Why Ovi can never be the victim - Page 2

onir is not a spoon feeding baby that he couldn't refuse Purvi's baby swapping advice. He was world renowned doctor. He know very well how to handle her patient.

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

onir is not a spoon feeding baby that he couldn't refuse Purvi's baby swapping advice. He was world renowned doctor. He know very well how to handle her patient.

Originally posted by: stary2325

I totally agree.. If ovi has showed this matured behaviour earlier, she migh not have suffered..
she is not a victim. victim is Arjun who struggled and tried to love her always, bt cant..

😆😆thats the most hilarious joke i hve ever heard...😃😃 arjun and victim????????
arjun had a good time sleeping with both the girl. he wasnt a victim.

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i too feel that ovi was never a Victim of Arjun and Purvi's love. but her suffering was the cause of her own selfish and selfcenteredness. Ovi dose not even have the generosity of heart to spare the family the pain of being without her. she understands that Arjun does not love her and will never stop loving purvi. but she does not understand that she and she alone is responsible for her own unhappiness. now she wants Arjun to marry purvi but she does not want to witness their happiness. but selfish cuts herself out of their lives and her parents life by staying away and living in another country.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

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<font size="2">A relationship that starts off where you emotionally blackmail someone into being with you knowing they are in love with someone else, it is not expected of them to make a marriage work. Therefore, I cannot blame Arjun here.</font>

Interestingly enough, this description fits Purvi to. Emotionally blackmailing Arjun to be with someone else when she knows that he loves her...I didn't expect this marriage to work.

Originally posted by: xodramalover

Interestingly enough, this description fits Purvi to. Emotionally blackmailing Arjun to be with someone else when she knows that he loves her...I didn't expect this marriage to work.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

But the main difference is Arjun still loves Purvi and wants her back in his life! 😃And they have a little child together...Purvi also loves him but denying the fact due to family and societal considerations. Eventually she will relent and give in. So there is no doubt their marriage will work because they are meant to be together. Ovi just forced her way in between them! Its not possible to buy someone's love by bargaining...it doesnt work that way! 😆

I totally agree with this point! Forcing someone to do something never works. This is my point; Purvi and Ovi forced Arjun into a relationship he didn't want to commit to. Because of this I can't view Purvi or Ovi as victims, since they both put themselves in this situation.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

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<font size="2">A relationship that starts off where you emotionally blackmail someone into being with you knowing they are in love with someone else, it is not expected of them to make a marriage work. Therefore, I cannot blame Arjun here.</font>

Laila2009, i agree with you that a relationship that started off wrong will never work. In my opinion, a man who got into an affair with another woman in india while still in a relationship with a woman in canada can also be considered as one of the reasons for lack of peace in a relationship as bad karma is haunting the relationship. I blame all three, not just one, not just two but all three of them. First Arjun as he was the root cause of the love triangle. For hiding his real status from purvi as well as for keeping the truth from ovi (about having met and fallen in love with another woman) In short, Arjun cheated both girls for his own selfish reasons. Then second is purvi despite knowing that the man she fell in love with was already about to be married to her adoptive mother's daughter she still went ahead and continued with her relationship with arjun and even got engaged with him... and lastly Ovi for blindly loving a man who clearly never loved her and for putting herself in a loveless marriage. Arovi marriage will never work, i agree so it's a relief to see ovi realize and rectify her mistakes and moved on with her life. She deserves someone who will return her love and loyalty. This is just my POV laila2009. No intention to offend you.