre yaar give them space & time.

if i'd been @ place of mukta i wud'd never accepted back the prsn even if he wanted 2 cum back 2 me. bcoz the prsn who can't respect mrg like institution how will he keep me happy??
and same applies 2 vishnu if i'd been @ his place i wudn'td accepted back that gal who made fun of me & my morals & always taunted me

and even now mukta' has prob wid vishnu's morals wen he refused the gift by rpr. both duo's face fell. and they seem 2 agree wid naani. its only wen jogi praised vishnu then rpr said that he respects his khuddari but his expressions were still like not agreeing wid him & even mukta'd false smile on her face wen she agreed.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: tiny15



Mukhta and Rathore felt disappointed because the house was a gift from Rathore out of his love for his daughter. Girl's parents shower lot of gifts in the name of dowry for their daughters to have more comfortable lives. Vishnu chose not to accept the gift because of his morals for being independent. Again it is Love vs Morals issue in the forefront.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: vijrati



In Australia or America and many other countries Canada,Mexico,Russia,Spain,Sweden, this phenomenon is called no-fault divorce permitted by law. No-fault divorce is a divorce in which the dissolution of a marriage does not require a showing of wrongdoing by either party.Laws providing for no-fault divorce allow a family court to grant a divorce in response to a petition by either party of the marriage without requiring the petitioner to provide evidence that the defendant has committed a breach of the marital contract.

There are aguments for and against No-fault divorce law. Indian Americans living in America marry both arranged and love and many do not use No-fault divorce law due to cultural differences. But the choice is there for all to make use of it whereas in India this no-fault divorce law is not there.

yes i agree wid u abt this no fault angle divorce in abroad.
in India theres no-fault angle divorce. bcoz here its bcoz of culture diff. ppl here how much get modern they still believe that mrg is a sacred institution.
and thatshwy here mrgs r more successful & even ppl r happy in these mrgs even tho sumtimes they got mrd 2 each oder in majboori etc.

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Posted: 11 years ago
u r saying this weak relation should falls on its own no one should point it out , n i feel it does not matter a weak relationship falls in 6hr or 6 months because its meant to be broken.

yeah . in my eyes outside inteference to THIS level is an absolute NO and cannot be glorified or justified , EVER .
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Posted: 11 years ago
seems our youngistan (at least a few of them)
are ready for this
chat byah (marriage) pat divorce (no-fault divorce or whatever you call that)
imported into India
instead of sanctity of marriage as practiced in India
iss desh ko to aab Ram hi Bachaye...sorry naniji...Ram hi Rakhe...
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: vijrati

no dear their face fell bcoz mukta wanted 2 live in bigger house.bcoz even wen jogi praised him 4 his khuddari. rpr & mukta unwillingly happy. see their expressions.

an di m telling u this thimg will defntly cum btn mukta & vishnu.
mukta doesn't like his morals & vishnu mite'ev weakened once 4 mukta but he won't do it again & will feel suffocated. mukta is mild version of taps.

and rembr mai & umed also gifted them BN but @ that time also vishnu refused saying same thing. but neither mai nor umed or meethi or damini's face fell rather they were happy. but then they said that they r not giving it as gift but wanted them 2 take care of their home.an dmeethi happily told him she can live wid him in a small room but she didn't want 2 leave it a sits home & didn't wnat ak 2 ruin it.
thatshwhy i m saying their face fell bcoz again they r not agreeing wid his usools.

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Posted: 11 years ago
I just felt this about compatibility


Vishnu loved and respected Meethi's mother

Akash and his family HATED Meethi's mother

Damini would have supported Vishnu's usools and encouraged Meethi to respect them

Meethi herself never made fun of them

Mukta hates his usools

but i guess [ ????] she likes his looks[ ??????]

coz she says she feels 'pyaar'

pyaar for what

his looks or some meetings where his thoughts were not known and one only basked in teenagerish nasha

now she knows

and INSPITE of the incompatibility she is going ahead .

the incompatibiliy never was in Vishnu Meethi but always in Vishnu Mukta

and though i have said that incompatible couples do work on a marraige i agree totally with Dolly that the compatibiliy is there in the basic nature . Here the basic nature itself is different .
Regarding RPR i will say he only looked out for himself although he does Ichaji Ichaji ...he brought about a second divorce for Ichaji's daughter for his daughter's obstinacy ...the same Ichaji due to which his wife is alive and is telling Ichaji's daughter to go BACK to the psychotic family . The only difference is he says it all with a smile and very very politely .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago

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