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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'm talking about Bhabo. She does'nt want to keep any relation with her own son , she does'nt want to share her problem with him but she wants his money to do her daughter wedding preparation. What a shame. Why she didn't tell Suraj she has no right on his FD money when she break all the relation with him. What kind of mom is she? This is very sad.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Oh you said it right... she is a selfish, arrogant and ungrateful mother!!!😡
Edited by NeelM - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Babho 's love is buried under layers and layers of wounded ego, false pride, insecurities, prejudices, and stubbornness. She is reacting like a wounded lion, growling and licking its wounds. she wants totake revenge - like u left me so u suffer. She knows suraj cannot be without her. She is depriving suraj of one thing that she knows will surely hurt him. Withdrawing her love. Otherwise she has no other way of retaliating or keeping her hold on him. Surya r financially independent unlike her other sons. It has always been EA that has worked for her in getting her way with suraj and sandy. She is used to getting her way by whatever means. But suraj has shown now,by leaving ,to what extent he would go to support his wife. That is something she needs to understand and accept.

Only when trouble comes and she takes a beating she understands she needs suraj too. not only his money, but his support, love, understanding, his immense respect for her. All that she thinks she is , queen of RP, only possible with surya around. Otherwise her subjects rebel and there is only utter chaos.
It takes time and right frame of mind (here made possible by fj, chavvi's marriage, kids fighting, the love and adoration surya show her even when separated ) to realize her mistakes and call them back.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Nancy_

I'm talking about Bhabo. She does'nt want to keep any relation with her own son , she does'nt want to share her problem with him but she wants his money to do her daughter wedding preparation. What a shame. Why she didn't tell Suraj she has no right on his FD money when she break all the relation with him. What kind of mom is she? This is very sad.


@red: Good point 😆

Or maybe she feels that at the time that FD was made he was her good son and so it is okay to keep...but from now on end she won't take his help.

Either way...she has huge ego issues, and until she faces them there will be no peace, either in her life or SurYa's
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Posted: 12 years ago
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While I agree with your post's details, I am not sure if I would use any derogatory terms as "Shameless" for an elderly person like Bhabho, but that's just me. May be you steped over the line, think about it..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am quite surprised by CVs math, Suraj won roughly 46 lakh in Indian Rs and had an FD for entire amount. Now bhabo needs roughly 5-6 lakes for jewelry and 6-8 lakes for wedding, but that still leaves bhabo with quite money to spare. I mean I understand if she refuses to take money from Suraj's FD but taking some and not other is beyond me for insane math logic.
She is willing to sell pushteeni kamarband but not take more money from FD to cover both expenses.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i think sandy asked suraj to donate some or half amount of WTC money to charity ( poor girls who are finding it difficult to study due money issues).
if i'm right, that might be the reason there are low on money
Edited by irobo2050 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Bhabo knows where to hit and who to hit. Bhabo knows that Suraj will give up his life for her if needs be.
Suraj will never complain if bhabo takes all his money. Bhabo can be as cruel as she wants to Suraj but his love for her will never falter.

Bhabo has no shame or conscience when it has anything to do with Suraj and Sandhya she does not like them but she loves their money.

Bhabo has insulted Sandhya on many many occasions and cause them mental torture but they still love her. It was only on a few occcasions that bhabasa said anything to bhabo when she was abusive and cruel to them.

In tonight's episode bhabasa had a lot to say since it was about his daughter.

Parents should be the ones to pay for their children's wedding. Bhabo wants a grand wedding for Chavi then she should pay for it with her own money, she should not expect her sons to pay for their sister's wedding. Financial help from her sons should be voluntary and not forced nor make them feel guilty.

According to bhabo Suraj is not her son but he is her neighbour so bhabo will be stealing Suraj money if she use his money for the wedding.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes Diyafan, I. was thinking the same thing. We know Suraj spent some money on stuff. 3.5 lakhs on Mohit's wedding. May be about 50,000 on Meena's baby shower, 50.000 on Chavi's necklace, 70.000 stolen by Meena. I know he bought some gold for Sandhya upon bhabho's request. Maybe 1 lakh. Another 50,000 on tv and other expenses. So close to 7 lakhs have been spent. I think they used 2 lakhs for charity. Emily caused a loss of about 1 Lakh. That leaves about 37 lakhs. . Plus he runs a successful shop. Bhabho must have saved up some money over the years. Why are they going all crazy? Why SurYa are worried? Time bloopers have always been there. Now money bloopers too?😕
What is the tax rate in India?If is 20%' we can assume another close to 10 lakhs gone. Still he should be left with 27.😕
Edited by Deebz - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree with your point of
claiming his FD money when she said suraj is only her neighbour

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