Why Ovi can never be the victim

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Posted: 12 years ago
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A number of fans of the show have defended Ovi as a victim in the Arjun-Purvi love astory...what I cannot fathom, is how can this person be considered a victim when she practically blackmailed Purvi into giving up Arjun for her. Granted Purvi should have stood up for her but from what I saw, Ovi was not exactly virtuous but downright selfish and greedy. She not only wanted what her sister had but didn't care what Arjun wanted either.

She got her marriage with Arjun but she was a miserable mess throughout and she didn't once realize that perhaps Arjun didn't love her. To me that's a very self-centered person who doesn't have the ability to see beyond herself. The only time I have ever agreed and felt for her was with her is that she was entitled to have seen and held her baby but Onir, at the request of Purvi, passed it off as their kid and tragically she never got to see it.

For me Ovi has never been a likable character; she was never well written and never given any qualities that could make a viewer embrace her. All her behaviors bordered on selfishness. Not once did the writers show her develop any insight in that she had taken Arjun away from Purvi or ever show any appreciation or warmth to her sister who was overly sacrificial to her. And while I found it utter nonsense what Purvi did but at least you can show some appreciation for it.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Excellent post, Laila and I completely agree with it!
Ovi was never a likeable character, even before she made that nefarious deal! She was rude to Archana and other elders, she was selfish, egoistic, arrogant, obnoxious in her behavior with others whom she thought was beneath her! She always had this attitude that she owned Arjun! Her only goal in life was to GET him!
HIS wishes and desires didnt hold any importance for her!
She never had the ability to see beyond herself! That statement sums her up!
She even threw a heavily pregnant Purvi out of Deshmukh house because she was jealous and insecure...and this even AFTER that same Purvi brought Onir to Kolkata to treat Ovi and save her unborn child.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Superb post Laila & Pallavi Di. Completely agree with both post.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I totally agree.. If ovi has showed this matured behaviour earlier, she migh not have suffered..
she is not a victim. victim is Arjun who struggled and tried to love her always, bt cant..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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They're all just a little crazy but that's what makes it interesting to watch.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi put herself in this position; however, she is not the only reason for what has transpired in her life and those around her. I did not like her character much in the beginning, but she did make an effort to succeed in her relationship with Arjun. Instead of making Ovi feel more secure, he ignored her emotions and at times was offensive. If he showed some care and affection as he did to Purvi now (such as when Purvi was second guessing herself about speaking up to Arjun in front of a client), Ovi's and Arjun's relationship would not have suffered as much. My point is that Ovi is partly victimized due to the circumstances of her life.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: stary2325

I totally agree.. If ovi has showed this matured behaviour earlier, she migh not have suffered..
she is not a victim. victim is Arjun who struggled and tried to love her always, bt cant..

totally agree with you...arjun suffered a lot because of all the sacrifices and melodaramas gone by
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with you, In my eyes ovi is horrible for what she did , with one deal she "bought" arjun and insulted her mother at the same time. What i never understood is why everyone enabled her bad behavior? In the beginning archana did not but then she started giving into her tantrums too😕 I am so glad i don't have to see this horrible character ovi on the show right now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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oci is a moron who did not understand what is love
but i would like to add she was not the only crazy one..
someone sold Arjun..
and arjun is not a spoon feeding baby that he couldnt refuse.
he slapped ovi quite a few number of times, what stopped him from slappin ovi and telling her to get lost.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi and victim?!? 😲 Sorry to say, but it sounds just ridiculous, because she herself put her in that situation! 😳

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