Tanisha Equally at Fault in Today's Fight!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Some people found Tanisha's stance really impressive in today's episode and I dont understand why...

Tanisha never voiced her opinion about agreeing with vivek to others. The housemates initially started laughing at vivek cause he is new and didnt take his statement to be valid, as they have been here longer and have no room for any new suggestions apparently. But if tanisha had agreed with him in front of everyone, the whole fight could have gone a diff direction.

She remained a bystander while someone got bullied and thats almost equally as bad as being the bully in my opinion. I am not saying that she should have joined in the fight and screamed her head off, but simply supporting vivek's statement in a calm manner to everyone (even once!) would have helped. I cant seem to find any reasons as to why her finishing her assigned task during the whole fight is so impressive to everyone...

Did i miss something from the episode because i have no clue as to why her behavior in the fight should be respected. 😕

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If you stop taking a stand even when you know what's happening is wrong in fear of getting blood on your hands then that is just sad and cowardly. Even though she never egged kushal on like the others, disagreeing with the bully IN SILENCE as the victim gets hurt is wrong!

The fact that a bystander is bad is just basic info that everyone should know about bullying!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I've been critical of Tanisha in recent epis but sorry - not today. To say she was equally at fault is a bit too much. This should be applicable to Kamya & Pratts who were acting as Kushal's sidekicks.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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she was sane today 👍🏼
pratz and kamy a was side kick of that bandar kushal 🤪
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zinnia.TaaRey

I've been critical of Tanisha in recent epis but sorry - not today. To say she was equally at fault is a bit too much. This should be applicable to Kamya & Pratts who were acting as Kushal's sidekicks.


Obviously what Kamya and Pratyusha did was wrong, there is no argument there! I am just talking about tanisha here 😊

The bully and the bystander both do nothing to help the victim and the situation so as i said, in my opinion, they are almost equally bad
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Posted: 12 years ago
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You are right the whole fight would have gone in a diff direction, in the direction of fight against Tanisha, Vivek ko chod ke sab usse fight karna sure ho jaate... 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree...I too did find that Tanisha was passively trying to add fuel to Vivek's ire... 😊 Also I don't support Kamya n Pratyusha who were giggling n encouraging Kushal to stretch his prank n mocking...

Although I think pranks should only be pulled at people with whom you share a certain level of rapport n I condemn Kushal for mocking Vivek; I found Vivek's outbursts way OTT, may be he was trying to get some footage as he was nominated for eviction this week... 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Heyybabyydolll


Obviously what Kamya and Pratyusha did was wrong, there is no argument there! I am just talking about tanisha here 😊

The bully and the bystander both do nothing to help the victim and the situation so as i said, in my opinion, they are almost equally bad



But who helps anyone in that house? No one. Everyone is a bystander unless they have an agenda or personal interest.

I understand your point of view. If I was a contestant, I would probably intervene! But today I was so disguisted by others, I'm not going criticise Tanisha because others deserve it much more.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Not a fan of Tanisha at all but I don't think she was at fault today at all. She had nothing to do in it, as simple as that. I didn't find her impressive or anything but she wasn't wrong or at fault either.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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👎🏼cant stand the flurry of positive comments for tanisha ?😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: spookys

You are right the whole fight would have gone in a diff direction, in the direction of fight against Tanisha, Vivek ko chod ke sab usse fight karna sure ho jaate... 😆


Sorry but if you stop taking a stand even when you know what's happening is wrong in fear of getting blood on your hands then that is just sad and cowardly. Even though she never egged kushal on like the others, disagreeing with the bully IN SILENCE as the victim gets hurt is wrong!

The fact that a bystander is bad is just basic info that everyone should know about bullying!

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